Is there a thing as the Lustful Virgin Syndrome?

[Anonymous]

I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin. I'm going out now with this pretty attractive guy. I can't help but get hot and awkward when I'm around him. I just wanna jump on him xD OMG... I wanna rape him sometimes. everything about him is... exciting and sexy. he's an idiot. he stands too close , smells too nice but rarely any skinship since we just started going out. but this is driving me crazy ! is it him or am I losing my mind? I'm very composed most of the time xD this is very weird ! thank you !

[kaylaS91]

ahahh who are you, me?
Sort of. I wasn't quite so horny when I was a virgin. Things with the guy who I lost it to just before turning 20 ended horribly but about a month after I got with my current boyfriend and we became sexually active, I got a bit sex-crazed to say the least. WE would both skip class, get out of work early or go late for sex. I was concerned I might be a nymphomaniac.

You're not losing your mind. Just letting your true colours show! Embrace it and have fun. We're still together 1.5 years later and the only thing that has changed about my high libido is that I'm way more comfortable with it than previously. Bonus is that he gets what exactly floats my boat without me having to tell him when and where. ;)

[Asker]

that's awesome. would be great if I had such a partner :D

[kaylaS91]

haha yeah, I definitely feel quite lucky in that respect. Hopefully things with the guy you're dating right now work out and you guys could have a similar sort of thing in the future!

[Asker]

yeah... my first time huuh...

[kaylaS91]

Do you think that wouldn't be possible with someone you have sex for the first time with or something?

[Asker]

it's gonna hurt and it's gonna be awkward and weird xD that's all I think about xD

[kaylaS91]

not true! Don't worry in advance. My first time wasn't THAT awkward, all things considering. No blood, and minimal pain. I'd compare it to a growing pain or something. Don't let those stories of it being excruciatingly painful and blood-soaked sheets scare you.

[Asker]

really? *_*

[kaylaS91]

yup. I was super scared beforehand as well, after hearing my friend's story about how I think she cried afterwards because it was so painful, and had to throw her sheets in the wash after because of blood. Mine was so problem-free in both of those departments it was almost concerning lol. So yeah... just don't stress. What will be will be, if it does hurt/bleed a bit on the bright side, it'll only get better from there!

[Asker]

I guess so ^^ thank you very much !

[MissNowhere]

LOL, I'm a virgin too, and I have felt exactly like that around attractive guys. I think it's pretty damn normal.

[Asker]

cool ! I'm not alone !

[Anonymous]

Lets not joke around with rape now... guys don't like being raped, despite stereotypes lol

[Asker]

how is it even possible x'D

[Opinion Owner]

You shoudl look it up... you can turn a guy on even if he doesn't want sex. Male rapists often say the girl they raped was plenty wet for them, so it works both ways

[Asker]

guys don't like being raped so they rape back? x'D I'll keep it in mind in case the tables turn xD

[Opinion Owner]

I am just saying nobody likes being raped is all, and guys can be raped as well, just not something to joke about... If a guy joked about raping a girl, I am sure no one would be laughing. that is all I meant to say, sorry if it came off as rude or something

[Asker]

No xD I was joking ! I'm the one who should apologize :D yes ! no one likes to be raped , mostly... well there is the case of Ms xD

[OlderAndWiser]

You are probably not in love but it sounds like you might be in heat.

[Asker]

that's very... animalistic xD thank you. I'm a cat now xD

[OlderAndWiser]

When it comes to sexual matters, people are animals!

[apexalpha]

You are normal

[Asker]

Good xD I thought there was something wrong with me xD

[Asadi]

you are pretty normal and fine i m virgin too and i feel same for women

[Asker]

I see.

[Anonymous]

Why can't women feel this way about me

[Asker]

try a virgin xD

[Opinion Owner]

I'm a virgin guy lol

[Asker]

*sigh* must be pretty tough huh?

[Opinion Owner]

Virgin guy... to be told that you are good looking by a lot of women, but they won't give you any action and you no masturbate? Is that hard for me? Let's just say that every time I walk past a pretty woman or go to a club or bar, I just envision me having primal sex with these women XD

[Asker]

keep up the good work xD you'll get your chance soon !

[Anonymous]

yeah its a thing!

[Asker]

is there any complications?