At 18 guys get hard all the time. It is normal!
Give him a handjob first to slow him down. Then you can just enjoy kissing etc for a while. Do you go for round two or three. That might slow him down a bit. Does he get you off when you do have sex? What are your thoughts?
We go round three all the time he's just very horny. Sometimes I just wanna kiss and make out and not have sex or that day that's the point... I feel like a sex material sometimes...
Then you need to tell him what you want. Let him know that it is not all about his orgasms. You control things, tell him maybe there will be sex after an hour of foreplay.
He gets turned on and I say that getting hard in situations like this is completely normal. If you don't want sex all the time, then it's up to him to control having sex because we can't really avoid getting hard.
Why is everyone saying guys can't control it? I thought you only get hard when your brain thinks sexually.
Because it's true, we can't control it. It seems the dick has his own life, he controls himself. I don't mean it's an excuse though, we can't control when it'll get hard but we can control what we do with it.
Sucks to be attractive right? You can't help it.
Just don't give in to his advances
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!That's a natural response and we don't have any control over when we get hard, but it does not have to lead to sex every time he gets hard
Yes it does! Whenever he gets hard he pulls himself out and rub on my legs and pants...
Yes but, mayb he doesn't know u feel like this. Im sure if u communicate him in a calm manner what u feel (that ud like to only kiss more now and then), im sure hed b able to control himself. He might think u want it all the time too i u dint speak up. How can he read ur mind?
Really he does that every time he gets hard? He needs to learn to keep it in sometimes then...
Well some guys can get aroused easy and get erections , i had some girl stare me down
longtime ago and she turned me on,,
But I asked him to stop because I don't want to have sex that day but he just keeps getting hrder and harder as we make out :/
Well that's something you need to talk to him about
It's big time flattery. He can't control what his dick does
I thought he woukd only get hard if he thinks about sex.
Nope at younger ages it sometimes does what it wants. When he kisses you that is sexually stimulating and its going to be that way for a few more years. You can't just turn off the young male sex drive
This is absolutely normal. We can't control erections.
Guys can't control their erections, doesn't mean he's trying fuck you every second.
I'm sure you can't control when you get wet so why make it like it's only a guy thing.
lol when it wants to come up it comes up. We can't always control it. It's very normal believe it or not. But that doesn't mean he has to stick it in you each time. Just say down boy, not right now.
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