Guys, why would my boyfriend say he wished my breasts were bigger when he's considered small?

[filipinaKRC]

This is really long! But my boyfriend and I met on omegle and we first met in person two months after. After we first had sex, he told me "if only your breasts were this big" while his his hands hovered over my chest. when it happened I pushed it aside. We fought many times about it because I've gotten really insecure about it and I found out later he thought of me with breast implants and that all of his other exes except for one had big breasts. I feel really inadequate and worthless. The thing is I never said anything about his penis size since I've never really watched porn until recently and only slept with one other guy. and I realized he's on the smaller size and he knows it too. Why would he say something so mean about my body when I haven't said anything about his? He pleasures me and I make sure he knows it... Are all guys like this? Should I be mad still? Btw: he's also apologized for what he's said but my confidence is ruined and we've been together for 20 months now.

[KXR20]

younger men usually tend to say stupid things without thinking about what they're saying. don't let his comments bring you down. If he's the right guy, he should be telling you how beautiful you are and not focusing on one specific body part/parts. If he keeps acting a fool, let him know or think his member isn't doing it for you anymore. Buying a big toy and let him see it. That'll really make him feel like shit. But if you want to stay with him, tell him how you feel. And keep telling him.

Good luck

[filipinaKRC]

Thank you! For months now I've just been holding onto a grudge on him for saying that about my body. He's my first real boyfriend so I was unsure whether or not if I should find someone else. He always tells me regrets saying that and doesn't know why he said it. he's apologized many times for it when I got mad and ensures me that I'm beautiful/loves my body. I just kept thinking About those mean words he said.

[KXR20]

Looking at Shaft50's comment, he's right. You're beautiful! He's a fool for telling you that. But if you still have feelings for him, you gotta let it go. Water under the bridge.

[filipinaKRC]

That is true, I would very much like to move on and be happy since every other aspect about him is great. It's sometimes a lot harder for me to move on than I make it out to be though.

[areyaready4this]

First of all, women with smaller breasts are waaaayyy hotter. You'll never have to worry about them flopping all over the place (which is kinda gross) during sex or having droopy saggy breasts later in life. Second, the penises you see in porn do not accurately represent the true average size of a male penis; the men you see in porn represent about 2-3% of the population. Finally, you need to express your feelings on both subjects to your boyfriend. Communication is vital to the success of any relationship.

[filipinaKRC]

I wish my boyfriend had that mind set :( he likes the boobs bouncing and everything. And the thing with porn is that I understand it's not the average size, I'm just saying that even though there are bigger sizes than him that I've never told him "I wished your penis was bigger".

[FantasticPlanet]

He sounds like a dirtbag.
Dump his grimy ass and find a man that loves you just the way you were built.

But right after you tell him it's over, say,
"If only your penis were this big..."
👉🏽---------------12"---------------👈🏽

[Shaft50]

From your profile pic, your breasts look great and in proportion to the rest of your body.

All guys are not like this. I don't think you should be mad, but you may want to question if the behaviour/arguments, etc continue regarding your fabulous breasts, if it's worth the hassle...

[StickStickity13]

Porn stars aren't a good comparison for penis size.

[filipinaKRC]

Lol they're not a good comparison for breasts either. I don't put my man down since I'm totally fine with his size, i just meant I realized there's bigger sizes after seeing porn. I was just wondering why he would put me down though.

[filipinaKRC]

I accept him since day one and didn't want to change anything about him when he didn't really accept my body.

[StickStickity13]

Then leave him?