Would you date an ex porn star?

[PinkCrush]

This is hypothetical. They don't have any STDs or STIs, have a stable job, but used to do porn. Would you date them still? Why or why not? ------------------------ I'm in a situation like this currently. I met a guy who is well known online and didn't know the reason he was so Insta-famous was because of being an ex-porn star and currently doing modeling. He has his own business and is very independant. After a while he admitted to me he used to do gay porn. It personally doesn't bother me, but when I told my best friend she thought that was a big no-no. SO what are your opinions? Thanks!

[Ozanne]

If you're with Tommy Gunn, then I hate you!! LOL! He was always my favourite guy porn star. He looks like a real man and talks like one and I loved how he looked while having sex.

I have thought about this once or twice, what I'd think if a guy had a past. Granted that it was overwith and that he was clean, there's no reason why someone shouldn't get a second chance in life to earn some respect (in a different way) and have a happy life. What's past is past. Some guys who aren't porn stars go about their sex lives thinking it's a marathon so they go under the radar. A nice guy who has had a lot of women doesn't mean much to me. I just wouldn't watch his videos online if it can be helped at all, and just focus on looking forward.

[PinkCrush]

Not him! But I actually wish I knew what his porn name was, LOL.

[Ozanne]

Best you don't know it then. I'm impressed you do know who Tommy Gunn is though. :D

[ClariceOwen23]

Well she did say mention that the guy did gay porn. I don't think Tommy Gunn has... Or has he?

[Ozanne]

I really don't think he has, actually. He's pretty manly.

[Anonymous]

No, for two reasons: first, I don't think sex would be an intimate act for them. It's what they do/did for a living, likely with people they'd never met before, so we'd need to have a very genuine connection in order for him to feel that sex with me was a completely different act than sex with another pornstar. Second, it might be difficult for a famous pornstar to jump into a monogamous relationship; given that they got into the porn business, they obviously enjoy having sex with many people and I think it'd be difficult to just give that up.

And I'd worry that he would compare my looks, moves and energy/passion to the random professional women they'd been paid to fuck.

[Anonymous]

As much as I wouldn't like to judge someone by their past it would be hard for me not to see past this.

That goes beyond being just promiscuous.
He was a prostitute pretty much doing other men.

If you can see past him , then give him a chance.
I got to admit though , I respect him for not hiding this from you.

[Opinion Owner]

**hard for me to see past this

[Xelebrum]

It would heavily depend on their reasons for doing porn in the first place, and how many videos/films they were in.

If they joined the porn industry because of daddy issues or because they just wanted to, and if they started in a shit load of movies (like 30+), it would be a definite NO.

But if they were just in serious need in money and didn't star in that many films, I could possibly look past it. But I'd probably still wouldn't date one, because it would be no different than dating a former prostitute.

[Xlink]

Yes I want to marry reily Reid I don care what other say. Let's make that happen lol. she is adorable and sexy and funny.

NOW FOR THE ADVICE LOL

I think we live our life's in group. Instead of for ourselves. we are worried what other would think instead of what we want. As long as it doesn't mess with ur money or ur family reputation your good. But u can't live ur life by other people standards.

[Kyshy]

For some reason "Catfish" jumped to my mind immediately. Maybe I've been watching that show too much lately!

[JoahZ10nT]

Hell- no!! I would not...

[Unersheep]

I wouldn't like it. But if you are OK with it, that is all that matters.

[SensualScribe]

No. I will pass, thanks.

[Scrambled]

I would marry a porn star! For me, I'm personally very open minded and love people who are open about their sexuality. That's who I am.

[driel]

Hmmm so he's bisexual? But why not, if he's out of the business and clean and into you? Go for it and don't let it bug you.

[MickyMouse1231]

If he's clean it wouldn't bug me at all.

[cjriggs]

Sure, as long as I know and they know they've left that life behind. I'd want too be the sole focus and not just another notch on thier belt so too speak. I'd want too feel like they really did want me.

[Kay211]

Sure, the past is the past.

He's clean so I don't know what the problem would be.

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

Hell yeah, fucking a ex porn star is on my bucket lost. Can you imagine the type of blow jobs she can give.

[ClariceOwen23]

It wouldn't bother me that much as long as he's clean. If you like this guy, I think you should go for it.

[FakeName123]

Unlikely. The majority of sex-workers have serious mental issues. Most often from before they gone into the sex-work, but the sex-work clearly makes it worse either way.

So I would be very cautious about such a woman.

[Dtegesd123]

I'd be okay with your situation. he used his looks to get enough capital to start up his own company. If she just wanted to do porn to buy brand name bags and stuff, I won't be okay with it.

[Koldhearted]

i probably couldn't. The entire time i'd be thinking like

"my god... wtf could i POSSIBLY do to hit the mark?"

[tyber1]

My answer below:

https://i.imgur.com/YboUKfy.jpg

[Prootwadl]

Sure, I'd give it a shot. A lot would depend on how well we connect... if we don't, it might just be one date. If we do, who cares what she did. She's a person like everyone else.

[front2back]

I guess it depends on your values, but I personally would never date an ex-porn star. I don't even have casual sex because my values are so strict.

[NYkid27]

Nope. I'd never date a woman with a bunch of sexual partners whether she was a pornstar or not

[MrPresident]

I dont know. I would problaby not.

[Candy12345]

Never ever