Girls, would you date/sleep with a virgin?

Suppose you were in your early to mid 20s and you really liked guy, but he was a virgin who's never even kissed on been on a date ever. Would the inexperience be a deal breaker? I know women don't find male virginity attractive and would rather be with an experienced guy, but would you be willing to compromise?
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  • I'm a virgin too, so if I liked him I would find it sweet/cute.

    The "never been kissed or on a date, ever" part is a little more surprising to me, but I wouldn't call it a deal breaker in and of itself. When the topic of past relationships arises (it always does), I probably wouldn't just awkwardly come out and say, "Well uh, this is actually my first date ever," because in all honesty, that could potentially scare someone off in our age range. Think of a good, thoughtful response.

    For example, just mention you haven't dated much because you've been focusing on other things or just haven't found anyone you were mutually interested in yet. It's not a big deal if you don't make it one. As long as there's chemistry and you enjoy each other's company, then your inexperience is likely not going to be an issue.

  • I wouldn't date a virgin. Just personal experience. I dated a guy in high school. He was a virgin. I wasn't. He wouldn't hardly kiss me, and personally the physical side of the relationship is very important to me. We broke up. Fast forward 4-5 years we started dating again. He never said whether he had been with anyone in that time but all signs pointed to he was a virgin and we just didn't connect on that level even after sleeping together several times. We broke up again after a few months and he kinda went crazy on me so now I'm the girl who stole his virtue and broke his heart. No thank you...

    • Sounds like you two just didn't connect. I don't think it had to do with his virginity

    • Possibly, but its kinda like this. Say an experienced man sleeps with a virgin girl. She gets all wrapped up in the emotions of sex and suddenly she thinks she's in love and he's just not there. THATS where this relationship went south.

    • Let's just assume he knows better than to do that...

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  • Sure, experience can sometimes be a hindrance when guys think theyre big champs and know everything because they've been around the block. I dated a virgin it was actually pretty great after the first few times, he paid attention and asked questions if he wasn't sure n after that it was a breeze -- I wouldn't bring it up on the first date, but no not a deal breaker in my opinion

  • It's not a deal breaker to me. It wouldn't matter :)

  • Yes, my boyfriend and I were both virgins when we started dating at 22. We're about to celebrate our anniversary.

  • I wouldn't care because I haven't either.

    • So we would have something in common.

  • Of course if I really liked the guy.

  • Yeah, sure I would. Don't generalize women. We are not all the same and it's insulting to me that you would think that.

  • I value the gift my husband gave me of his virginity on our wedding night.

  • That's a toughie. If I didn't foresee a major emotional attachment then I'd run for the hills. I hate the thought of being a man's first.

    • Why?

    • Because I don't want to be the used goods that would taint his innocence.

  • Yeah I would

  • if i dated a guy and after a few dates found out he was a virgin who cares. we had several dates because we liked each other (no sex on first few dates for me anyhow)

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