How many times I should make my girl "cum" to satisfy her?!?!?

[Anonymous]

How many times I should make a girl "cum" to satisfy her?!?!? post your opinions please.

[abra_b]

Females see sex as more emotional than men do. Yes, orgasms are nice and if she is used to having them it can get frustrating to not, but its not a "deal breaker" as I'd assume it is for men. Being body to body with the guy you care about is a thrill in itself. Pay more attention to her reactions than just techniques you think are going to make her come and you'll be more satisfying. For one, different chicks go for different things ... and sometimes even the same chick will take something different on a different night. I've had times where I went a few times and really didn't want anymore ... after a bit you start to run dry and get bored. If you don't want her thinking "Why can't he finish ALREADY!?" just pay attention. She'll give you clues of what she likes -- moaning, moving her hips, pushing against you, biting, what-have-you. When she gets tired, she'll start to lay there more. Focus on both of you having a good time and getting to know each other in bed and you'll do fine. Set a numerical goal and you'll have weird robot sex.

[brokengirl]

Lol robot sex..couldnt have said it better myself. XD

[brokengirl]

My guy can get me off more than 5 times and ill still want to have sex..even if I'm already getting dehydrated from the rapid loss of liquid. XD But that's just me...it really depends on the person.

In my opinion, as not every girl out there is able to come through penetration, having her come once or twice is a big feat in itself already. As long as you pay attention to her wants and needs, she'll fall asleep a satisfied and happy girl.

[Bexiie]

Look there isn't a number because everyone is different we don't necessarily need to orgasm to enjoy sex but really as many times as you can make us orgasm is good. ;)

[UnknownFox]

From what I have remembered reading on other sites, some girls are fine with 1 or 2 and actually can get a little irritated when the guys think they need to make her go like 4 or 5 time. Though, I'm sure opinions will differ here too :P

[clevername]

Girls still can enjoy sex without having any orgasms at all. They are not the same as guys.

[girlgonewild]

However, we worship the man who will give us as many orgasms as we want. He is the one we seek out when we need to be physical. My advice is to always make things sizzle in bed, it makes you unforgettable.

[lelebear]

Wow who told you that? You will have much more success with the ladies if you get that out of your head and realize we like to come as much as you do.

[clevername]

I was referring basically to what abra b said. If the question asker only focused on trying to make a girl orgasm, he probably wouldn't do a very good job of it. I.E. he would get stressed out over trying to get a certain number instead of going with the flow of things. Oh, and don't worry, I know how to please the ladies ; )