My boyfriend has more strippers on Snapchat than I thought?

[Shayvenessa]

I am fine with 1-2 which is the amount I thought he had but looking at his snapchat yesterday I at least counted 6, all different girls that post from full range nudity to some mildly risqué ones. He doesn't think looking at pornography or strippers like that is cheating, I'm kind of on the fence about that debate, yes I have spoke to him about it before but not knowing about the other snapchatters, he said if I wanted to he'd be willing to stop watching it because of how uncomfortable and upset it makes me but I've said I would like him to I just feel bad for getting him to stop something natural. Just really upset about it all and don't know what to do. ps, he's told me he and I quote "I hardly ever use snapchat" which he doesn't he doesn't send anything he just gets photos sent in as well as strippers posting on their stories pps: he really does love me very much and would do anything for me.. He just really likes strippers

[Watermelonoma]

tbh, he shouldn't have ANY strippers on snapchat. Watching porn is one thing, because porn sites are designed for you to bust a nut then dip out. Snapchat was designed for communication... so if he has strippers there, it's possible that he may want to talk to them at some point. I dont understand why you're fine with him having one or two, but not three or four. When he crosses the rubicon from 2 to 3, what exactly happens that suddenly makes it not okay? hahaha. Seriously man, you've gotta have more confidence in your own looks, as i was reading some of your comments down below and you claim you are nothing to look at. Whether or not that is actually true (i dont think it is), you should at least have a boyfriend who isn't potentially chatting up other girls in a sexual manner while you two are dating. It's not right in my opinion

[LoverMike]

So does he know them personally or did he just find them and add them? I'm sure the strippers are there to talk to him for business and nothing else. Seems like strippers want to make a personal relationship so they can get your money

[Shayvenessa]

It's just the random strippers/models (models on there as well) that broadcast to everyone, he doesn't know them personally.

[LoverMike]

Then it is up to you to decide how you want to feel about it. I think it would be just like watching porn then, if he does have any personal feelings for them.

[Shayvenessa]

But he'd be thinking "wow this girls really bloody attractive and sexy" I just don't like that..

[LoverMike]

Well tell him that and show him that you are blood attractive by stripping down to a g-string in front of him!

[Shayvenessa]

I do everything possible like that.. He appreciates it but it doesn't stop him

[SomeoneImportant]

I don't see why 1 or 2 doesn't bother you, but 6 does.

[Shayvenessa]

Because I thought "oh okay that's fine he's told me about these ones" then there's 6 it's like it's an obsession looking at them if he has so many

[SomeoneImportant]

I gotcha. It's the fact you didn't know about the other 4. 6 is nowhere near an obsession To be honest, even if he had like 100 chicks sending him stuff, it's not an obsession. It would be the same as him going on google and seeing 100 different nudes There's nothing to worry about here, don't sweat it

[Shayvenessa]

Even porn kinda nags at me a little bit only because I'm insecure that he finds all these other woman attractive, I just don't think I'm good enough

[SomeoneImportant]

Common thing to be insecure of. But just know there isn't anything to worry about. Only reason that bothers a lot of girls is because they haven't accepted what guys are. We like seeing different women, plain and simple It's not about you lacking in attractiveness, it's the simple fact that we just like diversity. It's just what guys are. Just like a girl wants to only have sex with the guy she loves. I don't get why you'd only want one guy, but it's what you are. So don't take any of that stuff personal. I mean it's natural for you to see porn and nudes as something you have to compete with, and that I get, but there's really no need. Trust me

[subzero007]

I just dont get it why you need strippers when you have a hot girlfriend

[Shayvenessa]

I'm hardly anything to look at that's probably why

[subzero007]

I dont know just why and i guess he assumes that he is completely out of the league may be?

[Shayvenessa]

What makes you say that?

[subzero007]

I dont know i just think this may be the reason?

[Anonymous]

Congrats you're just with douchebag.

[Shayvenessa]

Oh.. Umm I'm not sure if he is a douchebag he just likes strippers? :S

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know any friend who would have strippers in fucking snapchat. In my opinion he's just some idiot.