Cowgirl tips
Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
• He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
• Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
• Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
• Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
• When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
• When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
• When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
• As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
• If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
• Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
• If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
• He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
• Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.
I've found that women like to lean back for their own pleasure when riding, as it creates pressure on the G-spot with the penis. However, this quickly hurts if you go back too far. So just don't lean back very far.
Also, as for the rate and intensity, be sensitive to your partner. Sense his state of arousal. Look for muscle tremors, listen to breathing, and let his hands clue you in.
If you go too hard too fast to start, you'll get tired and he won't move into a state where he's receptive to that intensity. If you start low and never speed up, he'll advance to a state where he's ready for more intensity but will not get any further unless you ramp it up. An envelope needs to be maintained, which depends on his state. Also, don't get tired. Ever. Don't ever stop. Endurance is a must, unless you have a magic vagina.
Also, what feels good for a guy isn't the same as what feels good for a girl. That crap where you stay down and grind around in a circle without any up-and-down... well it feels good, and it's a nice starter, but it doesn't go anywhere. There has to be longitudinal motion along the penis, especially if he's circumcised (circumcised men are missing about 20,000 nerve endings, and their glans is keratinized (dried up and made into an external organ), so the mechanics are a bit different). Know his length. Don't let it fall out, but try to get it all.
If you get tired, push your chest against his and rest against him, but try to keep the essential motion going.
Go to RedTube and watch how Anetta Keys does it. Or Vanessa Blue. Their kung fu is strong.
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rotating motions are hot as FUCK if you can do it right
You can go fast or take it slow... try to incorporate some grinding into the fold
I think that in this position a man should let his woman take control, then slowly feel the rhythm of her flow.
you don't ride a guy for his pleasure you ride a guy for your own pleasure trust me he is enjoying every moment of it. as for speed you go as fast or as slow as you want what ever it takes for you to have an orgasm and if he doesn't cum when you do you suck him off till he cums or change positions and let him get off.
Keep him deep inside move quickly back and forward so not sliding in and out. He'll cum quick and love it. Always here to help and practice on on if u need it hehe ;-)
Riding doesn't really do much for me.
All you do is sit on his dick and grind back and forth when facing him, or bend over and almost twerk when facing away from him. Realistically, though, he'll probably just hold your hips and thrust into you while you're sitting on top, so he's still basically doing all the work.
Yeah, I had that same problem. Too much grinding and not enough up-and-down. I've never been ridden the way I like, but I'm not giving up on it. I've seen porn actresses who can do it well so I know it's possible.
Sitting all the way down on him and grinding your hips in a circular motion feels good. Reverse cowgirl is hot, not just because I am an ass man, but also because if the girl leans forward and the lights are on the guy can see his dick disappearing inside of you. I have always thought it is hot when I am close to orgasm and the girl leans back so that her hands are resting on the bed and riding fast and hard to finish it off. If you have good muscle control then a move you may want to try is what people call milking. When he is completely inside of you squeeze your muscles tight as you slowly make your way to the head of his cock and then relax your muscles to slide back down him. Fucking fast is the best for orgasm, but you don't want it over in 5 seconds so speed up when you want to move towards finishing it. Grab his wrists and place his hands on your boobs as you ride him so he knows he can play with them at the same time. You could also lean forward with your hands flat on the bed and swing your boobs in/on his face as you are riding him. That's all I can think of right now.
you gotta go up and down, if you go side to side , it does nothing for me
Start slow as a tease. Then move at a moderate pace.
If he is anything like me he will love being ridden. It is an amazing view when you mount him. Start out very slow, easing down on him. Moan with ecstasy as you slide down on him. Lean forward so as you are going up and down on him he can be sucking on your boobs.
Take the opportunity to lean back too, put your hands behind you and slide up and down. It gives a great view of you and him and gives him access to your clitty.
If he and you both like oral, when you are good and wet, slide off him and move up and sit on his face so he can get a good taste before you go back and put him back in you and you finish him off.
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