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I'm being seduced by a married man?

I was friends with this guy back in high school and I used to have a big crush on him but things just didn't work out. Now a couple years later he's married and has an infant daughter. We started talking on Facebook again on kind of a friend level, then he started trying to flirt with me. I was very stern at first that it wasn't okay, that's he married and all of that but he's been persisting, and I can't help but still be attracted to him and I've started flirting back. He's talking about us "hanging out" but I know I wouldn't be able to control myself if I saw him in person. I don't want to be a home wrecker, but I don't want to cut this guy off either because I also like having his as a friend. What should I do?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm telling you right now that even flirting with him is incredibly wrong and you need to stop, now. If it is anything I hate, it is home wreckers. Try to put yourself in his wife's shoes... you wouldn't want to be cheated on like that, and discover that there is another woman and him fooling around, and worse yet, the other woman is fully aware of him being married.

    • ^Please take note of this, Asker^

  • Tell him exactly what you told us. You don't want to be home wrecker and you two should still stay friends. If he keeps persisting remind him that he has a wife and a daughter to take care of.

    • For being so young you give some good advice. I also appreciate you being one of the few to not berate me over this thing. :)

  • Ok imagine yourself already consummating with him? Is life gonna be better or worse?

    I'm not gonna tell u what to do. Its your life so you should be one smart enough to decide.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Stay away from him, cut all contact with him, don't be a home wrecker, don't be that girl, trust your gut on this one and do the right thing, you don't want to be responsible for destroying a marriage and a kids, childhood even if he goes to someone else after you, at least you won't be held responsible.

  • There is no middle ground. He is seeing to that, and setting you up to cheat on his wife with him. All that is left is to tell him no thanks, wish him well, and to cut off all contact immediately after.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Talk to the guy, tell him you don't have romantic feelings for him and nothing is going to happen. See what his answer is... but basically if he's hot for you he'll always try to nail you,

  • Mm can be charming because they are confident , why they are confident? It is because they are not scared of rejection, they have nothing to lose because they still have their wife at Home.

  • You shouldn't flirt and flirt back when he is trying to just dont forget he has a daughter need to back off!!

  • Tell him to behave like a friend... nothing apart from that...

    If he refused to do so , consult with his wife... that's it

  • Cut him off, how would it feel if you had a husband and an infant then he cheated on you?

  • Stop it. Put yourself in his wife's shoes. Find a guy who's single.

  • Block him hurry before you turn into the "other woman"
    If he has in infant daughter and he is hitting on you he is no good unfriend him and block his sorry ass

    • I agree!

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