Hiring an escort?

[Anonymous]

Hello Guys! I am a 19 year old that's never had a girlfriend and I had disappointing sex once in the past through pure luck (I still consider myself a virgin). I am absolutely sick of how much of a joke I am, everyone else my age and even younger is sexually active but me. I have the ability to attract girls like a magnet has the ability to attract dirt and it just gets really frustrating. The main goal in the big picture is to find a loving girlfriend who I can be myself around and who cares about me but until then, I feel the need to hire an escort, I have huge sexual urges but no outlet for them so I plan on getting an escort so I can experience sex whilst I'm still young enough to enjoy it and maybe once in my life I'll get to have sex with someone I find attractive. I am very average looking and I'm very shy, quiet, soft, good-hearted and I have a huge past of bullying, bullying so bad that I was about to take my own life until I was talked out of it and so basically, I'm a beta male, which makes an escort the perfect thing for me! Plus, if I'm going to get a loyal girlfriend in the future, being sexally experienced is a must as I'll want to satisfy her so she won't cheat on me or leave. I never imagined having to consider escorts whilst I was younger but I'm one of the unlucky few that nature wants to remain celibate so I need to hire an escort. What do you think? And before you demonise me for anything, imagine having such huge sexual urges but nobody to have sex with, imagine that jealousy, loneliness and frustration gnawing at you until you break. It['s not a good life, this could be a saving grace for me.

[Anonymous]

I know where you're coming from I have personally thought about it myself but I decided against it due to all the issues surrounding prostitution in Canada. It is illegal in practically every way, since brothels, soliciting and advertising are illegal even though the act itself is not. At the same time being with someone that is very likely to have STIs is not worth the one sexual experience. You mentioned that you are from the UK, when I was there I saw advertisements for prostitutes inside telephone booths so I guess you have easy access.

I don't think what you want is a prostitute but an intimate relationship so this could end up hurting you emotionally while pleasing you physically.

Don't let a few bad experiences define you and make you resort to prostitution.

Now you may think "What does he know?" Well I'm 19 and a virgin and also have urges.
Some people masturbate to relieve these urges, I guess you could try that. Personally I either go to the gym or distract myself with something else. If your mind is occupied with only sex you will only be depressed and get nowhere.

[Asker]

You're right, the main thing I want is an intimate relationship but I have a lot of issues and lack of confidence rendering me unable to get one so meaningless sex is better than nothing at all

[Opinion Owner]

Try watching PUA videos and approach women. I think you will be disappointed after the escort since you will always have urges and this would trap you as a permanent customer.

[Asker]

Watching PUA videos wouldn't do ME any good either. I'm a very jealous person and I couldn't possibly pull off a PUA move

[Opinion Owner]

How does jealousy have anything to do with this? Try watching Johnny Berba he's pretty good and he's not even attractive.

[Voice]

You are very honest' and honestly speaking I fear your openness can and will attract some of the worst kinds of people to you. You remind me of the brother that I should've had. Look up zeta males if you don't already know what that is and seek that... next look up sandman from MGTOW on you tube... also don't be so needy your only 19 you have so much to learn about your self don't be a fool' you sound like a human god that thinks he's mortal' only a Devine being waiting to happen would be this open to public without some form of lousy pride and arrogance... such great potential I detect from you' you may have crummy people in your life or something as such... don't give up on your self... also type in on you tube (I long to be loved ' by jiddu Krishna murti'). You will need it. from a higher and older perspective this advice is safe and free. ONLY FOOLS DUCK WHEN THE TRUTH IS THROWN AT THEM. Thank you and take your time don't run' walk you will live longer' and safer.

[Asker]

This opinion right here has a lot of potential in it but I'm trying to disassociate myself from these Reddit keyboard warriors who think that alpha/beta is a thing. I'll have a look at this stuff, never know it might be useful. Instead of having a greek letter define my worth as a human being in this world, I'm going to be a "Fuck you I don't have a label" male

[Voice]

I am not a Alpha, Beta, omega nor zeta male' I only used zeta male because that is the greatest amongst the others and because you used beta inwhich does describe the way you expressed your self. dont chase after females NEVER' chase complete and whole right knowledge and or information'you will be way way way off better. Females are not concerned and or attracted to needy guys not even up front hookers, escorts or what ever. Get your knowledge up and money and health F' the rest. Any thing and every thing else will be your demise... also please look up on you tube those prescribed therein... THIS IS REAL TALK... REAL HELP... TAKE IT OR NO?

[Anonymous]

Go for it! It'll be good sex guaranteed, no strings attached until you find the one and you'll feel more confident with your future girlfriend. Prostitution is a job like any other job and it shouldn't be a taboo.
Have fun!

[Amiratahir]

Well, I Think KFettario is right. You should go online for hiring escort girl for you through escort sites like "japanesecompanions". Once you make a call to them they will offer you girls that you want.

[KFettario]

There are so many nice girls out there. And you want to hire an escort? Why not fo online to a dating site and find a real girl?

[Asker]

I've tried online dating but I send out loads of messages to girls I like never to get a reply. I have issues with social anxiety and being hurt in the past which is hindering me being sociable and diving into social situations to find a girl. I'm not a social butterfly anyway. Trust me when I say that hiring an escort is now my only hope of getting close and intimate with a girl, it might not be real affection but I have to make the best of a bad situation and pretend

[KFettario]

But you are so young still...

[KFettario]

you do know that half of the prostitutes have HIV right. Half (that is on the east coast of the US)

[Asker]

P. S. I'm the "You're such a sweet/funny/good guy but I only like you as a friend" kind of guy

[Asker]

Also, I live in the UK and I feel really old and it's so much pressure to go and have sex that it's losing it's magic

[BlueCoyote]

I would demonize you for such feelings. Prostitution is legal in my country and I think that's the only right thing to do with it. Prostitutes are people like you and I and it's a business just like a bakery or a hairdresser is a business. It's job like any other. There's a demand for paid sex and all these women do is offer a supply.
I don't see why it would be wrong or something bad to visit a prostitute or hire an escort. Eventually, all of us have to find their own ways to become happy and if this is your way, then I don't see why anyone should even have the right to criticize your for following it.
But there's one thing I have to tell you: it's not true that all people your age are already super active sexually and making tons of experiences. I was a virgin until I turned 22 and I've only had sex with two different girls so far.

[the_car_guy]

i was in the same shoes try and contain yourself not to hire a escort u find out more and more people are just like you and a lot of people are still virgins including myself, when i left school i thought i was the only one who hadn't done it years later i find out everyones talking crap and there no different to me

[Thetr33]

You need confidence no girl wants to be with a beta-male. Find something you are good at or enjoy and use that to meet new girls. Don't self-condone yourself as being a loser. If you went through all this bullying and are still here you are strong. Most girls that go for beta- males will use them. You don't want to be used. Now, being a beta-male doesn't mean your huge and have a six pack. Practice confidence. It takes time. Don't become a victim.

[Asker]

It's this exact alpha/beta philosophy which has made me sick of life in the first place. it's why my left wrist is covered in scars, I question my value as a human being in this world because I'm being defined by a greek letter

[justanothergager]

Don't listen to that witch fetarrio. She does not understand it's hard for as its already scarce for u. Her rezoning is fairytale and trust ur luck when it's been bad.

Do whatever u want.

U think girls want this nice guy but it's all about money and looks before they care about other things. Do as u wish

[Anonymous]

Try having a below-average penis combined with those huge sexual urges. That's my sad reality. At least you can have satisfying sex.

If you've had sex, you're not a virgin... hate to break it to you.

[Anonymous]

Escorts is not really a big deal or a taboo subject to me and all my friends. Nobody would be shocked at hearing you. It's common. What kind of boring guy didn't hire at least once a hooker to spice up parties or enjoy a trip overseas heh
go for it.

I don't even get why people make a big deal out if it