If a guy says he wants to cuddle does he really want to just cuddle or will it lead to more? How can cuddling not be awkward?

[kate937]

Been talking to this guy via text and snapchat. We both want to get together and hang out but when i ask him what he wants to do he says I don't know cuddle? I play along and say sure but does he actually mean cuddling or something else? Im okay with doing some stuff but i dont want to be pressured into something i dont want to do especialy my first time meeting him!

[Anonymous]

First time meeting him, I would have expected coffee, lunch, or an activity. Something to get to know you better. He could just be lonely and want a cuddle but to have that as the only plan is odd - he might be hoping it will lead to more or he might be a bit boring and not think of anything fun to do on a first date. You can't know for sure what he is thinking until you get there. You could always say to him "cuddling is nice but for a first date I'd like to go somewhere and get to know each other over lunch" ... or substitute lunch for something else you'd like to do. Just be straight with what you expect from him.

[Janice25]

He wants to F you. And to be honest he sounds like a punk for being so obvious and not creative enough to suggest something else fun that could lead to that (and to where you would feel comfortable enough with him to consider doing something more intimate with him), especially when it comes to the first time meeting him. I wouldn't meet him if I were you, unless you meet in a public place, probably during day time. Or if you just want a fun night out with someone, have a way of getting home that doesn't involve him taking you home. He will probably try to talk to into things.

[Mikachu97]

Well, cuddling is usually an excuse to hook up. I'd just be very careful as well as assertive. Let him know right off the bat that you aren't that type of girl. Be classy and strong.

[JuicyBrain]

He may very well mean to cuddle. But reality is. Once you start cuddling, what you want may change very fast. It happened to me time and again. I loved my girlfriend and genuinely just wanted to spoon her. but then I would kiss her of course, it would wake up the "beast". So even though I just wanted to spoon, we would still end up having sex. I don't think that guy will just cuddle. Either he is sincere and just want to cuddle but then probably won't resist or he doesn't even want to resist.

[AustinMan]

Cuddling usually leads to sex in this situation.

[coffeprince]

Uhhh I don't know that sounds mischievous.