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My boyfriend of 3 years was on kik sending & asking for nudes and videos back. please read the details and give me your input?

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I have no problem with him watching porn, We have a healthy sex life, it's great, we use toys, etc. however I recently caught him on Kik sending videos of him masturbating, and asking for videos and nudes from other females. He was calling them baby, and tell them how perfect they were. I feel cheated on, disrespected, and I can't not stop thinking about it. Someone, anyone, please tell me if I have the right to feel extremely hurt by this. I don't know if we should even be together anymore. Guys & girls, please tell me what you think, or what'd you do. PLEASE.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • YES absolutely you have every right to feel hurt and mostly betrayed, its one thing to find out they're cheating when you don't have a healthy relationship, it's another thing to find out when you're literally so blinded to it. I don't personally think you should remain in a relationship with him because it'll be hard for you to trust him again, you'll constantly be second guessing him telling you the truth and most importantly, he's basically indirectly saying you're not enough. Don't settle for someone who isn't going to treat you the best.

  • Kick his cheating butt to the curb and move on. There's going to be at least two guys in the whole world who will be more than will to treat you right and respect your sex life in front and behind your back

  • please break up with him and find a good guy.

    You have the full right to feel hurt. Your boyfriend exchanging nudes and videos with other women, complimenting them... its not appropriate.

    • I'm trying to find the guts to do it. I love him more than anything, but after this, it's made me feel not only disgusted with him, but I feel disgusted with my self. not good enough. :(

Most Helpful Guys

  • You two should talk, maybe he is doing that because he feel somehow empty in the relationship at the same time he still wants to be with you and doesn't know to express him self, or probably he is just an asshole that doesn't know to control his sex impulse. Either he has an issue with commitment or there is something in the relationship that he hates.

  • If a girl did that to me we would be over. You can't have a relationship without trust, and I'm sure he has done this stuff before you just now found out.

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  • I think you should of course feel some type of way. That is disrespectful. But you should tell him exactly how you feel and don't sure coat anything.

  • Just dump him.

  • Get revenge on him and cheat on him

  • That is cheating beat his ass for it brake his phone what guy dose something like that

  • break up with that motherfucker he doesn't deserve you. if i caught my boyfriend doing that we'd be over in a second. dont take that shit from anyone.

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