My boyfriend wants to eat me out, but I'm really nervous about it?

I weigh more than I should and my legs and thighs are huge and scarred up from acne. How can I make myself more comfortable with it? I want him to do it to me, but I don't want to feel insecure the whole time.
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  • If he really cares about you, it won't matter.

    Just the fact that he wants to do it means that he does desire you.

    Only do it if you want to because it is an intimate act.

    If you want to do it, know that it feels really good. And if you want to feel more comfortable, dim the lights and light candles. It's romantic and will give you some cover until you're more confident. Also you can ask him to do it under the covers. He will find where he needs to be :)

    • Thanks for mho, I'm wishing you the best. :)

  • Leave the lights on. You need him to be able to find the correct parts without having to do a lot of feeling around and such. That would create nervousness and awkwardness. He should be able to see them directly and go directly to them. Please don't worry about imperfections. Everyone has imperfections of all types, even models. The photographers just air brush them away (photoshop them now days).

  • hmm hide a bit with make up? i got some acne there as well almost every girl does because of shaving, you should tell him that you're insecure because of that and when he tells you that he doesn't give a damn then let him do it he won't be looking at your acne when doing it :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • If your boyfriend cares about you at all I'm sure he isn't going to care, I'm certain he himself isn't the perfect physical example of a man so how could he rightfully judge you? But I wouldn't worry about it, he's with you and he wants to do it, you will just have to be more trusting of your boyfriend, like I said, if he cares for you he isn't going to care, or he will be completely fine and content with how you are down there.

    • He's not perfect of course, but doesn't weigh more than he should like I do. His exes are pretty and little and it just makes me feel like he's expecting everything to be fine down there when it isn't. :|

    • That last part sounds a bit off, I meant if he cares about you as a person, he won't care about any perceived flaws you think you have.

    • Oh okay. Thank you. I hope so :)

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  • Just let him know you are insecure abiut it and I'm sure he will understand your concerns, he is your boyfriend he clearly lives you if he wants to eat you out. Just let him know your a but uncomfortable but would really enjoy it and he then knows and probably won't mind at all if he loves you :)

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  • Sounds like a beta if he wants to eat you out tbh.

    You're right to be nervous.

  • turn the lights off? that is my realistic suggestion.

    • I mentioned it, but he says he doesn't want to do that and thinks there's no reason for my concerns.

    • honestly, I think out of the 2, you are the only one who cares.

  • He knows what your body is like and he still wants to do it. Just letting him is the best thing you can do. Or just tell him that your worried, I'm sure he'll reassure you or smth like that.

    • *you're

  • How big are you? Becaus you could always sit on his face and then he won't see anything. Guys like haveing there face sat on

    • Lol way too much. I probably could hover over his face but it'd be uncomfortable

    • You could try a 69? Threats allways a fun position for oral.

    • That's

  • Well if he wants to and he's already seen your legs then he, most likely, doesn't care. You should make sure you're clean down there beforehand so take a shower

  • thats cute how you have big thighs. to me i wouldn't mind the scars on your thighs, just give it a try. you never know, you just might totally love it getting ate out

  • Are you active?

    • I'm not athletic, but I don't sit all day.