Guys, how come you only allow girls to look and touch your cock during sex? And only when you initate it?

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My husband only lets me see and touch his penis during sex. He won't let me while he's getting dressed, taking a shower or taking a piss. He never gives me access to initiate sex either. he's always working at the shop with the guys or sleeping and he sleeps on his stomach so I can't grab it, like he's purposly trying to stop me from access Why is that? How come he's allowed to see and touch me whenever he wants.  Its not fair.

HandsomeRaj · Accepted Answer

The MHO has covered almost everything but there's another things. Has he always been that way since the beginning that he doesn't like his penis touched when not having sex? If yes then you should also know that every individual has certain inbuilit behavior in them which is natural and his may be this :)

I can't have anyone touching my stomach or tickling me, while the former automatically irritates me the latter results in a reflex action where the tickler may be seriously injured. Though the action is purely reflex and not intended inspite of being forewarned there are those who have actually borne the brunt and we ceased to be friends lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He sounds like a rare exception, because most guys would love that... Unless there's some other issue going on here (he's seeing someone else, likes guys, has something wrong with it and doesn't want you to find out, or maybe you're simply too grabby and his sexual drive isn't as high as yours: he may be just too tired for sex).

AustinMan · Answer

I think you need to make sure this is the hill you want to die on and if it is, tell him you'll show him yours when he shows you his.

Orion1084 · Answer

I let my girl touch it anytime she wants, no questions asked. It really doesn't matter what I'm doing; if she goes after it, I let her.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If you were married to me, you would not be complaining about this problem.

thatkaruguy · Answer

It's annoying and I'd rather you not play with it of we aren't going to engage in Amy form of sex.

Klaatu51 · Answer

i allow only my hands 2 touch my cock haha

wankiam · Answer

seems odd to me. any girl can touch my cock anytime she likes

GingerGuy · Answer

Your husband is odd in my opinion lol, I have no problem, even want her to touch and look at it ANY time she wants to!! The only reason I can think of is he doesn't want to get turned on, especially if you're not able to have sex at the time. It would be frustrating.