Guys, How long should a bj last?

Guy said he's never had a happy ending when being sucked off (not sure how accurate that is), but I completed the "job" after 8ish minutes. Is that normal? I enjoy giving bjs, don't see it as a "job", but not sure how long should a good one last?
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  • It depends on the guy and how sensitive he is, but also how good you are. My last girlfriend was awful at it so I was never able to cum from a bj, but previous girls have been able to make me cum and it's usually around the 10 minute mark, sometimes even less.
    I think 8 minutes is a good amount of time.

    • So if you cum you at least had a decent time? :p How long was your longest would you say?

    • Yeah, if I'm able to cum, that means it was at least decent xD Hmmm I'm gonna say around 20 minutes. She was great, but she managed to keep me on edge until I couldn't keep it in any longer.

  • Um I've never come from a BJ, despite having one particular girlfriend who was bloody adicted to giving them... But I gues for most guys they last as long as they last. Some guys will come after a few seconds, some take ages, it probably varies too much to make a decent guess.

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  • A skilled BJ lasts as long as you want it to.
    Meaning, with practice, you'll know when he's getting closer, so you can back off before he passes the point of no return.

    Longer if want to draw it out, and really let him build up to a huge orgasm, or just want to treat him to the extended relaxed pleasure.

    Shorter if you wanna make his mind explode in a couple minutes or for a surprise quickie.

  • it can last from 1 min to 20-30-60... but most people stop once da guy ejaculates

  • If its just a quickie, I'll let myself cum as soon as i feel like a need to cum, which could be anywhere from 5-10 minutes. But if she is doing it as foreplay, she should do it for less than that, otherwise i wouldn't be able to continue having sex for long afterward.

  • It would vary from guy to guy and situation to situation... there are no rules I think!

  • It usually take me a long time so 8 minutes is pretty good and it also depend on the guy and the skills that make a blow job quick or not.

  • Never times one. However long she feels comfortable doing it

  • Every guy lasts different amount of times, it's normal

  • UGH I take for ever! 30 minutes or more 8 mins is a pro job !!

  • I have never been off on one, even if it was all day would not get me off, it's not a turn on. For me.

  • As long as it takes. However, some guys cum easy from a bj and some don't. For me personally, I have never had an easy time cumming from a bj. There have only been a couple girls good enough to make me cum pretty easily

    • Well if he said he's never cum from one and he did with me it's a good sign right? It was my second time putting my mouth on anyone, I enjoyed myself, but wanna make sure the dude has a good time as well

    • Yup, sounds like you did great ( trying to get a visual) lol... But really, if he came, he had a good time. Plus you should have been able to read his body language during and after the bj and tell if he enjoyed it

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