Why do people think cum is gross?

[kittylicks]

And I'm not asking about exceptions here, so please don't give the "not everybody does" speech. Fact is most everyone thinks it's nasty, why? It's just a bodily fluid; wait, it's more than that. "Cum" is the starting point of life, so it's quite beautiful and special. Obviously dirty people are nasty, but if the guy is fit & clean then why do people still think the Cum is gross? I don't get it. Wives not swallowing for their husbands should go to jail! I only blow guys if I'd swallow for them. They're fit, nice & clean. Anyway, why do people think Cum is so nasty? Vagina slime/moisture is way more nasty but no one complains about that! In fact, a wet vag is bragging rights :/

[sa230e]

It's just one of those things where it's all in how you think about it. If you think about it clinically, about the taste and the texture and the smell, if you think of it as baby batter, it really isn't sexy. But if you think of ejaculation as an act of affection and gratitude and cum as the end product of something loving and enjoyable, it might be a lot more enjoyable. It's the context that gives it appeal.

And to be fair, while part of the reason for that may be that women are socialized to be clean and averse to bodily fluids, a lot of the time it's men that give them a bad impression. Unfortunately, a lot of girls get their first experience with semen when a guy rams his dick down her throat and orders her to swallow. It's hard to love something when you feel pressured and ordered to love it. I think the pressure to swallow and take a facial is the reason why most women seem to think of cum shots as demeaning.

I think if more girls had their formative sexual experiences in a position of control, if girls had the leisure to go at their own pace and explore the male body, maybe they wouldn't be as disgusted by cum. I think it's important that the male orgasm be something a woman gives to a man, not something a man takes from a woman. That's difference between a rewarding and empowering experience and usury.

By the way, I like your enthusiasm but I could never blame a woman for not wanting to swallow cum. Swallowing is a nice gesture but you shouldn't go to jail for doing things you're uncomfortable with sexually.

[kittylicks]

Haha, the jail thing was a joke. I just love cum. I live for it! Best part of the BJ!!

[sa230e]

Yeah I figured but it bears saying.

[kittylicks]

by the way -- only swallow if the guys is attractive/clean/I care for him. Do not casually swallow as it would gross me out, and hence why I can appreciate why girls don't like it. To me it's just crazy not to love it from yo' man/hot dude.

[Orion1084]

Well, I can't speak for everyone, but I've been with girls who were not exactly fans of it.

They didn't think it was gross, exactly, but I tend to ejaculate a surprisingly large amount, in addition to being a very, very strong shooter. As a result, they thought it was just extremely messy.

It was difficult for them to swallow (due to the strength of ejaculation, they would choke), so they would involuntarily pull away, causing it to go everywhere.

It was just a matter of them not wanting to get it all over themselves, really.

[kittylicks]

I could handle you with ease.

[Orion1084]

Haha, I've heard that before, actually. I'd let you prove it, though. :)

[kittylicks]

No you wouldn't. I've had guys like you before; never having a girl who can do it. I'm a deep throat queen. Trust me, I'd handle you with ease.

[kittylicks]

Miss read your post. Not wearing my glasses :D

[Orion1084]

You seem very confident, so I believe you. I've never been deepthroated, either, so I'd actually be very intrigued. It'd be nice to find a woman that loved cum as much as you do, too.

[tinyclit]

If you don't like his cum I have two suggestions: 1) change his diet because diet really does affect the taste and 2) swallow it more often so that you get used to it.

[Climber]

Well, it doesn't look like a tasty dish. But it is with all strange food you eat for the first time. Switch of brains and just taste and then judge.

[idkwtftoputhere]

Cum is the starting point of life which is why I don't like it yunno. I don't want babies.

[kittylicks]

You can't get pregnant from swallowing.

[idkwtftoputhere]

Tru but i'll probs start gagging on it because of the texture. It's the same reason I can't eat yogurt -- can't swallow that shit.

[MaskedSanity]

"Wives not swallowing for their husbands should go to jail!"

Yeah, you're an idiot.

[idkwtftoputhere]

Woah Asker, no need to get so worked up lmao

[kittylicks]

My sense of humour is just fine. You got your panty in a knot for nothing. But perhaps I can take the mean o meter down despite your idiocy :D

[MaskedSanity]

I made a single comment and you shat yourself throwing a bunch of petty insults. Can you be any more basic? :3

[kittylicks]

You called me an idiot, when in fact you are because you're too "basic" to see I was kidding. And you are so obvious lame in bed. I deep throat & swallow which already makes me a zillion times better than you :)

[MaskedSanity]

I really don't care about how much dick you suck, love.

[kittylicks]

Since you keep coming back, obviously you do :)

[MaskedSanity]

I come back because I have a notification in my inbox. Not winning any brilliance awards anytime soon, I see.

[kittylicks]

You could choose to ignore as it shows what thread first. But you're a basic bitch, whose bad in bed and likes to read from those are actually good.

[MaskedSanity]

Aww muffin, have you already run out of insults that you have to use the one that glaringly applies to you? :3 You're not very sharp, if you STILL haven't sussed out that I'm winding you up for my amusement. Dance, muppet. <3

[kittylicks]

Tell yourself what you want, but I'm the toying with you. Sea cow ♡

[MaskedSanity]

Sure, tell that to the text walls of butthurt you produce, lol.

[kittylicks]

Shouldn't you be off praying?;is that your idea of fun on a Friday night?

[MaskedSanity]

Never heard of praying on Friday nights before. Is that what you do at your church?

[kittylicks]

Seeing as I'm an atheist, No. However, it's probably fun to you miss lame in bed.

[MaskedSanity]

Keep trying, muffin.

[jenn_r]

Beats me. I don't know any girls who think it's gross though. Cum is good for you.

[fauchelevent]

I'd say it's purely because it doesn't taste very good to most people.

[thatkaruguy]

most people dont think its gross its just messy and slimy

[mikedtown1986]

I am so giving you a cyber high five right now 👋 if more weman thought like you they wouldn't have to worry about there men stepping out on them sex and mean good sex is powerful for both parties nothing makes me harder or more happy to finish when she says i want your cum in my mouth and for men if you want her ro swallow change you diet pineapples daily have done wonders for the taset my girls said so she did the same and OMG i will suck the shit out her pussy After she cums ill tell you what ladies after he fucks your brians out tell him to stand up and you get on your knees and suck his cock and swallow that man will bow to you after words mark my words lmao

[kittylicks]

* high 5 *

[abundantlyrich]

Do you drink it like wine?

😅

Well its still yuvkkkkkay

[theguyisback]

Your question reads like I would've written it lol
Bravo! 👌🏻

[Dargil]

I think some people associate it with pee and poo.
Also, I think it exposes some girls' repulsion from the more visceral parts of sex. Some are even grossed out by a lot of vaginal mucus and natural growth of pubic hair.

[kittylicks]

Why would they associate it with poo? Yuck. Swallowing cum is yummy. Poop? Never!!!

[Dargil]

A guess only but many girls have a low threshold "Eww" factor. I can't think of anything I would like to do more than her-on-top 69 oral. A flood of fluids I think is as hot as can be.

[meatballs21]

Can you think of any other bodily secretion you'd readily consume such a large quantity of, especially SOMEONE ELSE'S bodily secretion?
-mucus
-pus
-urine
-feces
-bile
-perspiration
-saliva
-earwax

[kittylicks]

Those are vile bodily fluids. Cum is not. Cum is the starting point if life. If he's in shape it can be tasteless and watery too.

[meatballs21]

Many people think gargling a briny load of splooge is 'vile' too. Even eating a ton of pineapple won't entirely ease the taste, I'm told.

[kittylicks]

If I love him, doesn't matter the taste. Cum, even if not the most tasty substance, isn't a dirty body fluid like pee etc. I can't imagine not swallowing for my man.

[MattDamonAndFriends]

If it's beautiful because it creates life than its evil to swallow! You're drinking the most beautiful thing in the world you're wasting it , I think it's okay for a woman not to swallow the same way it's okay for a woman not want to be cummed in or have sex at all everyone gets a choice and if your choice is to swallow baby's in your belly than that's your choice my girlfriend said you get used to after all a while and it'd feel different not to swallow because she's used to doing it, I think if girls gave it a chance more than ten times they'd get use to it the way you and her are but some girls won't because the thought of it grosses them out or when they do the first time they don't want to a second time in the end it doesn't matter I've met girls who love to lick assholes but won't lick even taste semen

[usernameisnttaken]

"Wives not swallowing her husband should go to jail" she says! I heart you! Haha

[Skadouchebag]

"Hey, baby. Hows about I blow my nose on you?"

[kittylicks]

It's not like snot if he's healthy. but I get what you're saying.

[blue_sun]

I would assume because it tastes gross. It's not meant for oral consumption, so it's not going to taste very good.

[CaliSoccerFella]

Good for you! it's not gross its kinda awesome haha

[luttapi]

i think it's nasty, because we use same pines for pee

[Anonymous]

I don't thick cum is gross. I think it's pretty sexy actually

[Anonymous]

it just tastes gross.

[Anonymous]

It's like egg whites that taste awful.
If it is in water it sticks to you like glue.

It's just overall an awful substance.

[Anonymous]

It come from their private parts. You wouldn't drink pee, why swallow that?

[kittylicks]

Our vaginas produce lots of fluids and they sure love kissing our vaginas.

[Opinion Owner]

I was speaking for both.

[kittylicks]

I swallow because I don't associate with something disgusting. Semen starts life, pee gets rid of toxins.

[Opinion Owner]

Semen is to start life, alright but through different process. It is not for eating it.

[kittylicks]

Well I enjoy it if I love him :)

[Opinion Owner]

I would never swallow even if I love him and same he would do for me. I would not want him to eat my fluid. That is your choice though. I just can never put my mouth to that place.

[kittylicks]

That's cool. Different strokes for different folks :) if he kisses you done below though he has no choice but to swallow because you are secreting fluids that keep you relaxed & wet.

[Opinion Owner]

He won't kiss me down there. His mouth is not for that place.

[kittylicks]

So not even oral? If that's what you both like OK. But I'll be getting kissed down there and returning the favour 1000000 times over!! I love playing the flute :D !!

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. No orals. :)