Guys, Is it normal for guys to just get tingles and get a little bigger penis just from seeing an attractive girl and it not be really noticeable?

Like my boyfriend tells me he doesn't want to look at girls. He never had liked looking at women as meat. And he says that sometimes it's like natural instinct he says his eyes will automatically drift to boobs or butt but he will automatically catch it and look away be he doesn't want to look at other girls in that way but he told me sometimes if he sees it in person or video or picture he will like, I'm just going by his words, get a weird tingly sensation or it'll get a tiny bigger, not a boner, just bigger than what it normally is. And he says he usually doesn't notice when it gets a little bigger. And it's nothing that even is worth noticing that it's so little. Is this something that's true? Or is it made up. I just want to be able to trust him so guys please tell me what the deal is with the show tingle getting a little bigger thing. Is it something you can help? Or natural instinct.
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  • So nice of him to tell you.

    Just be sure to mention to him that when you see a really hot guy, your pussy tingles, and it doesn't get fully wet, just a little bit moist, like you're STARTING to get ready for it to be fucked. You don't mean it to be like that--it's a physiological response, when you see a guy who's hot.

    Your eyes just move all by themselves to his crotch. You don't mean to note how big his package is, and it's not your intention really to notice the contour of his cock under his jeans. Sometimes that's how it is, though, when the two of you make eye contact, and your gaze returns to the stranger's handsome face for a moment. It just happens. And you wanted your boyfriend to know--it's INSTINCT. You can't help it at all.

    I hope you threw that in, while he was discussing his mini-erections for other females. :)

  • Your boyfriend is lying, its pretty easy to look and talk to you or just look straight instead of looking at someone else. But that doesn't mean he wants to be with them or anything. Its like this. There's no harm in looking, you don't own his brain and he doesn't own yours so think, fantasise and look at as many dudes as you want, It would probably be fun if you two are walking and you and your boyfriend are talking about guys and girls as they walk by with each other. Share the game of attraction, he might pick up on things you like, and you might pick up on things he likes.

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  • Dear, it is normal and yes, this happens, and sometimes it can even become a hard on if the thoughts stick in there for enough time.

    Regardless whether the man is a jerk who thinks about women as meat or a decent guy who doesn't, he will ALWAYS like to look at women because it is part of the male nature to think females are attractive (not homosexual, I mean). There is a similar process for women too.

    And no, being pleased to see some pretty woman walking by the street doesn't mean the man wants to cheat or will cheat on you or doesn't love you anymore. It is normal and healthy (if it is not an obcession).

  • What he said is spot on. I think More girls do it than we think as well. I get so many 'micro erections' in a day I don't notice them either. Some times it is not even from a girl or anything, just happens while I am doing work or something lol

  • yes it is very normal... and it may happen with external issue... like seeing a sexy woman in a short or accidentally a girl is bending or...
    it may happen also if I am thinking of my G. F or imagining something.
    I can tell you the many times it happens while I am sitting to my desk at work. and suddenly I found someone is coming towards me I pretend the I dropped something and go down the desk instead of standing up to welcome him or her. it is not little bigger but it is very notable.
    it is natural instinct... it is happening to me right now

  • Yes, I have these feelings too, it's in our DNA we men are born to be more vulgar, but I hate whenever I hear guys talking about having their way with a girl like savages. I have the same urges as they do, but I feel like girls are amazing and need to be treated as such. Ultimately it's inevitable I just wish men were like women and arousal depended on the mind first and body coming second.

  • It is hardwired in guys. Let him look so he does not injure himself from rubbernecking. Show little jealously but not crazy girl jealously will let him know you still care about the relationship. Don t look at me like that! it is true

  • the girl probably walked by too fast for a full erection

    • Hilarious answer.

  • Males are attracted to females. Sex is an instinct and the body subconsciously gets excited at times. It just happens.

  • Yes it is very normal. Happens all the time.

  • Its quite normal to get a "half a bar" on at the sight of a pretty girl or something that turns you on just a bit. the penis just get chubbier so not a full on boner

  • Tingles for me the misses is too attractive no other girls really have that effect on me.

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