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How do you know the guy enjoyed sex during a one night stand?

So last night I had sex with a guy that I sort of know but I don't know him enough to consider it a "friendly hook up". It was the best sex I've ever had. He was huge and he made a point to get me off first (I always thought that when a man has a one night stand he really only cares about getting himself off so this kind of shocked me). So the story goes like this. I have been trying to catch his attention for a few weeks now and he gave me his number but we don't really text. I've tried to text him a few times but the conversation never really went anywhere and he has never text me first so obviously I'm more interested but anyway. So last night when I was at the same bar he works at I made it a point for him to know that I wanted to sleep with him. After a few texts I gave him my address and he was here in a matter of minutes. He walked in and within minutes we were making out on my bed. We had sex and did more than one position. It didn't take him long to cum but he made sure to get me off first. He kept saying things like "fuck why are you so hot" and between kissing me he'd just lift his head back and say "fuck" like he was enjoying it but I am not sure if this is just how he has sex (kind of like I always moan a certain way maybe he says fuck?). After he came we laid on my bed for a while and had small talk and kissed. He kissed me goodbye and left. It was never awkward and like I said, for me it was the best sex I've ever had. He's not the type I date (I'm a good girl he's a bad boy) but I'd like to have sex again but it's been a whole day and he hasn't as much said he wants to do it again. We both just went through awful breakups and I feel like we could be a great distraction for each other. So how would I know if he enjoyed it? Was he let down by my body or something? Shouldn't he have text me by now if he liked it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He didn't text you because it was a one night stand. It was good for you and now you want more, but that's the clincher; it was a one night stand, so he doesn't care about how you feel. If you want to do it again , wait a little while or he'll think you want to be his girlfriend (you said you don't, but don't you? I mean, don't you?) And text him in a week or so with something like "I'm horny" that should be sufficient. BT dubbz, I say fuck a lot, cause what else can I say? Like me, he gets off on getting women off. Some of us are just like that. Good luck.

    • This guy has got the idea. Play him like a dude. You enjoyed it. Great. He probably knows you did and knows he has u wrapped around his little finger... or huge cock. But don't let him know u are gagging for it. Say fuck all. Nothing. That will get him thinking about u not enjoying it... Like "Maybe she faked it" or "my massive dick wasn't good enough". He will be back trying again in no time. Thats unless he is that good he has chicks hotter than u lined up that are better in bed. Then ur fucked. Or up ur game in the bedroom. Good luck either way.

  • He seemed to like it, he said you were hot fucked you good, then came.
    Sounds like a good time to me.

    Some of these bad boys are used to girls coming on to them, and don't put much thought into a pending relationship.
    Wait a few days and hit him up again.
    He probably will show for another round.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You obviously want him to be more after the sex. Depending on the guy... eh. If he really enjoyed it and appreciate your presence, he could at least say thanks... in text but it sounds like 1. He sucks at communicating 2. He doesn't really care to text.

  • He will probably come back or end up pregnant because he did you hard enough to get his sperm into you. Not always the case

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  • If he nutted, he liked it. Play with his butt hole next time and you will own him

    • I so agree 100 percent with this statement

  • You answered the question yourself. He loved the sex but it was just a one night stand to him. If you want more then go after him. by the way, you made the experience sound hot in your description. I read it twice

  • I think most guys enjoy one night stands, if they didn't why would they do it?
    Maybe he thought you actually had no intentions other then sex that's why he hasn't contacted you?

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