Fingering and oral sex, on a virgin?

Question

So, my boyfriend and I went to the movies yesterday and we were making out. He moved the arm rest to get closer, anyway, as we were kissing he had his hand on my shoulder, I moved it down to my boob. Then later on the touched my thigh and he started rubbing my vagina through my pants. It felt great, I felt great. So I started rubbing him through his pants. So we were talking about it and he talked about fingering me or performing oral sex and I'm okay with it but, I'm 16 and a virgin. I told him I don't want to go any further and he said he's okay with it. We've been dating for 6 months. So my questions are..

1. Can he finger me or have oral sex if I'm a virgin 
2. If he does finger me, will it hurt
3. Will him fingering me "Pop my cherry" as people say.
4. Does oral sex on a virgin even cause any pleasure?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

1. I'm honestly not sure if you're still a virgin if he has oral sex with you. I am wrestling with this myself.
2. It can hurt, it feels a bit like when you don't put your tampon in far enough. But not too bad, its more just uncomfortable. Fingering
3. It depends how deep he goes. If he doesn't go as deep as your hymen, then no. The hymen is the layer of skin covering the vagina, and when something goes in your vagina and breaks through that layer, that's "popping the cherry."
4. Oral sex does cause pleasure. For women, the place we receive pleasure is actually not in the vagina. Our sex organ is actually the clitoris, with should be just above your urethra, on the bottom side of your mound/pelvic bone area. Rubbing the clitoris is what gives women sexual stimulation, not sticking things in the vagina. Although there is a G-spot for some women wayyy far up the vagina, it's very difficult to get at. If you want pleasure, have him focus on your clitoris, and occassionally stick his tongue in your vagina. But fingering isn't the most pleasurable experience especially if you're a virgin.

67ChevyImpala · Accepted Answer

1.) Yeah
2.) If he starts slow and listens to you then no. But if he goes to rough to quickly then yes. My advice to make sure it dosen`t hurt is to test the `waters` firstly on your own, Just to know where you pleasure limit ends and the pain limit starts.
3) No it will not. And if it does then he is going to rough and you should make him be more careful or use some type of lube to make it feel more flexibel. .
4.) Depends. I`ve myslef never been much for fingering, I`m much more like oral or penatration.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

be careful dont take it to far im a teen mom and can say from experience that just because you say you dont want to go farther doesn't mean you won't I've got a two year old. didn't plan to have sex we were just making out unti it went to far. i was 15

godfatherfan · Accepted Answer

1) yes 2) don't know, not a woman 3) possible and probable 4) of course

Klaatu51 · Accepted Answer

guess he can, but i believe it'll hurt if u never masturbated before :|

fwbplease · Answer

Yes it feels ok but nothing beats the real thing. You can reach orgasm due to clitoral stimulation. So called dry humping is what I remember about high school lol

live4love · Answer

I'm a virgin but I do that with my guy, he gets hurt when it's through jeans though. Underwear is good because it gets slick enough to feel like nothing is there he will take of his underwear while mine is still on sometimes. However we have upgraded to fully naked which I can understand you're not ready that's perfectly fine and awesome you know your limits. Anyways that feels good for the both of us. I've came a couple times in my underwear and a lot naked but we never could do it long enough in jeans before it hurt him for me to get off.

thisguy1234 · Answer

it would feel better with just the underwear. why don't you guys just take off your clothes tho?

Klaatu51 · Answer

through jeans? difficult wouldn't it be?

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

Yeah wouldn't be a problem for me either way ,

HereForTheDay · Answer

Fingering can pop your cherry, yes. Look at a few pictures. Do you still even have an intact hymen?

ClariceOwen23 · Answer

That's how I had my first orgasm with a guy. I love it

Consultant · Answer

You'll definitely make his day by doing that lol. Be careful though Miss Under 18..

Carlosarias82 · Answer

for the first dates its cute, but it gets old quick

chnapo · Answer

I love when a girl rubs my dick through pants, she can easily finish me this way, too. If you just rub and do not finish, then there is a problem, you turn him on and just let him calm down again. Also I can make my girlfriend off by rubbing her through pants, but it is a bit more difficult.