Should I dump my girlfriend cause she doesn't want penetration in her vagina?

Question

My dick isn't too big, it's max 17.5cm (6.9 inches), but the first time we did it she said it hurt a little and my dick could not go deep fully, it like went in at most 5 or 4 inches and she said "that's all there is". She's not a virgin or anything, she even has a kid. But she said she doesn't like the penetrative sex and just wants us to play with eachother's genitals with our hands and mouths. I'm thinking of dumping her, cause that's not sex.

Like what the hell is she good for if you can't use her pussy? I know most women want the man himself and think the dick is just some foreign thing attatched to him, I just want the vagina and the woman is just something annoying attatched to it. Like you can't even play video games with her, what good is she?

Should I just dump her? Cause I don't how to do that without causing drama, she might even become violent.

Hidden_P · Accepted Answer

Yes you should dump her.

As crudely as you've put this, I agree in a way. Firstly I don't agree with the fact you seem to think women walking vaginas, but I think what you meant is your relationship goals are different? You want penetrative sex she doesn't? And that's causing an issue.

You should break up. She shouldn't feel uncomfortable and you shouldn't "miss out". At the end of the day if you stay with her you will seek someone else out and potentially cheat and you know why? Because your relationship isn't fulfilling you. A lot of cheating relationships is because the cheater isn't having all the needs he/she needs met (not all cheaters obviously).

So yes. This relationship won't make you happy and the longer you leave it the worse it will be. It sounds like you've talked and when you leave her I would tell her the reason why (don't want to make her think it's the kid). Be honest, just don't be so crude...

SolitaireBond · Accepted Answer

Would you please, please please do this girl a huge favour and dump her immediately.. It will then allow her to move on and find herself a really decent guy.. One who knows and understands women.

As for you.. Just find yourself a prostitute.. Preferably one who doesn't care who she spreads her legs for.

AuroraOak · Accepted Answer

Go with what you want. If you prefer the full on sex, then find a girl that will do that with you. Are you likely to cheat if you don't get the type of sex you want with your GF? If the answer is yes, then move on. Your girlfriend must have some other reason for not liking penetration.

MaskedSanity · Accepted Answer

Such edgy Much controversial Very troll Wow

Theguyoverthere · Accepted Answer

Yea dump her. You sound like you're looking for a friends with benefits compared to a girlfriend.

I don't think a friends with benefits would be satisfied with you sexually though since you only seem to be interested in ejaculating into her and leaving her there bored while you're playing video games.

serp777 · Accepted Answer

Yeah fuck that. And you have to deal with her kids too? Why would you waste your time. The entire purpose of dating is sex. Why else would you date? If you don't have sex its basically just a friendship.

spuitkaas · Answer

Yeah you should break up because she deserves better. Goddamn you're a douche.

Deezyy · Answer

Yes. Dump her so she can find a nicer boyfriend.

JerichoStorm · Answer

Yes, do her a favor and dump her. She can find a much better guy than you.

linkywinky · Answer

Sure go for it

Creative_Catbug · Answer

Yeah you should dump her :3 she deserves better ^_^ But on a side note...4/10 for the troll effort

SilenRose · Answer

I say dump her because she doesn't need a pig like you.

DodgersGM · Answer

I think your weewee is too small. :(

CallMeMissT · Answer

By the sounds of it you don't really sound like you should have a girlfriend if all you want is a vagina... But yeah, if that's an issue your relationship will be quite awkward so you should probably be straight and end it