Guys, Men: do you guys have a middle eastern girl fetish?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys, just a general opinion. I am not middle eastern but supposedly look Iranian and I find that men seem to act so weird with me. Especially white men, they like seriously act so weird. Like other ethnicities do as well but maybe I interact with white guys due to my work, I find they act seriously the weirdest with comments like oh yeah Im most attracted to middle eastern girls. I'm brown and I have a few other brown girls are work but like I said I look more middle eastern, which I find is an insult to my kind meaning brown girls aren't as attractive as middle easterns. The other girls at my work are gorgeous blondes. I think they are so pretty and fit. I'm more jet black hair, medium light skin tone and grayish eyes and super petite. Really no reason to go all goo gaGA over. Instead I catch them constantly staring at my face or my boobs (barely b cups). Or they continously make eye contact or comment on my race, size and etc. I don't want to be the Centre or attention but theyl l make jokes at me or around me and then look at me to see if I laugh. So weird!!! Do men have some kiND of fetish for middle easterns? Especially white guys?

[Gojira]

Well, I'm white and work with some East Indian girls of various skin shades from light brown to dark brown and some are jaw dropping gorgeous. There are several that no blonde or white girl of any hair color could hold a candle to in my opinion. But I prefer women of color anyway. Buy yeah i kinda weird around the really stunning ones I guess. I'm really into Far East and South East Asian girls who are also women of various colors. I seriously believe that if the media have the same preference to the gorgeous women of color of tug world like they do white women a lot of brainwashed minds would be awakened. I'm truly happy mine is already.

[Asker]

Yes I've worked with a bunch of white guys that feel this way. I guess it's either dependent on taste or the exoticNess of something different.

[Gojira]

I know that for me, that dark exotic breathtaking beauty can make me a little nervous. I don't know why. I've been told be some of them that I'm always blushing when I'm around them lol. Some of us are just naturally attracted to that and not ashamed to show or admit it. We're proud that we're free of mind to attracted to beautiful women of any color and not brainwashed into liking what we're told to like. And we couldn't care less what anyone has to say about it. I'll take light to dark skin any day over pale white.

[Asker]

I know what you mean but I find beauty in everyone. I like the look of most guys. Lol

[Gojira]

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[Frost_Byt3]

Its because girls have the wrong idea of what guys find attractive (thanks to the media). Only guys know what kind of girls they find attractive.

You know how the media is always like "All blondes are gorgeous. They are the best looking women, and men go crazy for blondes."

Not true. More guys prefer brunettes than blondes. Almost 2 to 1.
And that's just one example of a misconception that the media has set up...

So chances are, even if YOU think that the pther girls are more beatiful than you, its actually the other way around for guys.

[Asker]

But wait, isn't lust about the body more than the face? I guess my look is unique and exotic but my body is different to what is in fashion now. I'm 5'1, short and petite and although I have a tiny waist and round hips. I don't have large assets lol. The girls I work with are tall, leggy, and meatier. Seriously, they have pretty banging bodies. I worked with a blonde girl who joined after me and she had a stunning figure. I was surprised as they did talk about her but didn't act all go go GA GA over her. Instead, girl Co worker overheaRd conversation where they tease each other about you. I remember walking in to ask one of my coworkers help and he was amongst the guys, they were in the lunch room and my Co worker was like she's here for me and put his arm around my back to draw me away and all these guys were hollering. He's 60 years old, it's unbelievable for them to act this weird.

[Frost_Byt3]

Youd be surprised. Face comes first, body comes second. There isn't a guy on the face of the earth that would disagree. Plus, most guys aren't into the whole hot, seductive, womanly look. We are more attracted to cute, feminine, ladylike women. And when it comes to my own preferences, the shorter the better. Your height is close to perfect. I find short girls absolutely adorable. It brings out some kind of male instinct to protect and take care of her. Also, i like girls with a smaller stature. I'll admit that some curves are nice on a small stature, but if the curves aren't the best, its not a huge deal. I would still find her adorable. I am not that tall myself (only 5'9) and there is no way in hell that i will date a girl taller than me, so i am typically turned off by the tall, leggy type. And i can safely say that the vast majority of men have a similar preference to my own.

[Asker]

I guess you may be right. I just thought guys were all about the Kim k and nicki minaj. Lol

[Frost_Byt3]

Eww hell no. Both of them are seriously unattractive. 😖

[AustinMan]

A LOT of men have a real fetish for dark, mysterious, exotic women and it sounds like you fit the bill. I promise, they are also string at your ass.

[Asker]

Lol. Maybe maybe. Surprising cause a lot of women believe blondes are it!

[AustinMan]

And they're right, as usual, statistically. More men prefer blondes.

[Asker]

Yes, at least in Caucasian women. Although from what I've understood, white women on average are considered pretty or beautiful based on euro beauty. But darker colouring women are considered sexier more seductive on average. However it could be the stereotypes that media generally plays up with blondes being bombshell and trophy like and darker beauties being the mistress or badass characters.

[AustinMan]

There probably is some stereotyping going on. I mean i find blondes very attractive but the more exotic women bring out that animal that lives in all men.

[Asker]

True.

[JuicyBrain]

Middle eastern women are beautiful. Plus, the fact that most of them are hiding behind a veil and are very hard to get means they are sought after. We always want what we can't have... I can't say I really feel sorry for the fact that you are beautiful. If you think life is hard when you are beautiful, try being ugly !

[Asker]

Lol. I wasn't saying about ugly vs beautiful. I work with a lot of attractive women. However, most are white girls and I work wit white guys. They seemed to act strange around me whereas are not as creepy with the other girls. Like I said, asking about your background and size, etc. They don't act like that with the other attractive women.

[JuicyBrain]

Because you are different from the others. You bring spice to a bland workplace. That's the simplest explanation...

[Asker]

Hmm suppose you're right.

[JuicyBrain]

Just tell yourself they think you are cool and interesting. Change you perspective on things... They like you ! Be glad you are attractive and guys are interested into you. I would kill to have some attention from the girls...

[Asker]

Haha. To be honest, they are interested in me for the wrong reasons. Sometimes I feel who I am is different then what I look like. I feel misunderstood and perceived as superficial, wild, arrogant, confident/cocky, and high maintenance but I'm very down to earth and understanding. Plus men lie and bs you to get with you for some status quo at times. God knows I never can understand the male population.

[bob111111]

every guy likes any girl of any race that is attractive there are few with specific fetishes like that

[TheSpecialist]

honey attraction neither in boobs nor in asses
attraction is that moment when I staring a girl.. she notice that and reflected that
with a flush.. and middle eastern girls.. do that naturally
we talk about law of attraction.. the act and the reflect

[Asker]

I guess you're right.

[TheSpecialist]

thank you :)

[PiuBelloAmante]

Well i find many middle eastern girls pretty :)
i am italian and mexican and people think i am middle eastern too

I mean fetish is a bit strong, although i do find many girls from north africa/middle east attractive

White guys like all types of stuff, who cares!

also you sound gorgeous! no wonder these guys go, goo goo gaga over you lol!!

[Asker]

Lol. Italians are like almost brown or middle eastern. Not only in appearance but culture and beliefs.

[Asker]

And thank you, I guess it's just based on perspective. I guess I'm unique looking but I think the blondes at my work are as well.

[PiuBelloAmante]

haha! yeah kind of, some italians/like myself are pretty tan, olive colored skin i do get called arab all the time, many people think i am north African but no i am not... Stay beautiful girl, you are prettier than you think

[Asker]

Thanks for the compliment. Yes Italians tend to range in complexion. The Mexican blood makes you more exotic though.

[PiuBelloAmante]

haha i guess so! plus when it comes to food i get to eat both! Mexican food and Italian food is awesome! well have nice day beautiful :)

[meatballs21]

Some guys have a fetish for them, sure. Mine are more for redheads and Asian chicks.

[muspelhem_5]

"I'm brown and I have a few other brown girls are work but like I said I look more middle eastern, which I find is an insult to my kind meaning brown girls aren't as attractive as middle easterns."

Are you friggin serious? These guys are complimenting you on your appearance and you are insulted?

It's like life gave you lemonade and you made lemons.

[Asker]

Likewise, bad experience with people being obsessed by a certain look. I dated a white guy and he didn't even like brown girls before me. It was like wht s that suppose to mean. And it was worst when I met his friends, they were so obsessed with your looks like all they did was gawk feels awkward and you feel like a fetish.

[sexyphil]

I have an attraction to Pakistani girls but have never yet had one to bed but am open to offers. I find them quite attractive and would love to have sex with one just for the experience but to find one is not easy

[legslover79]

well if you were to of put a picture up, you probably would get a better answer. but i have no problem with women from that side of the plant

[Ihav2fart]

I have a fetish for attractive girls.
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