How common is it to let a guy cum in your mouth?

[Anonymous]

I'm into almost everything (even some anal play), very enthusiastic in bed, yet I've never let a guy cum inside my mouth... how common is it?

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

For me it's about giving him the most pleasure I can and... not having a mess to clean up after!

If it's at the back of your throat/mouth you really don't even feel it a lot of the time, well you do but it isn't really in your mouth.

I never used to swallow because I hated the feeling of it on my tongue, but I would nearly puke getting to somewhere where I could spit it out, so for convenience sake I just started swallowing it. Now it is something we both enjoy.

[Nylena]

I don't think it's that uncommon but everyone has to decide for them-self if they like doing it. I'd say give it at least a try before you say you don't like it. it's not that bad and mostly a mental thing.

I usually prefer that they cum inside me but if they don't want for whatever reason then I usually swallow. I like doing it (not really because of the taste, but it's a turn on) nothing really special to me anymore so I do it with casual sex too.

[Anonymous]

It's all about preference... try it once and see if you like it.
I have had partners where I would take it out before he came and get him off with my hand because his cum was gross.

My current partner has cum that isn't gross feeling or tasting and I love when he cums in my mouth.

[ClariceOwen23]

I might get a lot of hate for saying this, but I won't taste a guy unless he's willing to taste it himself. I think it's hot when I can share it with a guy.

[Asker]

good point!

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Indeed. I'd taste myself first but only if it's because you think it's hot, if you just want me to do it as a fair trade kind of thing when you're not actually interested then the whole this is ruined.

[ClariceOwen23]

@AllThatSweetJazz I guess that makes sense lol. A lot of guys are actually grossed out by their own cum.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

True, it's really not that hot (if not gross) for most (if not all) guys. I don't what to tell you, we just have this aversion to it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Although oftentimes it's close to neutral for me because... reasons >.> But it's still way way *way* better to see girls playing with it and all that jazz.

[scrap422]

I would cum in your mouth then kiss you after.

[grahamcracka]

gross I don't even ask my girl to do that with her own fluids

[ClariceOwen23]

@grahamcracka good for you

[Anonymous]

I posted a question on oral sex recently and included a poll. I had a fair number of girls respond and 88% (28 our of 32) said they either loved having a guy cum in their mouth or they didn't love it but let their guy do it anyway. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1574112-how-do-you-really-feel-about-giving-us-oral-sex

What is the problem with oral sex for you? What stops you from letting your guy do that?

[Asker]

don't get me wrong! n i love oral sex and i think i'm good at it! except that in my relationships we've always gone from oral to intercourse... or if we stayed with oral i've always (gladly) had their cum somewhere else... boobs, butt, belly, face...

[Asker]

i'm not against trying it in the future, but I'm starting with a different guy now, and i'd rather not do that until it's a more trusting relationship i guess... it'd make me feel uncomfortable to put a lot of effort and then be just labelled as "another slut", so I'll keep doign the stuff i«m comfortable with and let's see

[Opinion Owner]

So, is the idea of a guy cumming in your mouth repulsive? Do you think the taste is awful? There must be times when Miss Kitty in closed for repairs (visit from Aunt Flo) that you give a guy oral sex that doesn't finish with intercourse. Why do you always go for the alternate landing zones, like boobs, butt, belly, face?

[Opinion Owner]

In my experience, the women who let me cum in their mouth did that from the very first time we had oral sex; it was never "saved" as a reward for when the relationship became more solidified. The women who didn't let me cum in their mouth thought the idea of having ejaculate in their mouth was disgusting, but: 1. every guy has precum that you swallowed probably without realizing it 2. every guy that gives you oral sex and keeps on licking until your orgasm subsides has lapped up all of your fluids and juices and that's the equivalent of letting a guy finish in your mouth, so some guys would see your refusal as being selfish. I'm not accusing you of being a selfish person because your description of your sexuality suggests that you aren't; I'm just saying that some guys will probably view it that way.

[Asker]

not a bad point. though my sex experience is like this: 1. A long. term boyfriend that never asked me to swallow or mentioned any interest in it; 2. A 1-year fuckbuddy that wouldn't go down on me (so I wouldn't swallow him); 3. Lots of casual sex in 1 year (fucked up mentally and living abroad lol). everything was very casual - I wouldn't do that; 4. Now I found a person that I might like and I don't want to do all the sexual things at once, but I dont refuse swallowing or whatever a bit later on in the relationship... the more i trust people the kinkier I can get, and i think that swallowing is definitely very kinky, much more than anal or some BDSM... for me lol

[Asker]

and i think it's also fun to not do everything at once. then we can also play around that :P

[Opinion Owner]

If you judge kinky by how many people do it, swallowing is not nearly as kinky as anal activity. But if that's the way you feel. . . then that's the way you feel and no apologies should be offered. You're not inhibited about it, you're just reserved/careful and saving it for later. From everything that you describe about yourself, I would love to have a girlfriend with similar sexual attitudes. Until you feel comfortable with letting him cum in your mouth, give him an occasional prostate massage while delivering the oral sex and he will be a very happy man.

[Asker]

:D I've got good tongue movements :D

[ccp16]

Tell the guys to give you a heads up when they are close and again when they are going to cum in 2 seconds. I find girls really don't mind if they just have a solid heads up! But either way, I have never dated a girl who had a problem with it... by the way I could care less if she swallows or spit just to put that out there

[Asker]

I've never swallowed OR spit... I never had it in the mouth at all!

[ccp16]

oh well then how do you know you don't like it? jk but still, try telling them to give you a lot of heads up next time and if they are good about it, just try the once for them next time.

[Asker]

maybe in the shower so i can taste a bit... without taking everything. I was with a guy that could cum 5 or 6 times and I'd swallow that he'd just have 3 or 4 drops of cum lolol

[ccp16]

To be honest I think you may sufficient drown a bit a in the shower giving head! haha but if that is what works best. I just say to give it a try and if you are really that upset by it, don't worry about it then, but really do make sure about the him giving you ahead sup bit. I find girls don't really mind the tasted for 2 seconds as much as the shock of him cumming and not being prepared/accidentally swallowing some. I don't understand your second sentence there though...

[far2gud4u]

very common and most guys want it...

[Asker]

doesn't it taste bad?

[26ukdude]

no it doesn't

[Asker]

have u tasted @26ukdude

[far2gud4u]

you beat me to it lol... some guys taste awful as it is dependant on their diet... eating some fruits helps (strawberries etc) but citrus fruits makes it taste acidic and awful

[Asker]

i think on the face is fun, i dont really want to have a full load in my mouth :( :( It's strange because I do anal and I'm into weird stuff as well lol

[26ukdude]

yes i have

[far2gud4u]

love it when people think Anal is kinky or daring lol :)

[vishna]

I don't know, I never let my boyfriend do it. I find the idea really disgusting. That being said, I have an aversion to the taste of bodily fluids.

[prettylittlemynx]

It's pretty common for me. Most guys love the feeling of having it sucked out. Plus the it doesn't make a mess as long as it all gets in your mouth

[Asker]

don't you want to puke?

[prettylittlemynx]

Not at all! I always swallow. It just tastes a little salty, and what matters most is how it feels for him coming out. If you're worried about the taste you could improve his diet. Less red meats, soda, fast food, smoking, and more fruits, juices, and white meat.

[LaurenGrace]

i often swallow if tha

[LaurenGrace]

if thats what he wants to fo wen he cums im not into facials and bukake

[WhatTheHellAmy]

I've never had a serious relationship but I always let the guy to cum in my mouth, then I swallow it <3

[PoeticMind]

It's very common. Best thing is to swallow as soon as he cums in your mouth instead of spitting it out cuz you're getting rid of it faster instead of leaving it in your mouth for your tongue to absorb all the taste

[Nuqood]

You've got to get it out of your head that cumming in your mouth is some sort of privilege and a 'treat'. It may not be a right, but it isn't a prize to be won either.

Every woman who has even blown me has swallowed. Even the ones who didn't let it jet into their mouth still licked it off my penis and pelvis; They didn't like the feeling of it hitting their tongue, but they enjoyed tasting me.

[cinderelli]

never happened to me...

[Kerbie]

My girl doesn't like it in her mouth like you but she really likes it on her face it feels good apparently and she never knows how it's going to happen under the agreement that I will wipe her face with facial wipes and help wash her hair if it gets in it which it has in the past

[Asker]

are you disappointed for not cumming inside her mouth?

[Kerbie]

Not really I respect my girl Hannah and it was Hannah's decision.

[NicoleAndrews94]

I always swallow

[israelichick]

Personally satisfying my guy is whats most important to me, but the taste is ok and I think it's pretty common. (Sometimes I pretend I don't want it so that ue forces me to do it because that is a turn-on for me.)

[Asker]

would you do that from the beginning of a relationship, or when you trust each other more? i don't see myself doing it at all in casual sex, and in a relationship only if the guy really puts a lot of effort in bed (in that case, i'll be more than happy to please him)

[israelichick]

I never have sex in the beginning of a relationship. You don't have to do something you don't want to do, keep that in mind :)

[Asker]

then thats why people are swallowing lol... i only had a relationship and my ex never asked me to cum. after had i had casual sex and i wouldn't go that far to please those guys. if this guys is decent, maybe he'll deserve it!

[dudegrt09]

Well if you give him oral then it should be pretty common for him to cum in your mouth.

[Asker]

i give oral all the time but mostly as a warm up, and then we have intercourse or he cums somewhere else

[Asker]

breasts, belly, ass, face...

[dudegrt09]

okay than he must be having pretty good endurance all the time.

[blake112068]

I'm kind of shock, you never taste b4 tho, cuz you sound open minded and kinky woman.

[zhengyue]

In a different way, you said right?

[Kayleesadvice]

Its pretty common. You get used to the taste after a while.

[Anonymous]

I do it, & most guys find it hot. They like to cum in your mouth, on your face, etc. Etc.

[Anonymous]

My opinion IS... That if you know don't like something, & you tell him or her That's a NO!! & he or she does it anyway, you've just been assaulted & leave him or her ASAP! If think you may like it and/or love it, and/or hate it? Always keep in tune with watching your partners body language & you pay attn. to your lovers eyes, & moans, & pay close attn. to all their body movements too. You will become a very hot chemistry team. & every now & then a please no, can turn into a give me your best shot lol

[Anonymous]

The difference in pleasure between coming in her mouth while she strokes and sucks and pulling off and jacking is substantial... much better. I'd say it's fairly common in stable relationships. I think you should reserve it for an exclusive relationship. Anal fingering during a cum-in-mouth BJ is a wonderful show of love and should be reserved for just that and not done casually. And deserving begins with his giving you oral (if you want it) first.

[Anonymous]

I don't think they've made an official study on how common it is.

[Anonymous]

i'd force u to swallow my stuff ;)