Guys, I am very insecure about my breasts and need some advice?

[Haenim]

Hi there. So, I've been dealing with insecurity just like any other woman does. I'm 5'10", slender, in shape, and when I look at my body I think it's all right; I really have no reason to complain. However, when I involve myself with a man I usually start to get really insecure and worry that he would rather have something else. I've been an A cup my whole life, and recently had a fat transfer procedure to get to a B cup but I'm still barely a B... and now I'm feeling stupid for being so insecure about myself to the point where I paid a good amount of money to alter something that is so insignificant. Yeah, my confidence went up a little but not a ton. Now I'm here thinking about fake tits when I really don't like the idea of having something foreign in my body. But if it will make me feel feminine and sexy, maybe it's worth it. I don't know. I'm digressing. I have recently committed myself to a serious relationship with somebody who loves me unconditionally. More and more often I feel bad about my small breasts and that he would probably prefer somebody with at least a little shape to them. I've even brought it up to him before and he says that he loves them now and he would love them if I decided to augment them simply because my confidence is sexy to him and as long as I am comfortable in my body that's all that matters. How could I ask for more? I feel that my insecurity is deeply rooted and quite frankly, irrational. How can I stop worrying that I am not good enough for my boyfriend and that he would be more satisfied with something else? My mind is really getting the best of me here and I need to fix it before I let it take control of me and possibly my relationship. Please help. The simple fact that he says he loves my body does not make me feel better. I don't know what to do.

[Anonymous]

Can we get pics? Seriously, I doubt your small tits are a concern to him if your in a real relationship.
Not all men are dogs believe it or not.
I never fell in love with a female over tit size and if he is a mature male I really doubt the size of your tits would make him love you more or less.
A beautiful smile and a passionate kiss would mean more to me then the size of a girls tits.
Personality is everything !!
I think your worried over something you shouldn't be.
If tit size is really important to him then you should dump him a find a man the will accept you as you are.
There are plenty of guys out there who will accept small chested females and tit size doesn't even come into play !!!
So again, personality is everything !
I have never had a female say my dick isn't big enough because they all liked my 8" tongue.
I have a 6" dick and and 8" tongue and have been complimented on my ability to use both of them.
So don't get down on yourself and you are just who you are.
Personally, I myself never based my lover on the size of her tits.

[Octavius]

You're not alone for one. So many people have perfectly attractive features that they find unappealing in their own eyes. Most relationship material guys will not give a shit about the size of your boobs. If he says he likes them he likes them. It's ok to feel insecure. Sometimes I look at myself and think I don't look good even though it's no different than other days where I thought I looked great. I just think to myself I'm being really critical so I don't pay attention to what I don't like. Just know that your body is fine the way it is and when you have those days where you feel really insecure just tell yourself that you are being insecure and that your body is fine even if you don't like the way it looks in that moment.

Sorry for the brick of text...

[AustinMan]

I suggest you find a good therapist and work through this with them. It's pretty clear to me there's more to this than just your boobs. If that turns out to be it, go buy yourself some D cups.

[JSmith925]

You have issues with body image distortion. Cognitive therapy may help restore your self-esteem. It is much healthier to alter your perspective then your body.

Despite the popularity of breast implants, they have many undesirable side effects and unintended consequences. I would do a great deal of research and consider carefully before I went under a knife to bolter my confidence.

[DaBrik]

If you won't listen to your boyfriend I don't think a bunch of strangers telling you will help either

[Rincewind]

honestly, fake tits are horrible. Im not sure how you can get over your insecurities, but you dont have anything to worry about

[matheus_mb]

Don't worry about it, think that when a guy really loves a girl the size of her boobs doesn't matter. Think that he's in love with you and he's accepted all the "package" and he loves it all. Just surrender yourself to this fact and let it go.

[Sexualchrist]

Just know that the smaller your boobs are, the less they will sag when you're old and your body will still be looking young

[PiuBelloAmante]

he is right, you will look better for longer

[Krillanr]

He loves you, is happy with your chest, I would like your chest as well, so there is no problem.

Decide that there isn't anything wrong with your chest and feel good about it while blocking out the nagging thoughts. Use will power, it's all good.

People give the strength to their anxieties, so remove the strength and they won't exist for long.

[Woyxz]

Personally, I don't like fake breasts, and I don't think you should do it. If he says he likes them, just the way they are, you shouldn't care about anything else, he's your boyfriend. And, If you like the rest of your body, don't let your breasts destroy your confidence, boobs aren't everything ;)

[Nate_Bro]

Are you looking for another guy? It sounds like what you have now is good, and he loves you and your breasts. My wife got back into shape after having a baby and her breasts used to be a c, now they are barely a b. But I like them better. Bigger is not always better.

[drayday4]

Anytime anyone's in a good relationship they don't think their good enough for there partner sometimes they both feel that way. Plus if big breast were do important he would be with someone who has them. If you chose to have surgery make sure it's for you and no one else if you don't love you who will.