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FFM threesome: I feel left out?

I've already had two ffm threesomes with my boyfriend and another girl. Both times I felt left out.. like I only was 20% involved.. I don't know why but homever I do not enjoy it. what should I do?
Tell him I don't enjoy threesomes
Vote A
Improve myself to like threesomes better
Vote B
Other
Vote C
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I voted A, unless the idea of a threesome appeals to you and just want him to focus on you more equally? But I get the impression that you're really into them and it's something you've agreed to for him. So if that's it just be honest with that you're not into them and you're not finding it to be a pleasant experience, so you'd rather not do it again.

  • i think they are selfish... they are abusing your tolerans. tell them that if you will do it again, this is a cake for three people and you are not ok for a small piece...

    • ps: threesome is ok but i think it is not for under 18... if i were you, i would wait for it for some years... and life is long enough to do it when you are older...

    • Thanks for your input! I am about to turn 18 though

    • your decision, your life... i respect for it but your age is really nice to live romantic experience instead of wild ones... later wild parties will be ok and more acceptable... anyway, take care...

Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell him you don't like it or try MMF threesome instead. You'll have more attention that way

    • He isn't okay with MMF threesomes..

    • Oh okay lol. Why not make a rule? FFM for MMF. That's what I did with my ex

  • Do both A and B then come up with a plan C to make things better

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You having threesomes for the benefit of your boyfriend makes you his friends with benefits and nothing more.

  • just tell him... there's nothing 2 b afraid of in my opinion :)

  • You should tell him that you are not comfortable with it and if he respects you he won't ask you to do it again.

  • Ask him for a MMF threesome 👍🏻

  • You should tell him, if he loves you he would understand. ☺️

  • Tell him to focus more on you...

  • you need to talk more before hand about the ground rules

  • Who are the other girls you’re choosing for the 3some? Are they your friends?

  • You're under 18.
    O. O

  • Have a threesome with 2 guys

  • you're under 18 and you've had a threesome?

    • how the fuck are you the only one questioning this lol :P

    • Why the fuck can't I have threesomes... but little kids are? WTF?

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