I get flustered when my boyfriend has a boner?

I get really flustered when my boyfriend has a boner. I don't think he's a pervert or anything I just get uncomfortable. when we cuddle he gets one and I just don't know why to do. I assume he can feel how tense i get. I try moving away not because I'm upset but because I think that it would help him... Um calm down? (Is that what you would call it) if he gets one while in sitting on his lap I often ask him if he wants me to move and he usually tells me to only move if I want to. I then move because I'm afraid of being heavy and crushing it or something. Sometimes I notice he has one in public and I don know what to do. Should I tell him or does he already know it's there? I just feel really awkward about it. What should I do to not freak out? and guys what should I do when you get one?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Trust me there is no need to tell him when it is hard he will know every-time. Try not to feel awkward about it, it is natural, remind yourself it is normal and that it is normal for women to be aroused over a man getting a boner over them to. When you are sitting on his knee and he gets a boner and he says "you can move if you want to" he is trying to be polite about it but the truth is he is thinking please stay sitting on my knee. Try not to move away from him at all when this happens as he may feel you are disgusted by it, may feel a little hurt or may feel a little rejected. Just keep cuddling with him or sitting on his knee or whatever you are doing. If you want to get a bit sexual with him about it I can also give you tips, if you don't want to then that is fine to.

    • Tips would be great! I haven't done anything before so it's be nice to have some ideas

    • Well these will get him in the mood for sex, are you ready for that with him?

    • How old are you? How old is he?

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  • Oh we know when its hard. At your ages it'll be hard more than not and other than masturbating or having sex to get rid of it there's not much that can be done. Its normal and natural at that age and somewhat embarrassing at times

Most Helpful Girl

  • hmmm do you think possibly you are not comfortable in your body and/or not all that confident in your skill level to please him sexually?

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  • do you consider yourself prude?

    • No, not really

  • He knows its there already. Just don't mention it unless he does.

  • its normal!