What can I do to make my girl horny?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my girl for about 3 months now, we kiss and touch eachother, although she's pretty innocent sexually and isn't too into the idea of things like that, maybe cause she's 16. She doesn't mind me touching her, although she doesn't seem to touch me. I was trying t work out ways to make her hornier cause that may help? Neck kisses? When i kiss her on the neck she breathes heavily and seems to moan and close her eyes. I can sorta tell she's into it, but she sorta pushes me away. Its like she's afraid of being turned on? I dunno any advice. even on how to get her to let me keep kissing her neck caus i can tell it gets her going? Thanks

[Azara]

id think shed be afraid of YOU getting turned on not her. being uncomfortable doesn't mean she has issues with her sexuality. she probably wants things to slow down. figuring out how to turn her on more when she's dragging her feet isn't the way to go.

talk to her about it and see how she feels. it'll help her trust you're not going to just disregard her feelings and shell feel more one about it.

[Anonymous]

You said you do some touching so that's good. If you ever put your hands down her pants stroke her clit over her underwear, or over pants if you haven't passed that point. Bite her lip when you make out, grab her ass. This may sound weird, but if her neck is sensitive it's very likely that biting lightly at her earlobe would also do the trick!

[filipinaEC]

I don't think she's afraid of being turned on. I think she's just not ready.

[Drooogie4]

She's 16, you're making her uncomfortable.
If she's avoiding, stop.

[summiter]

Hey I have been there done that. The key is to just talk to her about it. It is ok and even healthy to talk about sex and you expectations and limits. Look her in the eyes and see where she is at.

In the meantime, yes you will have to keep jerking off like over 95% of guys your age (they never will admit it). Take things slow. What are your thoughts?