Girls, What do women think when they see a large package/bulge on a guy?

[Anonymous]

I have a really difficult time with this.. and im not being big headed here trust me! I have a hard time hiding or making my package less noticeable and i feel so self conscious about it to a point i have to make sure my shirts are long enoughto cover it... the question is do i just flaunt it or will i look like i have a boner and freak people out (which obviously i dont) help people thank you in advance!

[crystalt70]

Don't flaunt it, but you don't have to hide it. Just dress like you usually would and don't focus on it.

[Asker]

But when i do that i feel its being looked st constantly lol. And then i wonder what goes on in there heads

[crystalt70]

So? Just rock it with pride. I have run across a very very small few men who had noticeably large packages. It's droolable. Haha!

[Asker]

Is it? I wouldn't of known that from the way its looked at!! Its like 6 inches flaccid and its so noticeable its just in everyones view. I wouldn't think that is attractive

[crystalt70]

Jealousy or people making asses out of themselves with their assumptions. The problem isn't you, it's them. Screw 'em.

[Asker]

I like your style but its just id hate for the general public to think i have an errection all the time

[crystalt70]

Lol. I see your point. Just do whatever is comfortable for you, but don't have this "I'm the shit because i have a big dick" attitude. That's a turn-off.

[Asker]

I think i have the complete opposite to that! I want rid of the size!! Lol I just wish i could see into there minds and read there thoughts at there reactions which is why its now my profile picture :/

[crystalt70]

That's something that is easier to judge in person. This is going to come off creepy or sexual, but what type of underwear do you wear? Lol. The reason I ask is because some might be better suited to your "problem". Bocerswould be the worst to wear since they are so loose. The give no support.

[crystalt70]

Boxers*

[Asker]

Ask what ever you want! The more help the better. Some times i wear tight ones if im not out long but if im out for a long time i wear loose ones because tight ones are uncomfortable because of well... the thickness lol

[crystalt70]

Tight as in briefs?

[Asker]

Boxer shorts

[crystalt70]

Boxer briefs?

[crystalt70]

I'm asking because it looks pretty free in that picture. Lol.

[Asker]

It ummmm free's up at the bottom a lot lol

[crystalt70]

Lol. Okay. Maybe you can position it another way? I don't know. I've never had a dick, much less a big dick. Haha!

[Asker]

But like... does it appear huge? I have tried that but it sort of wraps around and that is just worse

[crystalt70]

Yes, it does.

[Asker]

I really appreciate this thank you! What would your reaction be in public?

[crystalt70]

If we were just walking past each other and it caught my eye, i would look down then back at his face. I probably wouldn't really react other than that. I do smile at people that I cross unless they look like assholes, so I would probably smile. Then go on my merry little way.

[Asker]

Thats okay then but what would go on in your head when you "went on your merry little way" That dude had a booner? Lol

[crystalt70]

Nope. I would think, "nice package".

[Asker]

Thank you very much.. I get the feeling i would get a lot of varied reactions

[crystalt70]

Probably so. Ya can't please everybody in life. So, worry about keeping yourself and your woman happy.

[crystalt70]

Thank you! 😀

[Asker]

Thank you for taking the time out. I think i could try tighter boxers more often

[crystalt70]

No problem. That's what I'm here for. 😊

[Asker]

Okay so I've just done something.. check out my profile picture and this is my problem. I've angled it the best i can so i can hide it in jeans

[crystalt70]

I think you're just trying to make me horny now. Haha! 😁

[Asker]

Is that what it is doing? ? Haha

[crystalt70]

Lmbo! That's not what I said.

[kittykatbrat]

Vote B = Luuuuuuuuuuuurve big tall guys with big obvious cocks :)

[Asker]

Well i would say im about 6foot if that helps any matters? Ha But i have issuse with if women will think im a pervert or something. Id upload a picture but i dont know if i can bring myself to do it. Need help lol

[kittykatbrat]

(smiling) I am a serial dater who already has more than my fair share of men. No pic is necessary. Just answering your question honestly is all. Peace xo

[Asker]

Thank you!!!

[ixi10]

It would even more awkward if you tried to hide it hahaha. Show it off! Be proud.

[Asker]

Really? Its very very difficult to hide it. But then again that draws attention to that area lol

[Soulsky]

Yeah be happy man, don't hide it but don't go out of your way to flaunt it either. Just be yourself, your big package is a bonus ;) An Extra lol

[Asker]

Haha i understand but when i say flaunt it i mean , just wear what i like and if people stare then so be it.. I've noticed it a lot more lately lol

[Soulsky]

I know your pain kind of. I have a big bubbly stickin out butt and men love it, and so do I, but yeah at times I don't want that kind of sexual attention so I have been trying to cover it, not much success. I also felt down and uncomfortable at times but hey I realized, its me and I have a big butt and I'll wear whatever I want and if people want to look, let them. God created you this way, don't worry what anyone thinks..

[Asker]

Thats like my weakness on a women haha. But i get where you are coming from. Even if i wear loose jeans its shows through. Its about six inches flaccid and its so difficult to hide. I think to myself if they are thinking i have a hard on in public. Its just the worst to hide and a thick member can look attractive to a woman if sh can see it in loose jeans?

[Soulsky]

haha awesome. Well if I saw it, I'd get nervous and probably blush at first, then would get most likely get turned on lol I mean its a natural reaction haha

[Asker]

Thats what i get! They get like... frightened it seems and move out of the way.. i dunno if its that big or that big a deal... Its going to take some courage i will put my profile pic of it in jeans. God help me!

[Soulsky]

lol hahaha too funny, they move out of the way lol maybe they think you'd knock them out with it lmao nah not frightened, just like shy I guess, but guarantee you, they'd be thinking about it all day hehe

[Asker]

So is that a normal reaction? Do they think i have a bonner or just that its big and thick? Lol can you see what i mean? Haha

[Soulsky]

I guess there are different types of girls, the boring no fun ones would freak out and the hot blooded ones like me would like it. Don't worry so much. You got a big one, its hot, girls will love to have you ;)

[Asker]

So what would your honest reaction be seeing it? And what would your thoughts be?

[Soulsky]

I'd get horny lol and imagine stuff and wonder if you are wearing underwear, boxers perhaps

[Asker]

So thats making you horny? But would. you shy away? And avoid me?

[Soulsky]

Well, I'd pretend I didn't notice and act normal I guess, well try to act normal..

[Asker]

you're very intriguing with your answers lol How does try to act normal work?

[Soulsky]

lol thanks, is being intriguing a good thing? Well, you know, I'll pretend I didn't notice, but you will probably notice that I'm blushing lol

[Asker]

Intriguing is always a good thing. The reason i asked this question was because i thought women were being freaked out by it.. If they love it then thats different

[Soulsky]

That's all good. As long as you are not acting strange or creepy, I'm sure they will love it ;)

[Asker]

Thank you so much. . Message me sometime you have interesting views !

[Soulsky]

Sure thing, I'm always up for interesting conversations :)

[Asker]

Message me i can't for some reason ha

[Soulsky]

Yeah me neither, think we have to earn some points lol to be level 2 to pm. Is your profile public?

[Asker]

I wouldn't know... Do you have kik?

[Soulsky]

Yeah ok so we need to earn over 150 points to be level 2 in order to pm. And points collection adds up but takes 24-48 hrs. So I guess I'll talk to you in few days big boy lol meanwhile walk proud and see what reactions you get haha let me know in few days if they like it ;)

[Asker]

I will give it a try i suppose. Its not thaaaaat big haha 😉

[Soulsky]

Its all good haha