Ok my friends with benefits cummed in me without permission, what would you do in this case?

[Anonymous]

Like this is the fourth time we had sex, yes i am on the pill but only 2 months now. And we were having sex about a week and a half ago and when it came time for him wanting to cum he asked where i wanted it i told him my mouth or on my ass, but we were in reverse cow girl on the couch and he just held me down and thrusted up and cummed inside of me. When he held me down i thought ok, when he is actually gonna come he'll tell me to go on my knees but he just did it. What guy in their right mind think its ok to creampie someone without letting them know. I took the morning after pill the next morning, but what if i get pregnant for this guy. I know we should of used protection but we did and but we didn't this time. I am so fucking scared. Like he even asked to do it again and that it wouldn't be bad if i was pregnant he would take care of me and the baby after i blew up on up and yelled. Like i am so pissed off. what would you do in my situation?

[AustinMan]

You need to take note: you're on the pill. It's very effective. I'm not sure what the medical effect of taking Plan B while on the pill is. He believes you're both safe and so he came inside you. I'm sorry you were so offended. I'm sure I'll get a ton of grief for saying this but get a grip, girl friend.

[Asker]

Yea but what i get pregnant. There are cases like that. He didn't know i was on the pill and we used a condom the other times. I never told him its ok to cum inside of me. Not offended. U could be right or wrong and so could i. But if i get pregnant i will be stuck with this guy for the rest of my. life.

[AustinMan]

First of all, I suggest you get over your extreme pregnancy paranoia. There are abortions in this country. What are you going to do when he tell you you HAVE to SWALLOW?

[Asker]

I like to swallow. I told him i wanted it in my mouth. Pregnancy paranoia? Yea if i get pregnant oh yea its no problem its not a big deal or life altering situation. Yea i am sooooo over reacting. Abortion isn't something i would do unless i got pregnant by my rapist. Its valid to fear this and its not paranoia. Obviously u dont get it...

[AustinMan]

I do get it. I respect your right to choose. It just seems to me in this situation, this isn't a baby you'd want to keep but then we each have an opinion. I respect yours and your right to it. What do you plan to do now?

[yofuknutz]

If you don't want him coming inside you to not let him inside you go back to sleep

[stevie123]

Being on the pill for two months should have you protected from pregnancy.
However, it was very wrong for him to cum in you when you told him not to.
His disregard for your wishes is inexcusable.
Do not have sex with him again, he doesn't deserve a girl like you.

[Asker]

Yea its like you just don't do that. Yea its inexcusable. I am not talking to him anymore, but he is apologizing but no way will i ever trust him again.

[yofuknutz]

Oh poor baby

[Anonymous]

If you've been on the pill for 2 months, you're chance of pregnancy is very low. Still, he should've pulled out if that's what you wanted. Very selfish of him.

[Zendrya]

Don't have sex with him anymore. He is an asshat

[abundantlyrich]

You are on the pill. Don't freak out.

[nate18]

If your not pregnant don't ever have sex with him again. He can no longer be trusted. To me that would be worse than getting cheated on.

[Asker]

Both are just as bad cause cheating means u put me at risk of a disease and breaking my heart and getting me knocked up can take away my choice of a lot of things. But he's not my boyfriend so this is worst i just hope i get my period and that i am not pregnant. Urgh no more fwbs ever again lol. Urgh :(. Yea i will never sleep withthis guy he ruined our friendship trust and lust for him

[nate18]

Yeah they're two different things but equally shifty and breaks trust.

[badboy666]

I think he really blew any possibility of trust out the window. I'd find a guy who is more likely to respect your wishes.

[Shaft50]

Get him off your friends with benefits list but maintain contact in case he needs to take responsibility

[Asker]

Yea I told him no, and that he broke my trust and that I don't wanna be trapped into being with him forever. I just don't understand why he did

[Shaft50]

I think he just got caught up in the moment and didn't think of the consequences... too bad for him

[VampireEmpress]

I think you'll be fine!

[Anonymous]

That's what I think of your paranoia you could stick it where it smells girl grow up if you don't want no semen inside you or any fluids don't let the dick in

[Anonymous]

i would not talk to him again.