Guys, does no hug after leaving a girl's place mean it was a one night stand?

I invited a guy over to my place which included a sleep over on the 1st date. didn't sit anywhere near him. After talking for a while I suggested we watch something. He said it doesn't matter because he will probably kiss me then so it doesn't matter what we watch. After I sat beside him when we were talking he said this seems like a good time to kiss you. And he kissed me after I nodded. We ended up making out and getting naked soon after. I told him I was on my period so we just fooled around some more before sleeping. We cuddled a bit and he kissed my forehead and cheek a few times while we cuddled. Morning after I woke him up for food, he washed up checked his phone said he has to go in early for a workshop. He didn't hug before leaving, so was this just a one night stand?
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So I messaged him asking how work was, 2 nights after and he saw the message and no response...
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  • How long has it been since this happened? Have you had any communication with him since that night? This sounds like it is too early to tell for sure. I would not worry about not having a hug before he left. If you felt like there was any kind of connection with this guy then I would say that it is not a one night stand.

  • yaa... most likely. especially given your update.

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  • 1. Guess that can be the case most times
    2. There are guys who find it awkward to express themselves or hug someone good bye - good possibility
    3. I'd always hug and kiss even an ONS when leaving her place or even the motel

  • You're overthinking it... Dudes don't pay that much attention to little things.

    If he talks to you again, it wasn't a one night stand. If he doesn't it was.

  • Well you never had sex, so it's not a one night stand. However, he does show a lack of care which might mean he's might just be in for the sex.

  • I don't know about anyone else but I've always felt special and loved when I get some hugs.

  • Well, it's so new between you two, maybe he just felt a bit awkward. Is he someone you would want to see again? Because I think it's too soon to judge him.

  • He could be awkward. Maybe he doesn't realize the value of a little human kindness?

  • Did you guys schedule a new date?
    Also, you guys didn't have sex, so if his plan was just sex, he'll most likely come back.

  • its not a one night stand if you didn't have sex.

  • Dont worry, if you can not take the no hug as the only fact, he did many other things and he dint had sex so XD you can not be a one night stand if you dint go all the way.

  • It's a one night stand if he doesn't want to meet anytime in the future. So not necessarily.

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