Should I Have a Summer Fling to Lose Virginity?

[Anonymous]

I'm 22 (turning 23 in July), and I will be moving back in with my mom come September. For many reasons (not moral or religious), I'm still a virgin, but since I'll be living with my * I feel like I'll be a loser living with her as a virgin. This isn't something that I want to just rid myself of, and if it doesn't happen, it won't be a big deal. I've met a pretty great guy online, who's made it clear that he's interested in me, physically and intellectually, and that I'm not looking for a long-term relationship, based on aforementioned move. We text for about 2 hours every day, and have had a couple great phone conversations. He's out of town until mid-July, we have plans for a movie marathon. But how do I take the 'hanging out cliche' and actually have sex. And how long should I wait after meeting him to do so? (I'm obviously thinking not at the first meeting) Thanks for your opinions!

[DoraDora]

when i first lost my virginity it was with a guy i knew he had a girlfriend but they had problems and shit. i just wanted to do it. not because i felt extremely horny or miserable i did it because i knew it was getting late ( i was 17 and let's all agree that society now days expect us to enter the world of non-virgins in your early teens but ofcourse thats a choice) anyways. i did it in after 3 days i knew him. and we haven't spoken ever since. i don't regret it and i think he was my best shot for losing it because he was caring and i liked him.

[PrettyRican]

Just wait to see what happens don't rush it and once you have sex your going to want it again. You don't even know this guy well enough? Does he have a STD? There is a lot to think about. And once you give it up you could never get it back.

[RasAlGhul]

have a few meetings first and u will see when the guy will want too. If he think u are cool he never will think u are a easy girl like sex 1st date done. Just let things flow i guess.. Im virgin to soo that is what i can say. sorry if didn't help

[Figleaf]

You want a fling, but you don't want to fuck him at your first meeting? Kid, you're lobbying for a relationship no matter what you say. Hang on to the big 'V' a while longer.

[Mickdodge]

If it feels right do it but be careful