Have you ever hated someone, yet wanted to fuck them at the same time?

Whether you legitimately dislike them/hate them/ can't stand them or you just find them irritating, have you ever wanted to fuck someone you hate? I'm in a situation like this right now with a "friend. " 50% of me loves him and the other 50% can't stand him. He makes me so mad but good god I would gladly fuck him any day.
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  • As far as I know, when chicks want hate fucking, they are one step away from being in love with the guy. They hate him because he's dominant and doesn't put up with their bullshit, but it turns them on to be bent over by him because he's dominant.
    When I hate a chick and want to hate fuck her, I just want to wreck her. It's much less complicated than your 50 shades of wtf, or whatever.

    • "50 shades of wtf" that was funny But no, he's an asshole and he pisses me off but he's super attractive. Its simple

  • Thin line between love and hate.

    I highly dislike someone, but a small part of me still would like intimacy with her. It is probably because deep down inside I know what should have happened and what ended up happening. However, the rest of me knows that if what should have happened had happened I wouldn't be who I am.

    • I feel like there's a story behind this

    • Yes for sure.

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  • %100 hate this one guy but I can only feel sexual tension whenever I am near him. Doesn't help that I had a dream of him forcing me to make out with him while he felt me.

  • I suppose he is just driving you crazy. It's love blooming inside you. It's nothing like you are psychotic. You are just in love, you don't hate him.

    • Say it ain't true

  • No, usually my hate is strong enough to cancel out any type of attraction towards that person.

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  • One thing I recently thought about intensely was the fact that we aren't wired to put love and sex in the same category. They are 2 totally different things. Love is mental and sex is physical. That being said, I've had sexual urges toward girls who I wasn't emotionally attracted to on numerous occasions. Obviously sex is better when it's with someone you love but it's not a rule. Naturally, sex is based on physical attraction, not mental. Humans have just corrupted it into something different.

  • Actually, yes. Well kind of. There was a guy in college that I just really didn't like, but there was definitely some sexual tension between us.

  • Yes but I think it's different for guys. There are lots of bitches who I've hated over my life and would love nothing more than to roughly hate fuck them.

    • How so?

    • It's about dominance. It's saying "you're a bitch so I'm going to bend you over and fuck you like one" no love, no feelings, just pure domination.

  • Why don't you fuck him, then? Hate fucking is always nice.

  • oh yeah. you gotta get that hate fuck on sometimes haha!

  • Nope can't say I have.

  • can't say that i have

  • Nope never been in that situation but if it feels good then go for it...

  • yeah. and had done that. fucked her brains out. haven't talked to her since then

  • no, never in my life

  • Nope not yet.. :D

  • If i hate someone then i can't fuck that xD

  • Yes, it's happened to me once.

  • you mean like rape them... nah that's sick as fuck

    • Didn't say anything about it being non consensual

  • Can't say I have xD

  • Yes, I have thought about it before but when I have that thought, she's in a submissive role and I'm having hard and rough sex with her. I've never had any thoughts of slow and romantic sex with someone I dislike or hate. Interestingly enough, other that this specific situation, I never have fantasies about rough sex.

  • Girls act like they hate me for no reason.

    But when I just openly say. " You are Gorgeous and I would sleep with you" , they ask me for casual sex and I end up banging the girls.

  • That is called rape my dear friend!

    • Didn't say anything about it being non consensual

  • Yes and he told me he feels the same way like I do. Pretty normal.

  • You must be secretly in love with him.

    • Maybe

    • You can tell if it's just lust or actual love when you fantasize

    • I am really confused and I don't know what I want. I fantasize about both but mostly I think about kissing him (which has already happened)

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