Guys, do you consider me rude because I showed my boobs to my guy friend?

[Anonymous]

My friend and I were in my bedroom, we were talking about many things and I wanted to change my t-shirt so I didn't ask him to leave the room because I was ok with that, so i take off my t-shirt and the bra and I told him do you think my boyfriend really love my boobs? *i was standing in front of him* He said YEAH OF COURSE and looked away! I didn't mean anything when I did that but he was avoiding looking my eyes until he leaves. Am I rude for doing this? I already know that my boobs are really awesome but I wanted to hear his opinion as a friend.

[parkway]

No you were not rude. It's your place, your booobs and his problem that he was taught that they are something more than mammary glands.

You did not show him your bum. Unless you have one that has a nipple that has the look of a head with ears, there is nothing to be shocked about.

Slap old boy on the back and send him back home to his mama for retraining.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, that's pretty messed up.
You're teasing him.

[Asker]

How? I didn't mean it that way

[Opinion Owner]

Are you joking? So, you didn't mean to bare your breasts directly at him and ask him to look at them? There are a lot of elements here. •has he seen you topless before •has he expressed interest in you •has he expressed interest seeing you topless •do you care if you put him in a weird spot? •maybe he didn't want to see your breasts because he sees you as a friend, and doesn't want to view you as a sex object •maybe he is uncomfortable with breasts •maybe he has a huge crush on you and knows your boyfriend, so now he'll never be able to look at you the same ever again. Look, I'm not here to lecture you. But you asked the Internet, which indicates you know there is something slightly wrong about what went down. Figure it out, and talk to him. You might be able to salvage your friendship.

[Opinion Owner]

Hmph. Every time i think I'm a grumpy curmudgeon, I get MHO. 👍🏼thx👍🏼

[Asker]

All I wanted is to see a very honest opinion and you're really honest by telling me your opinion. I really want to thank you <3

[summiter]

Why are we so stuck up over breasts and our bodies. In Europe and other parts of the world you can sunbath topless. I'm sure he enjoyed seeing your boobs and he probably went home and jerked off right away. As long as you don't tease him it should not be a big deal.

Do you have feelings for him? Do you want sex with him?

[Editor]

It's inappropriate because you, his friend's girlfriend, just asked him to look at your tits. This is so unusual I'm sure he doesn't know if you were hitting on him or not. (Not because he's stupid, but because it's weird.) Now he has to decide whether to tell his friend about it and cause trouble for the two of you, or say nothing and incur his wrath when he inevitably finds out.

[ClauseViter]

This sounds like a not nice thing to do.

[Lithium65]

Was it "rude"? I don't think so.
He might get the wrong impression though.
I've never had that happen to me, but I'd be cool with it.

[CFORG]

You're confident and comfortable changing its his problem feeling awkward if suggest invite him over and repeat lol or infact if got a boyfriend best not its border immoral and unfair on boyfriend if he found out

[Anonymous]

He was probably just shocked and confused, a girl inviting him into her bedroom then stripping?

More importantly: whyno photo?

[Asker]

Sorry no photos :( <3

[Opinion Owner]

Please?

[Anonymous]

If you were my girlfriend and you changed in front of guy friend like that you would have been my ex after that. Sounds like you were fishing for a compliment.

[Asker]

Thanks for your honesty.