Am I a slut for losing my virginity in a one night stand?

[lolita97]

He was really hot if that counts for anything

[Leena90]

You are not a slut. You are a human being who had sex, like most people have done or will do. Anybody on here calling you a slut, I'd like to know there sexual history and see if there's a double standard there. People love to be judgmental, but it only reflects negatively on them.
I didn't loose my virginity to somebody I was in love with, it wasn't "special" and romantic. It was awkward and terrible!
Don't worry about the haters! 😊😉

[prettylittlemynx]

Slut shouldn't be a judging word. It is okay to swing around, have multiple partners liking kinker things, and/or be a little provocative as long as whoever you're doing it with is okay with it. A slut is someone who has casual sex so it should be the title, but it shouldn't be a judgement term. It should be treated with the same respect and praise as player. You do what ever you like to do! Keep it up, sluts! 👍

[Stacyzee]

Well a slut is someone that has many casual partners.

Since you've only had one, you don't qualify as a slut.
However, if you keep up with having constant one night stands... yeah you're a slut in training and on your way to being a certified one.

[driel]

No, no and no again. Women need to stop judging themselves for having sex. As long as you're safe and everything is consensual, you have every right to have sex with as many people as you want. Some women want their first time to be with someone special, others don't care and want to get it over with at some point. If you're ok with it then it's really nobody's right to judge you.

[dudegrt09]

Amen to that

[FantasticPlanet]

🙏🏼Preach🙏🏼

[Leena90]

👌👌😊

[KidInk4]

You're pandering dude, of course she's a slut for losing her virginity in a one night stand

[driel]

i disagree, who decided when and where is the time to lose your virginity? So much of that is wrapped up in some religious nonsense that more and more people don't follow because it makes no sense in the 21st century. If you want to continue living the old, meet someone, marry someone then have sex thing then that's your right but people have a right to be with as many people as they want as long they actually want to. This idea that safe, consensual promiscuity be deemed negative is just ridiculous to me.

[DaBrik]

I think what makes a person a "slut" is in the opinion of the individual. To some, they would say yes, but to others they would think it was silly you would even ask it.
In my opinion, you shouldn't be concerned with what others think or what others label you, and just be confident in yourself and your choices.

[spuitkaas]

No that means you're a lucky bastard. Goddamn.

[CandyandPinkCats]

I completely agree with this. I think that's the best way to lose it.

[kambo_trick3y]

Why does our opinion matter? Seriously. It's a real question.

[linkywinky]

That sounds like the way to do it honestly ;p

[Nylena]

ehm no lol

[Riggers]

A slut is someone who has fucked more guys in a month then they can count on two hands.
No, You are not a slut xD

[AleDeEurope]

No. I did it like that too, and I don't consider myself as slut.

[MissNowhere]

That does not make you a slut.

[Starfishlover]

I dont know but you are going to regret it maybe... First times should be special

[cinderelli]

lol... he was HOT? that is what matters the most.. like 99%... you are not slut..

[Dtegesd123]

I believe in your last sexual partner as the most important, not your first. So no :)

[miserybusiness]

Do you even know what a slut is?

No you're not LOL.

[front2back]

You're gonna have to sleep with a lot more men before you earn that title.

[Karōshi]

I'm not going to comment but people have their definition wrong, a slut doesn't have to fuck all and sundry, she can hold "loose sexual morals" and be slut, it's not just down to number of sexual partners.

[NYkid27]

I don't think you're a slut for that. It'd be pretty hypocritical if I did consider you a slut since I did the exact same thing as you

[alliecheergirl123]

NOPE you are not!!🌸😊

[Aristotle]

Not a slut, I'd just question your integrity if anything. Virginity is overrated, anyway

[GemmaH95]

No of course you're not! I hate that word anyway but you're definitely not one!

[ZoeyMercer]

I love how guys always say it's girls that call other girls sluts but tbh most of the time it's guys that call girls sluts, at least publicly.

[ClenchButtCheeks]

Guys here like to think you can do whatever the fuck you want and if people don't like it they're just guilty of slut shaming. But I think you're a slut.

[Strider90]

Yes you are.