I Slept With My Best Friend?

[tennisstarr]

So my friend and I have been best friends for 3 years. I met him my sophmore year of high school and he was a senior. I had serious feelings for him, but whenever our mutual friends would ask why we werent dating, he would say that we were too close and he didn't want to ruin the friendship. So i shut away my feelings for him and became content with just being best friends. It got to the point where I was ok saying that we were just friends and whenever my mom would ask me if I still liked him, i would say EWW because the thought of us dating became weird to me. Anyway, this past weekend, I was really pissed off about a situation that happened at work, so a coworker (who just happens to be my fuck buddy) invited me and my two friends over to his place to drink.(By the way, my two friends know that my co worker and I are fuck buddies). When I get there, I just start downing shots and my best friend starts drinking a little as well. A while later, we drive my one friend home and head back to my co workers house since we both planned on spending the night. On the way there, i notice he starts trying to hold my hand. I don't really think anything of it, so i hold his hand. Then we get to my coworkers development, and we sit in his car and talk. Then he pulls me closer to him to where my head is laying on his shoulder. Again I think nothing of this because we do this all the time. Next thing I kno, were kissing. My mind is spinning because I soo caught off guard but I dont tell him to stop. Then he tells me he doesn't kno if its the alcohol but he figured why not and that he wanted me to stay on the couch with him instead of going with my coworker. we go inside and lay on his lap (which is another normal thing I do) but whenever my coworker would get up to go smoke or use the bathroom, my best friend would kiss me and touch me in... certain places and he would keep telling me to not go with my coworker and stay with him. so around 5 am my coworker finally goes to sleep and my best friend and I end up screwing. Before we both go to sleep, we both agree not to tell anyone and ever since then we've been txting and talking like nothing ever happened. I guess my question is, what was his reasoning for initiating this? Because i really didn't see this coming. And is it bad that i want to do it again?

[Anonymous]

I slept with my best friend. We were kind of in an friends with benefits situation, but we weren't doing anything super sexual. We just cuddled, kissed/made out and he felt me up. That was about it. Then one day we were hanging out. I made it clear to him that I was not going to sleep with him, but then we started kissing and then he started fingering me and I gave him a bj and then he ate me out. I still was adamant about not having sex with him, but it just kind of happened. I don't know how. He asked me if I wanted to because he could see I was really enjoying myself and my head said no, but my lips said yes. We didn't do it again cause he's now with someone, but if he weren't, I'd probably have sex with every chance we could. I'm not into him as a boyfriend, but he's hot and I like to fuck.

He might have been drunk and just wanted some loving. It's not bad that you want to do it again. I know I do.

[Kroakies_krickees]

Don't drink when you're underage. And don't drive after you've been drinking. I don't care what your question was about, I'm just appalled you would put yourself and others in harm's way. Disgusting behavior!

[parkway]

The best friend is the guy. Begin friends has grown into what love is all about. For you, he will always be the feelings of home. Nothing wrong with going after a guy who truly cares about you and not just into you for the sex. Shut up and be grateful for what you have, many people will never have what you have.

[Sexualchrist]

I guess it was bound to happen. He probably hasn't changed because he's worried you may think of what happened as a mistake.

You should tell him you liked it and prefer to have that element as a permanent part of your relationship.

[bluesue317]

I think that obviously there's some sort of chemistry between you two, whether it's just sexual or something more. The thing is, maybe you two should talk about it and see whether it was a one time thing, or starts a friends with benefits situation or relationship. My best friend and I just started having a friends with benefits relationship also just between us two. We used to have feelings for each other, but we've clearly established that this is all just sex. We don't cuddle, we don't kiss, and we still talk to and do things with other people. So I say, communicate and determine where this takes the both of you. Good luck!!

[RajeshTheJeshter]

I think he likes you.

[xxbebosxx]

good job ruining your friendship

[tennisstarr]

hmm i love how i said my friendship hasn't even changed since the situation happened. guessed you missed that part

[xxbebosxx]

yes it did because now it's friends with benefit

[jasco]

He was drunk and horny. You were the closest option at the time. Men do it all the time, some women do it to. if you want to tho, ask him how he feels

[Maxefforts]

He wss jealous and he might like you. Hard to say. Time will tell.

[888theGreat]

this is immoral behavior and why the country is so screwed up. Why babies are murdered