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He leaked my nudes! What do I do!

I sent nudes to this guy I hooked up with and I told him I don't like him anymore and I don't want to hook up anymore. He got mad and upset and we got in a fight and he called me names like cum dumpster and ugly bitch. he sent my nudes to his friends and now bunch of guys from my high school have seen them! they smirk at me when I walk by and talk about me sexually and treat me like an object. He sent them to my boyfriend too and wrote something like your bitch sent this to me oh ps I've fucked her like 100x since March. He's been talking about it at school how much of a slut I am and My boyfriend hates me and avoids me and stopped talking to me and transferred to another class. I've been crying for a week straight and I lost all my friends. even my teachers think I'm a big cheating whore. Can someone please help me or give me advice? I've made so many mistakes and I've lied a lot but I don't think I deserve this!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I feel bad for your situation if it is true. I'm having trouble with the fact you are making it seem like it happened recently as well as going to school still to face your classmates. I don't know of a single high school that is still in session. Most if not all are on break for the summer. That alone makes me think this is a troll attempt.

    If it is true. You know you shouldn't have cheated. You don't need all the users below my comment to tell you that or be hateful to you. You are young and are going to make mistakes. There is not a single person on this site that has led a perfect life. There are laws that prevent the spreading of the photos. If someone accessed your phone without your permission that person is in serious trouble. If you are underage in any of the pictures that takes this to a whole new level and a lot of people are in trouble. Ignore the comments from people saying not a crime because revenge porn is a crime or having your documents shared without your consent is also a crime. Apparently they live in a land of no laws. I hope this is not just a troll attempt.

    And to anyone else reading this... Look at these hateful comments this is exactly why young people commit suicide because of this type of shaming. None of you are perfect so stop acting like it.

  • Um, let's see. Not that I am not sympathetic or anything, but it seems that you do not have any problems you did not sign up for. First of all, it is not clear how many times you hooked up with this guy, but it does seem that you slept with him a number of times while you were dating your boyfriend. It is not clear whether you were also sleeping with him, but I think you better face it, that relationship is over. And you killed it. You were cheating on him. As for your teachers, it is likely that they are aware that some high school students are sexually active and they are not surprised or all that interested, frankly. If you are 18, you should be graduating soon. So move on. It all disappears soon. But you might want to figure out how you got yourself into this position. Why were you dating one guy and fucking another? If you do not figure that one out, you are going to do it again, with similar results.

    • Very well said. I agree.

    • I was gonna post something here, but you said pretty much all there is to say. Here's your MHO, @asker.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes people, she did a bad thing. Shit happens. She made a huge mistake. But girl, you can't let this ruin you. Talk to your parents. I know its the hardest thing to do right now, but its their support you need. And trust me, your parents will support you even though they might be mad at first. You have to tell them. Do you know how comforting and safe it feels when you have your parents on your side in something like this. Me personally, I would not let anything like that blackmail me. So everybody saw you in that way. You can get lawyers involved if it gets bad. If it gets worse, you could leave the country and change your name. Trust me, no matter what, its not the end of the world. I just hope you learnt from this. Talk to your parents.

  • You got what you deserved.

    I have zero sympathy for a cheater and everyone is right for thinking you're a slut, not because you took nudes, but because you went around fucking other guys while being in a relationship.

    HOWEVER, what this guy did was indeed illegal and he definitely can get done for it, so you best report him to the police.

    I am content with the fact that even though he'll get in trouble, your whoring reputation will remain regardless whether every single photo were to be taken down and erased from the history of the internets (that'll never happen, though).

    https://i4.ytimg.com/vi/kdOPBP9vuZA/mqdefault.jpg

    • I like you. c:

    • Amen.

    • A special part of my heart gets really happy when I see your comments :)

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  • I don't have sympathy for cheaters but you did come here looking for advice. Hopefully you have learned from your mistakes and will never do this again! Now I suggest you bring this to the attention of the local police. Revenge porn is a thing that has become prevalent and I don't think anyone deserves it! The law hasn't fully caught up with the times but you can still take legal action. Tell the cops and consult an attorney. Here are some links that might help:

    hellobeautiful.com/.../

    www.mirror.co.uk/.../nude-photos-7-laws-protect-4146809

    • by the way I've scanned through most of the comments and to the people name calling and shit, "Knock it off!". Yes this girl made a HUGE mistake but berating her further isn't going to solve anything! She gets enough of name calling at school, her friends abandoned her, the faculty seems to have turned their back on her, and now these photos are floating all over the place. This will follow her for the rest of her life and I'm sure you don't want to be the people who put the nail in the coffin that causes her to take her life!

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  • You lost me completely at "even my teachers think I'm a big cheating whore." I don't believe that.

    Whole story is probably fiction.

    • Yeah, that part was too much, it's clearly a troll attempt.

  • I would go to the police for harassment.

    Lesson learned----Don't send nudes.
    If you do, at least make sure your face isn't included in the pic.

  • I'm so sorry. Live and learn. If you look at my answers to questions about photos, I always advise against for just this reason. Sadly, you're just gonna have to ride this out.

  • There's a new law that is in effect because people think this kind of stuff is funny go to the police then he will go to jail along with others who keep forwarding it

  • You should definitely take a legal action against that guy otherwise he'll continue to do what he's doing right now and if possible, contact the person you trust the most and tell him/her the whole scenario sobhe/she can help you out with this.

    • *so he/she

  • Own up to it. He holds power over you with these photos. Laugh at it. The situation sucks. But it's also 2015. Nude photos exist anywhere, and everywhere. He's acting as a bully, and as long as bullies hold power, they'll remain in control. Find a way to own up to these photos, make jokes about it yourself in front of him. He's venting. Don't stoop to his level and send out photos or insult him. Mistakes will happen throughout life. You learn from them and move on.

  • I may need to see the photos to give a more comprehensive opinion... JOKES!!!
    Lets hope one day it is something to laugh about.
    However... sorry love, your behavior lacked honor and integrity. You've just learned a very hard lesson. We all get them when needed and hopefully it makes you a better person.

  • Go the police, it is classed as sexual harassment / assault to distribute it without proof of consent.
    Also depending on your ages you can sue at small claims court.

  • Report it and get the cops involved. Learn your lesson...

  • sry but there is not much you can do. don't send nudes to random dudes you hook up if you are not okay with them getting leaked.

  • Kill everyone.
    Really though you can probably get him charged with sexual harassment or something.

  • I know as a fellow woman I should take your side and feel bad for you, but, I don't. You shouldn't have been dumb enough to cheat on your boyfriend and you definitely shouldn't have taken/sent nudes to anyone to begin with. If you're looking for sympathy you won't find it here.

  • I was feeling bad for you until you mentioned you have a boyfriend, so now I'm just like "well, karma's a bitch".
    I don't feel sorry for you, not at all, you cheated, you acted like a bitch, yo got what you deserve.

    I hope this is a trolling attempt, cause you can't expect me to feel bad for you when you were the first one to do wrong.

  • You don't deserve it. No one deserves that, regardless of what they've done. You should press charges.

  • honestly, you're just gonna have to ride it out until you're finished with school, your reputation within that proximity is forever tainted.

  • Brought this on yourself. Enjoy.

    • What a fucking douchebag. Chill

    • Loving this.

    • Me too...😊😊 love it!

  • I don't mean to be rude but you should have known better. There probably isn't much you can do kmow

  • Did you hookup with this guy while you have a boyfriend? Or you're with your boyfriend after you ended it with this guy? Just curious tho, it's okay if you don't want to answer it. Well, all I can say is, go to the police and let them know about this.

    • She hooked up with him while she had a boyfriend, not before, and not after.

    • I think she sent him nudes before she got into relation with this other guy. But that doesn't matter cause cheating doesn't mean that you should be sexually harassed for that.

  • Too late to do anything. You caved in to some idiotic high school sexist brat for nudes. High school hookups are bad when nude pics are involved.

  • so you cheated on your boyfriend? and your nudes got leaked. karma's a bitch and that's what you get for sending nudes

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