It does sound a bit over the top. I'm a huge, huge lover of sexy lingerie and have assembled a pretty sizable collection for my girlfriend but she's never complained. She loves the sex, strut her stuff element of it. She always wear stiletto pumps as well. At the end of this opinion is a link to a Take I wrote. I suggest that you talk to him but before you do, think about the fact that his fantasy is you in lingerie, that he loves you that way. Some of us just like the anticipation that lingerie incorporates.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex0 0 0 0You have already told him and it didn't "stick". Tell him in stronger terms, even if it makes you sound ungrateful. Let him know enough is enough. You can satisfy his fetish (and that is what it is) some of the time, but you cannot be doing that all the time. Tell him the drawers are overflowing with the things he keeps buying, so you are just going to start throwing out hings if he keeps buying them. Then follow through with it.
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It would definitely be a sexual fetish. That he clearly what he likes a girl to do in bed.
I would basically just tell him that you really appreciate all of the gifts, but that they are not necessary for you guys to be able to have a good time in bed.0 0 0 0That's probably how he gets turned on and by buying you the lingerie etc he is indirectly saying "I love it when you dress up". If I were you, I'd buy him some male costumes too and let him join the "fun" and see how he'll react
0 0 0 0That's sweet but its SO often that its kind of lost the meaning. I do try and buy him stuff but there's so much novelty rubbish costumes or lacey feminine underwear, not much sexy macho stuff out there lol. I just don't know what to do about it, how do I say something without it coming across as ungrateful or making him feel weird..
Maybe he seen you've got some ripped undies... jks just tell him you got more than what you need with a smile on your face.
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2 8I'm wondering does he wear it to.
0 1 0 0oh damn sounds like he has a lingerie fetish
0 0 0 0What do I do?
tell him how you feel about it..
maybe he want to wear to. I like wearing it and I'm a man and I am married to.
0 1 0 0maybe he's giving you hints
0 0 0 0Because he likes you in them too much. He must be loaded. Otherwise, he wouldn't buy you so much. Ask him if he is afraid he will run out of money if he keeps buying them.
0 0 0 0He might have a lingerie fetish and need to see it on you to get off. Talk to him and find out what his obsessive buying is all about.
0 1 0 0So, did you ever do anything about this?
1 0 0 0Whatever happened with this?
0 0 0 0I do the same but I do it as a cover. I but what I want to wear when my wife is gone. So it's not really for her but for me.
0 1 0 0Sounds like he's got an out of control kink.
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You could probably tell him you're not some doll he can just keep dressing up, so cool it with the lingerie for a while. If he seems upset it'll probably be more out of annoyance than anything, but I bet he'll try to make you feel guilty or just throw a hissy fit over it. It'll be a good test actually, it's a pretty minor thing, how he reacts to this will tell you if he's a worthwhile long term prospect.
I've mentioned before about it and he's been ok with it and just said he sees cheap lingerie and so he buys it. But he's obviously also looking lol so its not exactly accidental. He said I don't have to wear lingerie at all but he does find it sexy and thought it made me feel sexy too (which it does sometimes but I don't want to do it everytime). But then he just ends up buying more again a few weeks later :\ agh
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