Have you ever dealt with a 'loose' vagina?

I'll start by saying that these situations could always be seen as either 'loose vagina', 'small penis' or both. I'm fine with either as it's really not that important. The fact of the matter here is that: my penis > her vagina = not much contact. I've met the girl in question about 2 weeks ago in a one night stand that she initiated. We've had sex on many occations since. When I haven't cum for a while it's usually pretty easy for me to climax considering the long forplays we have (I also eat her out). The problem arises when we go for round two. She just feels very loose. My penis feels like its stuck into a balloon. Or as another comparason I've seen online, it feels like fucking a bucket of warm water. I can keep my erection going, and I try to work the shallow angles to hit her G-spot which she seems to like, but I have to work and focus really hard to climax. Usually involve the missionary position and me pumping like crazy for a while. She sounds like she's getting her kicks when I get up to it, but stats on women faking it don't really help my pessimism that she's just trying to match me. And that's the other thing, it's not just about me. As I'm 'pumping air', I just can't help but think that's she can't be having any enjoyment either. I think the reality check came the other night, when I pulled out after a few minutes, my tip was dry. BONE dry. Now she's usually pretty wet, but that's at the opening. That'd mean what I felt has been correct the whole time, I've been touching a whole lot of nothing in there. Still not sure how that's possible and I'll have to experiment again. And that's the other thing, she keeps comming back. So I guess she either really likes me, or finds her worth in all of this. I'm still not sure where I want this relationship to go. I guess for now I'm just sharing and venting as I don't think there's any solution to this, only alternatives. Have you guys ever experienced something similar? Girls, how does it feel on the recieving end?
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  • since it's round two, a good possibility could be that during round one, maybe you're pushing a lot of air into her vagina and there's no time for that air to get out so during round two, it makes sense that you feel that way, how you feel like you're just having sex with air, i mean it makes a lot of sense if she has a lot of air up there and the air will expand her walls so that you won't get a lot of vaginal wall to penis action, if she is prone to getting air in there a lot then i suggest just taking a break in between and like letting out anything thats in there (i know that sounds weird but i just mean the air) and then hopefully she'll feel just as tight as when you started (: hope this gives a new perspective on it

  • "As I'm 'pumping air' " LOL Sorry, but...*chuckles* Silly goose :P

    I don't deal with females sexually, so no, I have never had the displeasure of experiencing a loose vagina. However, I'm sure they exist. One of my close friends, who also happens to be the most promiscuous female I have ever known, openly admitted that she used to have a tight vagina. So tight that she could barely get through sex. Then she slept with about 20 men and now she mainly seeks Black guys or Arab guys because she assumes they're the only ones with a package big enough to please her expanded walls. :/

    • How come I've been with 3 guys (had sex with each multiple times) and I'm still tight? Penises don't permantly change vaginal tightness.

    • @itsallover How come you are so sensitive that you are assuming my answer applies to every female who's had sex? Did I directly tell you that your vagina is not tight? No. So chill. Don't go lecturing me because you're butt-hurt over my honesty.

    • lol It was more about if you ever dealt with men that 'couldn't please your expanded walls'.

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  • I think what's happening is she's really enjoying round one so of course her vagina is stretching. It can be difficult for women to stay wet for prolonged periods especially if she's on birth control so maybe some lube is in order? You could try for some that warms or has some other stimulating effect to try and see if it helps out.

    You could also look into getting her a set of ben wa balls and play it off as lol look at what I found kind of thing.

    • Well she IS on alesse. The problem is the stretching. : / For the sake of experiment, I'll have to jump to penetration faster and see if she feels tighter across the board of if she's simply always like that. LOL hopefully I didn't 'find' those laying on the ground. ; ) But those only help the pelvic wall at the entrance don't they?

    • Honestly you should take it as a compliment that she's so turned on. If anything you should probably give her a little more time to recover. Well you could claim Spencer's or some Novelty store.

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    Damn. Never had to worry about that thank god.

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  • Does she have a lot of sex with other guys? Or play with toys frequently that are big in size?

    • I haven't asked, mostly because those questions have a pretty obvious meaning. She's a sweet girl, last thing I want is hurt her feelings and confidence. Then again, she did have a ONS with me, I'd be a fool to discard the possibility that she's been around.

  • Has she had multiple kids?
    If not.. Just genetics, wide set I guess

    • No kids. She's in her early twenties.

    • I really don't know what happened then... Different people are different sizes and structures I guess @asker

  • When she's loose that means she's enjoying it, penises do not stretch a vagina permanently. Tell her to contract down on you as you thrust, and also introduce her to kegel exercises. They help to strengthen and tone the PC muscles, and lead to stronger orgasms too.

  • I haven't dealt with any kind of pussy yet.