Why do I have rape fantasies as my boyfriend is making me cum?

[Anonymous]

As my boyfriend is eating my pussy, I automatically imagine different scenarios, porn i've watched and then as i'm starting to get close to orgasm I fantasize over being raped or i'll think of a rape scene that i've watched in a movie and it really gets me off so I can cum. I can't help it, it just happens, nothing else makes me cum. I've always had a rape fantasy that i've only told two bfs who wouldn't carry it out so I haven't told my current boyfriend. Just to be clear, I DO NOT agree with rapists nor would I get off watching a real rape happening. I think guys who do it are disgusting. Why do I do this? Does anyone else?

[Stacyzee]

Why do you not role play?
That would be a lot of fun!
Even buy outfits where he is a man in authority and you're a sexy hot girl taken against your will.
Sex is supposed to be fun!!
There's no point in exploring and taking things to a whole new level.
As long as you both consent before hand (that this is all in fun), then I see nothing wrong with your fantasy.

[Stacyzee]

(Correctin) There's a point in exploring and taking things to whole new level.

[Anonymous]

Lots of women fantasize about loss of control in situations where they feel safe. And just because your previous two boyfriends weren't willing to indulge the fantasy doesn't mean the current one won't. There is nothing more intimate than sharing a fantasy.

[Anonymous]

This actually is a perfectly normal and common sexual fantasy among women. It's only a fantasy and nothing more! Enjoy your fantasy... It doesn't mean you actually dream of being raped. It's more of a letting go of all control thing.

[Marttinez]

Everyone has fantasies, some are really outrageous, but you're not alone as a lot of women seem to enjoy it. It's called "BDSM" or bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism which is a paraphilia, or unusual sexual fixation, but it's only classified as a disorder if it causes harm.
These feelings are not entirely sexual, but spiritual and psychological.

[Asker]

I know what BDSM is. I'm into it but no boyfriend is ever a dom.

[DaBrik]

My ex had this fantasy. She was very nervous to tell me but I was willing when she did. She was way into it, obviously it's a big fantasy for lots of women, so you are not alone

[throwit]

I'm the same. Most girls have this fantasy

[PiuBelloAmante]

people say this is 'normal' well it seems to be normally occurring but i think this is a dysfunction

to be honest, rape is horrible, and fantasizing about it is another evil in itself
go volunteer to help victims of rape and sexual abuse, and see if your fantasies remain

[Asker]

You're saying i'm evil?

[PiuBelloAmante]

Well your thoughts and fantasies are really dark, thats what i am saying you might not be evil as a whole

[Asker]

I do want to be choked and slapped as he fucks me, to be called names, to be reduced to tears by him... only during sex though. I want a dom but he isn't one.

[PiuBelloAmante]

i hope you find a man who treats you like garbage :)

[Asker]

You're only 19. You're a boy. You've a lot to learn about women

[PiuBelloAmante]

And how old are you? don't use my age as a defense for your dysfunctional fantasies go see a therapist and get a dictionary, look up the definition for Rape, and then Fantasy and put the two together, maybe that will make you think otherwise go volunteer to help victims of rape or sexual abuse, and maybe that will put things in perspective for you

[Asker]

I've looked into it and it's actually the most common fantasy amongst women so i'm more relaxed about it now. It isn't dysfunctional. ... There's a huge difference between roleplay and real rape. I'm actually 29, it added my age wrong via touch screen.

[PiuBelloAmante]

Well thats disturbing, i guess that proves most women are sick in the head having rape fantasies is dysfunctional, just because something is common, or occurs often doesn't make it 'ok' or 'normal' i hope your fantasies come true

[Asker]

So getting off on my boyfriend overpowering me in a roleplay situation is sick? I feel sorry for the girl you end up with.

[PiuBelloAmante]

Lol i enjoy being dominant and dominating but i hate the term Rape fantasy it implies something completely different also dont feel sorry for her she will have a powerful, assertive, and caring man

[Reserved]

You like being dominated. Ask your boyfriend to mount you and pin you down. Creativity will dictate what he does to you.

[cinderelli]

that is just a fantasy.. like role play.. you can do that with your boyfriend.. i m sure he would not mind.

[master_poop]

I've heard of this fantasy so you're not alone. Personally I nope out of that sort of thing.

[Adaler]

Well some girl like it hard and rough.

[Anonymous]

It's ok... I also have fantasies about my girlfriend raping me ;)

[Anonymous]

This is actually very common, many women have this fantasy

[Anonymous]

Is it the idea of being overwhelmed and helpless?

[Asker]

100%

[Anonymous]

Maybe you want to be raped?

[Asker]

DEFINITELY don't. Just roleplay with my boyfriend whom I trust.

[Opinion Owner]

In my personal opinion I believe that kind of role playing is sick and disgusting. To each their own though.

[Opinion Owner]

Can't be with a woman who I know is into that.

[Asker]

Exactly why i'm scared to suggest it to my boyfriend incase he has your view

[Opinion Owner]

I guess you never know.

[Opinion Owner]

Unless you ask.

[Anonymous]

Those are submissive fantasies...

[Anonymous]

some people have them.