Girls when a guy stares at your boobs how do you feel? What if it's a guy you like let's say (please help cause I see her tonight again)?

[Anonymous]

i was with this girl today at work and i like her. I think she likes me. So she has nice boobs and i got caught staring for like 3 or 4 seconds. So i was tired and got a bit zoned out. She sat across from me and i basically was staring at her tits for about 3-4 seconds. then she pulled her shirt up and and was like "omg you were totaly just staring at my boobs". I got sooooooooooooooooo friken emabrssed and luckly it was just us two, like i could not deny it and i said sorry and my face turned soo red. After that it got a bit awkward but we still talked for a bit, but again, it was awkward. I work with her again tonight. So my question is girl how do you feel when guys do this to you and also what can i do tonight? Please help

[Bedlington]

lol how awkward i (if i fancy the look of them give them a qiuck flash but if i dont i will lean into them and whisper my eyes love are in my face not where my nipples are and laugh it off but try to save embaresment say sory for staring at her boobs and look her in the eyes and may be drop it into the conversation that you think she really has a nice figure and go from there if you really like her :)

[Asker]

i do have a crush on her and i do look into her eyes when talking. But she was wearing like this really low cut top and her boobs were poping out and i couldn't resist :( Do you think tonight she will forget about it?

[Bedlington]

hopefully and i hope you get together with them good luck i wish you well love xx

[Asker]

ah thanks :) last night was well. She didn't care and also she began to get a bit flirty with me too

[Bedlington]

i am glad everything went well for you and are looking up for you as well good luck and i wish you well :)

[Asker]

thank you for your kindness :)

[Bedlington]

thats ok love any time xx

[Asker]

thanks :)

[JJF22]

I expect quick peeks but dude cmon I have eyes and I prefer you to look into those. Especially because I like guys' eyes so I would like to look into yours too :) If I catch a guy staring I usually playfully hit them and pull up my shirt. I wouldn't feel awkward in that situation.

[Asker]

ah dang :/ what can i do to maybe make it not awkward tonight?

[JJF22]

Tbh don't say anything unless she does. She may have forgotten all about it. If she does say something just be honest that you zoned out for a sec and think her eyes are much more beautiful than her chest. Good luck guy!

[Asker]

ok and thanks

[JJF22]

No prob! Hope it works out!

[Asker]

thanks

[LittleSally]

It's fine. I expect that to happen...
Nothing special.
Sometimes funny - depends on him - if he's pretending not to look or forgets what he was talking about when he is looking...

[Asker]

oh yes i did that before with her lol. But this one was very very obvious since i was just staring at them :/

[LittleSally]

You'll be fine. If she finds you attractive you'll be more than fine - if she's available that is.

[Asker]

last night was well. She didn't care and also she began to get a bit flirty with me too

[LittleSally]

Then you're okay. =)

[Asker]

yuup :)

[Anonymous]

I would have told her exacactly what happened that you zoned out looking there and since she said it like that I would had some jokes to say to break up the embarrassment after saying sorry, even though that was embarrassing it was funny to read. I still don't know why they make such a big deal of it, imagine a guy telling a woman to stop checking out his crotch area😊 you'll never see that happen

[Asker]

Tonight how should i act with her? what if she brings it up?

[Opinion Owner]

I bet she covers up with different clothes tonight, she may not bring it up though but make sure your looking at her eyes when you talk or look at her😊 but just play it off or pay her a compliment if it comes up , that you find her attractive and have a nice form but didn't mean to stare

[Asker]

ok thanks

[AustinMan]

She'll respect you light years more if you can look her in the eye full time and tell her sincerely that you have been secretly admiring her.

[Asker]

yeaah that is true

[dontjillwithgel]

Its feels flattering if a guy looks at your boobs but that is the case only if you are attracted to the guy. If she is attracted to you then dw buddy you're safe

[Asker]

ohh so it's not as bad as i thought right?

[dontjillwithgel]

Nah not really hahah you're safe :)

[JuicyBrain]

I don't like reading that. Two different guys differentiated only by their look get different results whether or not the guy looks good... Even if the guy is ugly, it stays a compliment. If an ugly women told me she finds me attractive, I would still be flattered, not disgusted. I am in no way obligated to sleep with her.

[Asker]

ok, thanks

[alynav]

some girls are so full of it.. we love being noticed period.. boobs, butt, legs whatever.. we get a trhill out of being checked out... some just like to play mind games about it!

[Asker]

ohh so it's not as bad as i thought right?

[alynav]

next time she says you were totally just staring at my boobs.. just say... seriously?

[Asker]

um sure haha, if she brings it up tonight?

[Anonymous]

I don't mind it when guys stare at my boobs, I sorta like. It lets me know that guys like them lol. The only thing that bothers me about it is when I'm trying to talk to a guy and they just keep staring at my boobs.

[Asker]

ohh so it's not as bad as i thought right? when we talk i look her in the eyes, not the boobs, but somedays she wear clothing wearing it's hard haha

[Opinion Owner]

I guess it's different for every girl, but me personally.. it doesn't really bother me

[Asker]

ok, i hope she doesn't mention it haha

[Anonymous]

If she fancies you she probably wouldn't mind, but if she doesn't then you have crossed the line and will be forever considered a perv.