if you want to be indirect, I suggest you place your hand on his and move it to where you like it. Then moan and tell him "right there, I like it when you touch me there". That way he still feels like he's in control. If he moves away or does something you don't enjoy, use your hand again to guide his and keep using words that re-enforces he's in control and he's making you feel this way. If he still doesn't get the hint, after a few tries, then it's time to open up and be honest.
Start by showing him. Tell him you at to put on a little show and he can't touch you. Show him how to do it and then ask him to join you.
It can be really stimulating to touch yourself together, don't take his hand as if you're teaching him, show him with yours and that might even turn him on, it can bring a whole other closeness for you guys. So nonchalant show him by doing it on yourself and grab his hand and work at it together.
i dont think he will b offended at all.. he would like it that you want him to please you,.. and you are actually guiding him...
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Offer to masturbate in front of him sometime. He shouldn't see that as a "tutorial" but as a show to turn him on. Best way to disguise it.
Tell him when your doing something to him if this is what he likes and hopefully he will ask you the same
if it offends him then he thinks he knows everything, tell him that the way he's doing it is not giving you what he could be giving if he did "this technique".
Masturbate for him to orgasm close up.
You need to inform him. How's he supposed to know you don't like it if you don't tell him? You can try guiding his hands or say "do this"
Next time just guide his hand
Both of you strip down, get comfortable and show him what feels good.
Take his hand over yours and tell him what, where and how.
No shame involved, maybe a bit of embarrassment
Look at it as another way of getting closer on an intimate level.
Just tell him. "Try here. It feels so good here."
Let him know your clit feels different somehow when he's touching you. That maybe your body is maturing. Then take your hand and guide his fingers to the right places.
Would you masturbate in front of him and show him how you like it?
or maybe you could take his hand and guide him through it?
I don't know if I can touch me in front of him. But I always ask him if I'm touching him the right way and he's often guided my hand on his penis. On the other hand, he never asked me if he was touching me the right way. Do you think I can guide his hand? When touches me do I have to put my hand on his and guide him?
He's probably always thought he's doing it the right way for you. When he's rubbing your clit maybe you could whisper to him and say "like this" Then take his hand or finger and guide him. Or you could do it to yourself just for a minute to show him
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