Dont like my girlfriend vagina?

[Anonymous]

not very experienced, this is only the 4th pussy I've ever seen in person but i dont like it. how can i explain.. her lips look too loose and her clitoris also it seems she had a lot of action down there and makes me uncomfortable. she says she had several sexual partners and admitted more than myself but i dont how many and everytime i go down there i feel bad because i dont like how her vagina looks ( dark, loose, and kinda smelly ) and reminds me of all the possible men entering there. i love her body and i also started faling for her but i rather just have sex and not going down there because her vulva lips and her vagina entrance are wide, wrinkled and lose... what can i do to not feel bad about this...

[DessieDoo]

What @Goldie757 said is the truth. The only way a woman's vagina can become distorted is through child delivery. The number of sexual partners you have has no effect on the appearance. As for sexual partners making women "loose", that is not true either. A woman's vagina is a very weird thing. For instance, a woman's vagina adjusts to its sexual partners. Lets say you have a big dick. It hurts the first time she has sex with you and a few times afterwards. But the more sex she has with you, the more her vagina adjusts itself to your dick size. After not having sex for awhile, the vagina goes back to how it was before sex. Anyways, with that said, vaginas do not become loose upon multiple secual partners. It adjusts to the men she is sleeping with. As for you not liking the appearance of her pussy, that's kind of something you will have to look past. I have only seen very few attractive vaginas. As for the smell, uhm.. tell her to douche? Haha it shouldn't smell bad regardless of appearance.

[Goldie757]

^^
THIS
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[DessieDoo]

Lol thanks :)

[BosDev_82]

@Goldie757 and @DessieDoo are very intelligent females... listen to them

[DessieDoo]

Thank you @BosDev_82 I appreciate that.

[BosDev_82]

@DessieDoo... no problem pretty lady

[Esplorare]

Firstly, you need to HUMBLY ACCEPT that vaginas were not strictly created to please and impress men physically and visually. They have a much greater purpose, such as being the vessel that produces the human species.

Secondly, you need to stop scrutinizing her even if it's a private action. Your private thought process is very degrading, dedignifying, and even condescending. There is more to being a woman than having a pretty vagina that caters to one guy's tastes. -_- Being a woman is about so much more than making a guy's dick happy.

Third, you should stop hypocritially judging her for the other genitals she's been in contact with. You are no virgin. In fact, she is the FOURTH female to experience your dick in her pussy. So you have no right to think towards her like that

[CantReallyBeCreative]

That's probably the best thing I've ever read.

[Asker]

but vaginas please me always and never notice things until now.. and i can't help it, i know some of the guys she's been with and they are players so bothers me cause i feel "just another dude" plus i have seen huge dildos in her room and try to be open mnded but i can't so i want to talk to her but how? women judge men on this things but can't help but feel also, difference is those girls where girlfriends and she does casual sex in the past so you are here judging without helping at all, all i ask is for advice how to ignore these things

[meowza]

100% totally agree with you, this is messed up. Not all dicks/vaginas are made equally and everyone is beautiful/special in their own right. Its a lack of information/education that makes people think this way, its kind of appalling.

[Goldie757]

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[meowza]

Don't be with her because you don't deserve to. You obviously have some growing up to do, GET OVER THE FACT THAT SHE HAD CASUAL SEX its not a big deal. Most people that you engage with in your 20s more than likely have had other partners. WHO CARES.

[Esplorare]

@CantReallyBeCreative @meowza @Goldie757 lmao, thanks ladies. That gif is perfection. :P @meowza I think it's pure superficiality and an ugly comfort in being shallow when someone thinks this sort of mentality is acceptable.

[Esplorare]

@Asker I can see that you are being very vulnerable in this post. Sorry if my tone was a bit too harsh and speculatory. You seem to be bothered because... for better lack of the term... you feel like another notch on her dildo? :/

[meowza]

Right.. This really disturbs me, I have never heard of such a thing. I truly believe that if someone feels this way about there significant other they shouldn't be with them because you're not appreciating them for who they are. The fact that the person who asked this question is 25-29 is even more unnerving...

[meowza]

LMFAO omg... HAHAH

[Goldie757]

@asker it one thing being uncomfortable with the amount of partners because your lack experience. But it being overly critical of her genitals is another. Imagine if she was on g@g saying that his dick is too small and he lacks experience so he does not know how to use. You would feel like shit.

[Esplorare]

@Goldie757 That's also what I find unsettling. @Asker you spoke about that woman's genitals as if you are some sort of brutal professional critiquer in an art gallery. Not cool. Your attitude is degrading and condescending even if there's a legitimate issue behind it

[Asker]

well i have heard girls in front of me talking very bad about their partners penises... yes you are right one thing not related to others... i am overwelmed bc she had so much sex with many casual men how can i explain that to her? i feel im just another guy more and afraid

[Asker]

i won't please in the long run cause i haven't had sex with experienced girls like she has with other men i know of... i am another dildo but maybe not as good :(

[mei0313]

O_O too much details lol umm hmm so i think the thought of her being with more sexual partners could make her private part less and less attractive to you and i think if it bothers you a lot.. you should move on.

And i do not think having several partners would change her body. It is like describing guys who had multiple sex partners have thinner and smaller down there lol

[FantasticPlanet]

Just so you know: the look, shape, color & smell of a vagina have NOTHING to do with previous sexual experience.

Her vagina has looked the same since before she lost her virginity, and you need to chill out with your accusations of prior experiences "beating up" her body.

You would be more comfortable with her sexual past if you both had the same number of previous partners.
Or if you had more.

Imagine she is somewhere right now complaining To friends (or strangers) that your penis looks unused, or inexperienced.

It's ridiculous, right?
So is your opinion of her body.

If you really really don't like her vagina, break up with her.
Maybe someone who can appreciate her vagina & experiences will step in and make her feel okay about being herself.

[TadCurious]

You should educate yourself about women's vulvas. There's no one way they're supposed to look. They're as varied and unique as fingerprints. A healthy vagina has a normal, natural scent, and there's nothing wrong with that. If I were you I wouldn't obsess with how many partners your girlfriend has had before you, especially because that has NOTHING to do with her vulva. I would also encourage you to be less critical about your girlfriend's vulva in general, and accept her body the way it is.

[Goldie757]

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[TadCurious]

thanks for MHO

[Azara]

what do you mean her lips look loose. what does that even look like. i dont understand. and if shed had sex with you 100 times. or had sex with ten guys one time each. thats 100 vs 10. the amount of partners doesn't mean there's been a ton of sex. and a ton of sex isn't going to change her lips. the entrance stretches and bounces back. the lips dont loosen up from sex. are you talking about the actual lips or the labia?

[Goldie757]

The size and appearance has nothing to do with the amount of partners she has had. It would not have looked any different from when she was a virgin.

[FrenzyP0W3R]

Are you sure? I have heard that if you have multiple partners and a lot of sex then after some time it's becoming more loose.

[BosDev_82]

very true... most guys should know that

[FrenzyP0W3R]

Well then it's look like I have learned something new today :)

[Goldie757]

@FrezyP0W3R What I say is true. The only way a woman can become 'loose' is through is children birth.

[Goldie757]

@FrenzyP0W3R ^^

[meowza]

wow... is all I have to say... it doesn't matter if you have had 100 partners it has no effect on the appearance of her vagina.. look it up this is a medical fact. Talk about misinformation...

[Goldie757]

@meowza thank you x 👏

[BosDev_82]

Call me old fashioned but i appreciate vaginas of all shapes and sizes lol @Goldie757

[Goldie757]

@BoDev_82 I'm pretty sure the majority of men feel the same.

[Goldie757]

@BosDev_82 ^^

[FrenzyP0W3R]

@BosDev_82 I'm completely agree with you.

[desidoll]

Stop dude just stop. You are the same dude who posted a question about wanting a virgin girl as your wife. Now what? Why are you so angry with us?

[shadiamond]

Some women can have sex with 35 men and although their vaginal canal may get loose, the outer appearance can stay the same. Then there are girls who goes out there and does only God know what with their vagina and it can look loose/uglier/beat-up on the outside.

[StormMistress]

Every vagina is different and beautiful in its own way. Get off your high horse!

[Klaatu51]

then how bout havin sex wid lights-off so u won't see?

[GraySailorsBride]

But lights off is no fun! He needs to move on. I don't see him getting over her experiences. He needs to get some confidence because he sounds very immature especially for his age.

[Klaatu51]

@graysailorsbride actually it 's better... lights make me feel dizzy personally

[GraySailorsBride]

Sorry about the lights. Being dizzy is not a good feeling, especially at that moment. But for me and @gray_sailor ... no way. I want to see his face and the pleasure on it. Feeling everything is awesome but seeing it too only heightens our experiences.

[BertMacklinFBI]

don't tell her that shit lol. either try to get over this mental bump or just deal with it. if you can't do either then probably go look for a new girlfriend where you can accept and appreciate it all.

[Dargil]

Head for the exit for her sake.

[nate18]

get over it. if you love her its all part of the package. either get over it or dump her and move on. or tell her you won't go down on her, but dont expect her to go down on you at all.

[FrenzyP0W3R]

That would be just too weird if you ask me.

[nate18]

where are you're balls at man!

[bubbakong2006]

Enjoy it lick her till she cums no such thing as bad pussy and her fucking other guys is a plus at least she likes to fuck give her a nice hard fuck

[Figleaf]

Looks fine to me. .. by the way, she says hi.

[ToxicValentine]

Hahahaha oh lord, that's hilarious as fuck!!😂😂

[FrenzyP0W3R]

You can't really do anything with it except help your imagination and think you are fucking Megan Fox or someone who has a better sponge?

[yourfriendforever]

What can you do?
All you can do is stop being a jerk

[SexxBunnyy]

If you reallt do love her, get her tested, pray the results are negative, and let good times follow, regardless how it looks. Just because someone people had her first doesn't mean you cave have your time with her, either. :P

[Ladiesman07]

god bless you poor soul :|

[COCOCHANEL]

i don't think the appearance of the vulva changes for the reasons you specified.

[mei0313]

Trueee :)

[shadiamond]

In some cases it does and can.

[ThatBritishLad]

Well, you don't have to talk to it at least.

[hypno-trip]

I think it's not a big deal, who cares if it looks a little ugly you're still getting a hot girl to have sex with you right? Personally I'd just get over it except for the smell part.

[Anonymous]

The vagina doesn't change how it looks, based on how much sex a woman have had.
You just need to grow up and get over it. You are describing a normal vagina, it's your problem, not hers.

[shadiamond]

A normal vagina? Lmao.

[Opinion Owner]

Dark, wrinkled and wide, yes that is normal, so is having a slight odor. Educate yourself. @shadiamond

[Anonymous]

Her having been around a lot of t is a tirn off for you so move on, you can't help who you are attracted too :)

[Opinion Owner]

it is normal not to want such a used V. Some girls on here scream otherwise but they are hypocrites as many wouldn't date a guy who has had many women and they have said somin the polls here.