Are "beef curtains" really a turn off?

In case some people are still unaware, the size/length of your labia minora (beef curtains) is not caused by repetitive sexual activity, it is simply something you are born with. I've heard some find it incredibly unattractive where others don't mind at all. I just wanted to know is it a complete deal breaker? I've been told I'm an attractive female, but it's just something I've been insecure with all my life, and I have debated surgery.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm an attractive person. Not to be conceited but I am good looking and most would consider me to be "above average" . That being said, I have "beef curtains" (hilarious termonology btw). When I first realized that I was different from the girls in porn and that some guys found it "ugly" or "unattractive" I felt very very insecure about myself. I even, like you, considered surgery. Which is ridiculous, I know that now. I spent hours looking at myself in the mirror, and reading hurtful comments about my type of vagina. I even saw a picture once where it showed two sandwiches , one tucked in and one with beef hanging out with a caption that said "there are two types of girls"
    I've seen hilarious things where guys say that if you have "beef curtains" it's because you're a whore and have had a lot of sex, and that means you're loose. Which is 100% wrong. Your lips have nothing to do with your tightness, or how many people you e slept with. I've come to terms with my body and actually love my vagina now. I'm blessed (and cursed ) with an extremely tight vagina and longer lips. I've only ever been with one guy, but he has never made any comments about how I look. And honestly, I don't think any guy would turn you, me, or any girl with that type of vagina down just because of how it looks. Be confident , love yourself.

    • Wow thank you so much, I honestly can relate to you 100%. It's definitely possible to have a tight vagina and longer lips! I too have read myself sick of all the ignorant comments, I appreciate your kind words and I will love my body for what it has been blessed with :)

  • Well I've never had a guy tell me I have awful beef curtains. So I think i'm good. XD

    Though I have no idea.

  • Guys don't care what it looks like as long as it is clean.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I had this girlfriend who had her labia stuck together, I would have to separate it with my tongue in order to stick my penis in lol

  • With the rarest exceptions all vulvas are beautiful. Whether a pouty innie or a dangling outie, they are all hot.

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  • Most guys are just happy to be having sex.

  • first time I heard of this terminology, bahahaa.

    nah d00d im chillin.

  • i kinda like big lips. fun to play with and suck on and nibble.

  • i think this is the same case as short penis is to girls..

  • LMAO "beef curtains" I love all kinds of pussy shapes they all are great in their own way

  • I prefer girls with larger labia; It's hot!!
    Don't do the surgery, It would only detract from their beauty!! :P

  • Yes, they are.

  • depends how long they are i guess

  • PISS FLAPS!

    • To answer your question properly: no they aren't a turn off and that's coming from someone silly enough to say piss flaps. Goldie757 speaks the truth!