I called my boyfriend a dick and he called me a cunt and I feel so angry at him but he's telling me im overeating?

I was looking good for him today so to be cute I tried to kiss him but he moved his face away. I tried again but he kissed my head. I said stop acting gay babe as a joke. He then said he hates my lip balm. I got frustrated so I said stop being a dickhead. I only said this because I felt hurt/rejected. Im not justifying it but most girls like me take rejections badly. He then said your such a cunt Adriana. I was so pissed he made me feel slutty like I was some girl harassing him. I went quiet so he got close to comfort me so I tried to slap him but he grabbed my hand and held me down until I calmed down. He said he meant to be joking but it seemed like he meant it. While we texted later he said he was scared I was pushy and that he loves me. He's really nice to me but it doesn't feel good to be the very few girls not experiencing sex. His main point is that im overreacting but I dont think I am he degraded me?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You were being a cunt.
    First of all, if someone doesn't want to kiss you, they don't have to, whether it's your boyfriend or not.
    You called him names twice, him calling you a cunt once isn't that bad. You started it.
    You don't try to slap your boyfriend. That's abusive. If anything, you degraded and objectified him. He just defended himself.
    I'm so tired of seeing girls acting this way and then trying to be the victim when their boyfriends defend themselves. Grow up.

  • You both need to learn how to practice boundaries and not cross certain lines just because you get upset. You were both wrong to start name-calling although the name he called you stings more because of the extremely negative connotation attached to it. Sounds like you should maybe try not to be so pushy in the future and give him his space when he asks for it.

  • lol so many girls on here are so dumb, on so many levels.

Most Helpful Guys

  • So technically let's see what happened here:
    - You wore makeup that he didn't like
    - He stated he didn't like the makeup
    - You got offended and called him a "dickhead"
    - Then he retaliated by calling you a cunt for calling him a "dickhead" for no reason
    - Then you tried to SLAP him (physically harass him)

    He should find another girlfriend who isn't psychotic and isn't immature.

  • You started it and he showed restraint. You're basically abusing him because he doesn't want to have sex. Now imagine if a guy was treating his girlfriend the way you are treating him, that guy would probably be going to jail for attempted rape.

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  • Your over reacting

  • Get rid of the little balm and that should solve the kissing problem. Then come up with a rule about no more name calling even if it's a joke.

  • It was a joke. But I can see how it hurt you.

  • You guys have issues. It is never ever, under any circumstances other than pure self defense, okay to strike someone.

  • Don't dish it out if you can't take it.

  • Lets see you you called him a Dick, the male genital.. He called you a cunt, and female genital... and your pissed of because you used the nicer insult? WTF

  • It amazes me how you take rejection so badly but then expect men not to. YOU TRIED TO ASSAULT HIM. Oh come on, this has GOT to be fake

  • Cunt Adrianas are the worst.

  • My wife doesn't have sex with me, calls me fat, makes fun of me on a daily basis. I get tired of it because it's months with no sex which is literally me helping her get off. Nothing for me. But she still refuses. Says she doesn't feel good but stays up all night watching videos and TV. So when I finally get sick of it I say something. Then I'm the bad guy. I apparently hate her. Tried to help close down the pool she yelled at me, I called her a cunt. Now I'm locked in the bedroom with a dresser over the door crying because my wife threatens divorce. I know I should let her but damnit. 18 years of marriage. I love her even though it's obvious she doesn't love me

  • You can insult him and expect him to be okay with it but he can't insult you?

  • yes you are lol. You can call him a dick but he can't call u a cunt? nice double standard