Girl lied about her age, what to do?

I has sex with a girl i thought was like 20-23 yearsold, and my friend said she was actually 16! I froze up and was like wtf!! and sure enough she is 16, she's in the same grade as my other friends sisters. In my defence, you can't tell the difference between a 16 year old and a 26 year old. look at fucken kylie. I feel like i did something wrong, should i go to the police, before she does and try to say i had no idea, cuz she didn't say shit and she did with her own consent. I really am in a tough situation and don have aclue on what to do
nothing to do, your going to jail
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  • If you go to jail they'll just slap the cuffs on you there and laugh since you admitted to having sex with an underage girl (they won't care if she lied).

    Go talk to her and use a tape recorder (most smart phones have them) and get her confession about lying about her age to you. Then just leave and if she ever goes to the cops you have your evidence. I think it should be obvious but don't let her know you're recording your conversation or she'll never say it.

    • Brillant!! thank you, that is the best advice ever. is it legall tho? to record her without her knowing?

    • Depends on your location. But would you rather be charged with an invasion of privacy charge which is probably a misdemeanor at most and you'd probably just pay the judge a small fee and then you go home or statutory rape where you'll go to prison for a year then have to register as a sex offender for the rest of your life?

  • Do nothing. If she has done it with you she has done it with others. I doubt if she will go to the police if she threatens you, offer to pay her off and keep track, or record it then. Reason, hookers have little rights.

    Keep your mouth shut, give her rope and space, she will screw herself.

    • man, im so fucked!!!1

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  • Depends on what state technically. Many places, age of consent is 16 so don't worry

  • 1) how old are you? 2) as long as her parents don't find out you'll be fine

  • Keep it a secret and she wanted to have sex so who carea

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  • Do not go to the police. They WILL arrest you on the spot, even if you tell them that you had no idea that she was a minor. Believe me, they've heard that hundreds of times before.

    • but what if she goes to the cops? then that makes me look suspiciuos

    • Just stay shut and cut off all contact with her. If she tries anything, ask your friends to say that she lied about her age. Also, you should consider making asking a girl for her ID a habit.

    • Ask multiple people to tell the police that she lied about her age if they ask them. But know that that will not guarantee you being clear of any kind of trouble.

  • If the girl does not fucking hate you then I see no reason for you to tie the rope around your own neck.

  • Yes go to the police and tell them all about it. I'm sure they will believe exactly what you say

    • I guess you didn't get the sarcasms huh?

  • If I were you I'd stay away from her at all costs. Sweep the problem under the rug and distance yourself. The fact is that if you keep seeing her, word might spread. If she comes back to you, put her down gently and tell her things aren't working out. Hopefully she'll take the rejection OK and the problem will go away. Don't do anything stupid.

  • you will be fine, she would have no reason for going to the police. just be careful in the future

  • haha just stop talking to her and tell her you're not interested in dating children and going to jail

    • That is the worst possible thing you can say to a 16 year old girl. She will immediately go to the cops to get back at him, because she'll believe she was used.

    • you really think so? you think she will put him in jail if he tells her he doesn't want to see her and risk going to jail.

    • Why are you so surprised? Teenage girls are vindictive and if he told her what you just said, 100% she would get pissed off and try to get him in some sort of trouble. 16 year olds may be reckless, but they know about statutory rape. There are countless cases where young girls lied about their age, then fucked the guy over when he didn't want to be with her.

  • You'll be fine, next time before you have sex ask for their drivers license

  • Keep your fucking mouth shut. If you admit to a crime, you do time. Period.

    She hasn't gone to the police. So don't make it an issue. Stop communication with her, but do so in a friendly way.

  • The only way you'll go to jail is if her parents find out and they press charges.

  • you're fine.