How often should you give your man a blow job?

I'm just wondering how often I should give my man a blow job? I know men like them a lot, and I am giving my boyfriend about 3-4 a week. Should this be a daily thing? Also, letting him jizz on my face or in my mouth? What's more appealing usually?
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  • It's totally up to you, girl. Most guys on here will say "as often as possible", and if you love giving your man BJs then feel free to do it every day! But that might get boring or repetitive after a while - sometimes it's sexier to surprise him, in which case 3-4 times on random days of the week is plenty. You can always ask him if he wants more or less than that.

    As for where to come, it depends on what you're comfortable with as well as what he likes. If you don't like the taste or the idea of swallowing, that's okay - he should understand. Similarly, if you don't want it all over your face, there are many different ways that he can finish :) The important thing is to have fun - just don't feel pressured to do anything you're uncomfortable with!

    • Thanks for MHO :)

  • My husband cums into my wide open mouth and I swallow his cum early every morning. He needs me to do that and I very much enjoy doing it. I've been doing it for many years and frankly I'm effectively addicted to it. It's really great. But to answer your question, in my opinion you should do it only as often as he needs you to. I'd be surprised if he needs to cum more than once a day. If you can get him to cum into your wide open mouth for you to enjoy swallowing, I personally think that's better. No cleanup of any sort needed! Call me lazy, but I didn't enjoy the part about having to towel off and take a shower every time I got a facial. Swallowing is so much more enjoyable. Plus after I swallow I get to lick and suck his cock squeaky clean.

  • It's the most important that you do it when you want, because enthusiasm is a huge turn on. People have different sex drives and some guys prefer to cum on you face while others like you to swallow it. It's entirely subjective, you should ask your boyfriend. If you're comfortable sticking his dick in your mouth, you should be comfortable enough to have good communication and just ask what his preferences are

Most Helpful Guys

  • How often does he go down on you? Is the question I would ask. Then divide that by two and that's how many he deserves. I am a man who believes a women should be heralded and nearly worshipped in the bedroom. I love going down on my girlfriend when I have one. And when they ask this question this is my response because you should be in no way giving him more than he gives you. This is something I feel strongly about because as a women your held to much stricter rules in society on how many partners you can have and all the other double standards plus your giving him something amazing he should more than repay the favor.

    • I disagree with this to some extent. Everyone's needs are different. They don't have to be the same or double or whatever. The thing is for him to pleasure you whenever you need him to and for you to pleasure him whenever he needs you to. The frequencies at which each of you needs to be pleasured can be completely different and that's OKAY. What matters is that you each get what you need. In my case I swallow every morning, but I don't need or want him to go down on my every morning. I only need it a few times a week at most, usually once a week and in the evening, not the morning. I get a lot of pleasure out of my morning cum swallowing sessions, so I just don't need that much reciprocation. That's fine with me and fine with him. We're happy! So long as you're happy, that's all that matters.

    • I understand where your coming from and with that I would have no problems but as a general rule of thumb it works best to give more than your receive.

  • If he hasn't proposed to you yet, how do you feel about older men? :)
    3-4 times per week? Most married guys get that once a week or less. For me, the hottest thing is finishing in your mouth. It's not that I care whether my cum ends up in your mouth, but it's mostly about not having you stop when I get close.

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  • Tou should give him a blow job as often as YOU like. As a man, I can say I appreciate evwry one I get. Whether it be 1 a month or one a week or 3 times daily. How often is up to you.

    • Forgot about jizz. Mean girls spit nice girls swallow

  • Every time you have sex.

  • All day EVERY day! so that he won't have enough energy to even want to cheat if the opportunity arises! ha! :D!

  • If he really likes it then surprise him as often as you like. Since you're the one doing the act, you have to be into it as well.

    He will probably not turn you down, so whenever you feel like doing it, do it.

  • Whenever you want to.

  • I give my boyfriend blows jobs almost always twice every time I see him.

  • Whenever you want to.

  • As often as he makes me.

    • Well, as often as he needs u to

  • Ask him if he prefers it on your face or in your mouth and tell him what you like. For me in the mouth and swallowed is most appealing, but it should be what you're comfortable with.
    3-4 times a week sounds like a lot. Are you also having sex where you get off in addition to the BJs?

  • for my standards it will be very high since I'm horny most of the day so I will say everyday :P

  • At least twice a day is my recommendation, in the morning and before going to bed :D

  • as often as you can! Daily is great! If you really want to impress him wake him up with one! If you can have him finish in your mouth and swallow. Guys go crazy for that

  • 3-4 times a year would be a good start. I would love them daily I prefer blow jobs to sex. Change it up each time on your face, boobs, swallow.

  • Every day. Whatever he wants.

  • Daily.. sometimes more than once a day. Usually once in the morning and once in the evening. But sometimes when he is off of work I will service him three times a day

  • To me the most appealing option is the one that you like best. I mean you're already giving me a bj I want it to end whatever way is best for you. 3-4 is not bad at all. You kind of rule.

  • I will never do it Because I do not want a dick in my mouth. That would be an inconvenience and I'm tired and that's fucking gross ew. I'm ok if he wants to go find a whore to do it for him though.. as long as he doesn't give me an std it's all good.

  • Usually in the mouth, easier cleanup.

    3-4 a week is great.
    But ask him if he wants more!

  • Only daylily if you're engaged or married. Don't give it all away yet. And mouth.

  • Omg in your mouth lol but as long as your ok with it as much as you want ;) I'm sure he will now mind at all lol

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