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Sexual Health Why doesn't my boyfriend want to do "certain things" to me?
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Okay, so i've been dating the most amazing guy for a little over 8 months now and he respects me and we have an amazing relationship, we never fight and we are always happy. So this is his first relationship and this is kinda my 2nd. So we are both virgins and he just turned 18 and i'm almost 17. He wants to wait til marriage and so do I but we still do sexual things. We will make out and get pretty intense, but there are some things he won't do to me. I have gone as far as i can go with him, i have given him hj and bj for a while now. i guess im more sexual then he is but that side of him has come out a lot since we got together. He will grab my boobs and he a few days ago started licking them and that stuff which i have been waiting for lol he is the slow type but we have been together a while. He barely goes for my butt but i think thats because he is a boob guy lately he has gone there but i wish he went there more. I dont know if he won't go there beacuse its close to my "area" and thats The big thing, he has not gone in my pants. Now this kinda bothers me and i think he gets the clue, and i think thats why he did the licking boobs thing the other day. He once in a while asks for pics and i like sending them but he will ask for a certain "down there" pic and i think its kind of odd. He told me that he is nervous to go there but i dont know why. Then he said cause of the age difference he kinda feels weird cause im 16 and that really hurts my feelings and i haven't told him that. he has told me that twice and i know it would crush him if he knew it crushed me, but i dont get why he is letting me give him blowjobs then. I started doing them cause he mentioned them and I love giving him them. I just don't understand, once in a while he will just put his hand down there and just rub on top above all my clothing but that only happened like 3 times like a couple months ago. I just get bothered how he will always ask if im horny after i give him bj a
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And he won't finish me or even go near there, its like he doesn't care if I have to take care of something he doesn't. He never forces me to do this or asks me He kinda gives me hints but wouldn't be mad if I didn't do it. I just know how it feels to be "unfinished." what should I do? I don't want to force him if he isn't ready but clearly I think he is.
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