My boyfriend hurts me when I give him blowjobs. How can I make him stop?

When I give him a head he just can't control himself. He pulls my hair and it hurts a lot. He also pushes my head down and it hurts me. I tried to tell him that it hurts and he told me he just can't help it because it feels so good he can't control himself. What should I do?
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  • Do you buy ALL his BS? That's what this is.
    Sure it feels slightly better to his self centered pleasure
    + he gets to treat you like a whore on porn as added turn-on
    With no respect for what you're going through, you picked a loser and treat him royally.
    SO THINK
    such royal treatment as this WILL net you a MUCH better replacement = time to dump & shop for another

    I disagree with all comments that this guy can be trained. He is used to training others to serve his self involved needs, even if it takes lies, deceit and other gutter ploys. There's no future with a guy like that, just more of this abuse that WILL get worse. RUN!

  • Tell him to stop or YOU'RE going to stop giving bjs until he can work out how to be an adult. He can control himself but is choosing not to. He needs to respect you, your enjoyment of the act, and the gift you're sharing with him.

    Every time he starts hurting you just stop the bj. No second chances. No blow jobs for the rest of the day. He'll work it out *real* quick.

  • Next time, bite it and say "opps just couldn't control myself, it hurt too much"

    Seriously though, why are you sucking the dick of a guy who can't respect you.

    • Hehehehe... v nice... i think u hate guys! you single?

    • I've had a boyfriend for 2 years now and I don't hate guys, I hate jerks, there's a difference lol

    • She likes the texture and taste too much

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  • If he hurts, no more head. Or even better : you start, and when he loses control, and hurts you, just stop it and tell him you're not aroused anymore. He must be able to grow up a little.

  • Tell him if he doesn't stop you won't go down on him.

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  • Take his balls between your hand and squeeze when he goes too far. You will control him.

    • I vote MHO !

  • Just say no. If he doesn't stop then don't do it anymore. Ever guy would be able to control themselves. He probably watches too much porn, how they shove the girls head down all the time.

  • Then stop giving him blowjobs.

  • Stop giving him blow jobs. He will think twice about hair pulling.

  • Dump the shit out of him.

  • Pleasure = pain... no wait other way 😂😂 pain=pleasure 😂

  • Get out of there. This is abuse. He is selfish. This is not love

    • He's not abusive. He is very caring and loving both during sex and life in general. He just has this thing with blowjobs which seem to drive him crazy

  • Just tell him to not do it because it HURTS and he shouldn't want you to bite his penis as a reflex response

  • Stop giving him blowjobs until he learns to respect you.

  • Well don't freaking give him blowjobs. Gosh, I swear /.-
    Or... bite him & see how he'll magically learn how to "control himself" and put his hands elsewhere.

  • hmmm... bite him when he hurts you..

  • Just say 'No!' and explain you're not his xxx sex slave. Or dump him if he doesn't accept that.

  • In a word, teeth.

    • But I can't hurt him, I love him

    • I'm not telling you to bite his dick off. I'm just saying that you could use it as a warning that he's hurting you too.

    • I can't hurt him because I love him but it's ok for me to accept someone who hurts me repeatedly, even after I told him it hurts me, logic at its finest.

  • When he is giving u a blowjob then u hurt him

  • No more blowjobs for him.

  • Fuckin' leave him! He can too help it. He's just a fuckin' asshole!

    • Do you think he can control it but doesn't want to? (Keep in mind that he's not like that during sex but he's very loving and caring)

    • Correct. He doesn't want to. Just because he's not like that during sex doesn't mean a damn thing.

    • I don't know how it works for men that's why I asked. But when he's down on me I also squeeze his head between my legs and it's not that I want to, it just happens

  • Wow that sounds like you give intense blowjobs! Shave your hair lol

  • You should stop sucking his dick until he can learn to relax

  • Bite his balls next time if he does it..😂

  • You could ask him to to? Tell him if he keeps doing it then he just won't get anything from you. Also get him to a really big suckky up apology

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