I think I raped my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I think I might have raped my boyfriend. We aren't really sexual when we are together we only make out, when he came to sleep over at my place he seemed tense so i offered him sex and he refused. I kept on nagging him and I ended up crying, he felt bad and started making out with me but stopped when we were getting to the sex part. I felt angry so I started punching him but he just stood there with no reaction so I just went to bed but I woke up feeling very horny he was asleep next to me so i took my chance and started blowing him to make him hard, when he got an erection I got on top of him and started having sex with him, when he woke up he tried pushing me off and he was very angry but I wouldn't let him until he stopped fighting and had sex with me willingly. After that I tried to apologize because I felt bad but he didn't said anything about it just that I should never do it a again. Was this rape or just normal?

[loveisbeautiful]

I don't know if that would stand up in court of law, but what you did would be the definition of rape. So, obviously that's not normal. I mean, everybody gets horny but they usually don't attack their significant other when they are sleeping. Why not just wait or take care of it yourself, why do that to him while he's sleeping? That's just wrong.

Some questions for you 1) Since you did make him have sex with you against his will, did you really expect he'd be happy about it and want to chit chat about it? How is him being angry and not talking you, actually a surprise?

2) You ask if what you did was rape or normal, but yet everyone who say's it's rape you seem to be defending you actions to by saying "After awhile he stopped resisting and participated willingly". So, if think you did nothing wrong, why ask the question?

[Esplorare]

Yes, you forced yourself on him despite his blatant indication that he did not want to have sex with you. You should be ashamed of yourself. This act kinda sorta really makes you a disgusting human being and a pathetic excuse for a woman.
Try to think outside of your own coochie next time and don't let your genital override INTEGRITY, MORALS, AND DECENCY. Don't violate someone's personal space: when they say no it means NO so fuck off and stop thinking about yourself as if your needs are all that matter.

[cookiesandcream]

That is definitely not normal. Girl, you raped your boyfriend. No wonder he doesn't want to talk to you. It doesn't matter that he stopped fighting after awhile the point is HE FAUGHT that means he didn't want it. You can't do that to your partner. If the roles were reversed the guy could go to jail.

[Asker]

No I wouldn't take him to jail especially if I consented afterwards.

[cookiesandcream]

I'm not saying you would take him to jail but the girl could because it is rape.

[Anonymous]

Yeah it's rape.

You punched him because he didn't give you sex (what kind of cunt are you?), then you had sex while he was asleep, and even though he ended up giving up and let you do it, he was really against it and you forced him first.
Of course he gave up, what choice did he have? beat you up? ... you forced him.

If he had done ONLY HALF of what you did, he could go to jail.

I should make you read what some girls write when they think they get rapped by their boyfriend... It takes them only a fraction of what you did to start feeling raped and cry and all that shit.

But because you have a pussy... double standards. Nobody is gonna care.

[throwit]

Depends on if he presses charges or not. But most guys won't come forward :/

[Martin86]

you are a monster if you where a man and he was a women your ARSE would be in jail your a horrible person, and the double standards to day. there is no willing part you are deluded. you belong in jail but that won't happen in this society today, I just hope that your not pregnant as that guys life will be ruined. I do not care if it say I am calling you out even though you women and should not go easier on you just because of that. your total Scum you can do a lot of mental damage and create a lot of trust. you belong in jail.

[boreddragon]

I would consider that rape. He told you multiple times he didn't want to, he was asleep when you started (without his permission), he told you to stop when he first woke up (which you ignored). Wouldn't you consider it rape if he did that to you?

[Asker]

He did consented after a while, I was just persistent.

[boreddragon]

Consent should not be something you get "after a while" especially since he told you no, repeatedly, beforehand. Consent does not come in the middle, or after an act; the only true way consent is obtained is beforehand and without it the act is rape.

[justyouraveragegal17]

That's definitely rape... you should've NEVER done that.

[Asker]

I don't think it's really rape if he consented after some time.

[justyouraveragegal17]

If that were to happen to a girl it would be considered rape and the man would be in prison.

[sandyyy_]

you're a rapist.

[hypno-trip]

That's kind of harsh...

[hypno-trip]

ah whatever I give up sorry for downvoting you

[Asker]

I'm not a rapist and you can't call me that. He had sex with me willingly I apologized and he forgave me.

[sandyyy_]

Lots of people agree that she raped him; and if you rape someone you're a rapist, no? Many victims forgive their rapists but that doesn't change anything. Put yourself in his shoes and see how wrong what you did really is.

[cookiesandcream]

@hypno-trip are you serious right now

[hypno-trip]

@cookiesandcream I don't want to hurt people's feelings...

[cookiesandcream]

@hypno-trip oh my... I can't even

[JulyAndrews]

You raped him. And you should go to prison.

But oviously this is just a troll..

[aamy811]

Yes you raped him you need to go apologize

[fiodor99]

need to apologise? apologise? are you serious? if it was a man, you would have crucified him, and now thats a girl that commited the same attrocious crime, its just a little thing that passes with an apology... ?

[Keener33]

Apologize? isn't prison the penalty?

[aamy811]

@fiodor99 I hate her and think she's awful. I think she should report herself but she probably won't so at the very least she could say she's sorry. I hope her boyfriend reports her

[aamy811]

@Keener33 ^^^^^

[PureBliss]

Well hate to say it but an apology would not be something I even wanted to hear after that happened. Gross.

[aamy811]

@PureBliss it's not something is want to hear either but it's the least try can do

[SunDevil11]

Yeah you raped him. Hope he leaves you. Consent can only be given when fully awake and aware of the situation. It must also be obtained before starting the act of sex and not anytime after you start. He repeatedly refused, so yes you raped him. Rapist

[TheLittleBuggy]

Is this a troll question?

Yes it's rape. You took a guy who was willing to respect you enough to wait for sex, and forced him into it. Congratulations, you aren't only a rapist, but a severe idiot.
Unfortunately he probably won't report you to the police like you deserve out of embarrassment, and they wouldn't take it seriously anyway. You are one sick twisted female if this is even a question.

[justbanANNAz]

pretty sure u already know ur a bitch, whether this story is real or not.

[justbeinghonest]

That's rape in my opinion.

[Asker]

He did it willingly afterwards.

[justbeinghonest]

Who are you trying to convince you or me?

[seabubble33]

Seriously? I hope you're just being immature and joking. This was definitely NOT consensual! You raped him, go turn yourself in to police or something...

[Martin86]

she should turn her self in, or he should go to the police but they will just laugh at him sadly.

[AzzaBlue84]

You realise you just wrote a confession don't you, and it could probably be used against you in court.

[Mustachekitteh]

Yes U raped him and he should dump your ass for being so pushy about it. You were being a horrible cunt to him. Honestly I don't see how he could ever trust you again. You didn't try to make him feel better if that was the case you would have done what he said and left him alone if you cared about him at all. You didn't care about him and only gave in to your selfish needs and ignored what he wanted.

[TinyTinaWuzHere]

You raped him... you should talk about it with him...

[kebab97]

I think its a rape...

[xkellier94x]

The fact you have to ask this is sickening. If this was the other way around he'd be arrested right now.

[phanindra554plus]

Hats off this is true😊

[doireallyneedone]

I read something like this and I think to myself... how are there so many guys having trouble getting a girl?

[hypno-trip]

lol man

[AleDeEurope]

That's rape. Can you give me your personal details so I can call the cops? Thanks :)

[hypno-trip]

lol man funny

[AleDeEurope]

@hypno-trip I think she's trolling though cause it's the same question as one some hours ago that got deleted.

[Asker]

He didn't call the cops why would you?

[AleDeEurope]

Cause you raped him. You know how many people out there (men and women) get raped and don't call the cops? Hundreds. Some are scared, some don't wanna be humiliated, but the right thing is to call the cops and put the rapist ass in jail, and in this case, it's your ass.

[DaveyBaby107]

He didn't call the cops because rarely does anyone listen when a guy calls rape.

[AleDeEurope]

@DaveyBaby107 "Toughen up buddy, it's time for you to be a man -_-" that's what they'll probably say, unfortunately.

[DaveyBaby107]

It's true.

[smexiliciousss]

Yes you were trying to rape him

[thatkaruguy]

By every definition legal, moral and official that is rape

[laughingdeer]

Rape. Not cool.