Is my boyfriend unhappy with my boobs?

So i have always struggled with accepting my body and its really just the fact that i have really small boobs. I have a really nice butt and legs and my boyfriend always talks about how i have the best ass and legs ever... And i used to want a boob job but i have been working out and have gotten more confident with my body and accepting it. So yesterday i said something like "oh yup all that would go straight to there" (meaning my thighs and ass) and he says "not here?" and felt my boobs and im like "nope" and he's like "aw why not?" and im like "idk I've just come to accept it never will" and he's like "thats too bad... At least you're goodlooking" and at first i didn't really care but then i thought more about it and now im sad... I know he likes boobs and he's said small or big i dont care i just like boobs but maybe he just said that to make me feel better... Im sad... I literally can't help it im already 22 and have like 32As... Its just not gonna happen for me. when my boyfriend and i had this conversation he had a really sweet tone and it was laidback but im just feeling hurt. Is it normal to feel this way or am i just overreacting? Im scared he will leave me for someone with bigger boobs as messed up as that sounds. I know some of the girls he's hooked up with have really nice sets... Im kddhhdjdh
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I know exactly how you feel I have small boobs too and my boyfriend can be kinda weird about them too like he doesn't want to touch them or anything (that sounds weird hahha) but don't worry I'm sure you will be fine as was mentioned earlier he goes out with you for a reason if he wasn't happy he wouldn't stick around 😊 he probably has something he is insecure about too so maybe you should have a talk to him about it and explain how you feel

  • He's your boyfriend for a reason. Obviously he loves your body just the way it is. He seems like a cool guy, don't worry. And if he ever left you because of the size of your boobs (which isn't gonna happen), it'd be for the best, cause you don't deserve a guy like that anyways. But chill, it's all good.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He made a mistake, frankly. Easy to understand why it was hurtful. That's a case of being too honest.

    You need to talk this out with him, share your feelings and reactions.

    Keep in mind that there are tons of guys who actively prefer tits the size of yours.

  • Do NOT get a boob job for him. If you're happy with your body, then find a boyfriend who's happy with it. If YOU want bigger boobs, go buy some but find the best plastic surgeon around.

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  • I think you're reading way too much into what he said. He won't leave you because of your boobs. If he had a problem with small boobs he wouldn't date you since your boobs are one of the things a guy can see before even talking to you. They point out of your chest not exactly easy to hide... I think he was just trying to tease and doesn't realize how sensitive you are about them.

  • Yeah, probably is