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Guys, how common is it for a guy to cum while making out with a girl?

I was making out with my boyfriend and lying down with him on top of me. We've only been together for a few weeks and have agreed that we don't want to rush things, so we haven't had sex. We were both fully dressed. Later that night, he told me that he came and was kind of embarrassed about it. I was surprised because I hadn't even noticed. How common is it for a guy to cum while making out with a girl? Why would he be embarrassed by it?
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  • Very common especially for teens. Personally, I have done it many times between the ages of 15-17. There's a lot of hormones pumping through the veins and for guys sometimes you just can't help it. Pretty amazed that he told you but maybe he thought you knew. It's kind hard to cover up. I once went to the bathroom and pulled out the hair dryer to cover up my mishap. Go easy on him I'm sure he's embarrassed.

    • He's not a teenager. He's 28 and said it's never happened before. Why is it amazing that he told me? Do you think he could have a premature ejaculation problem even if it only happened once?

    • I just assumed he was younger:) sorry. It could be a combination of many things. He obviously finds you very attractive and the situation where he came in his pants is unfortunate for his age but can still happen if you're grinding the right spot. I don't think he has a premature ejac problem but if he continues to exhibit that then yeah maybe he does. Give it some time.

  • It happens; not very often but sometimes guys get worked up and they're really like a ticking time bomb down there. I'd take it as a compliment really; apparently you are so hot at making out that it gets him off. Sounds like he may want to rub one out before coming over; it'll drop the sensitivity down a bit.

    • I took it as a compliment, but then he said he was very embarrassed. If he was complimenting me, why would he be embarrassed? That's why I'm wondering if it had something to do with him.

    • Well it is kind of embarrassing on the guys end. Guys like the more masculine (aka porn) type of sex where they last a long time and make sure the woman is pleased first before they finish. The whole notion of premature ejaculation is terrifying for a male; everyone seems to make fun of it for whatever reason. As long as you're happy with him just reassure him that it's good, you like it when it happens and it'll work out fine.

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  • I think he may have lied to make you feel good. I mean, it is not impossible but it is implausible. He probably exaggerated to make you understand how much he loved making out with you and how you make him feel

  • This is the first time I hear that. Poor guy, imagine how is it gonna be when you try to have sex, he's gonna come as soon as you get naked.

  • He will last about 30 milliseconds in bed

  • Depends on age and excitement. If he's very young and inexperienced, it's not very surprising. But with even just a little experience it almost never happens.

    • He's 28 and I don't know his number, but I know that he's had relationships in the past. He said he's just attracted to me and that I was making him horny, but is that enough to make him cum?

  • It happens, that's certain. How often? Very individual, I guess. Guys don't tell these things to each other.

  • whats his age? if very young like late teens and hadn't masturbated recetnly it may happen. If a bit older will have more control.
    Also if he is new, he may mean a lot of precum as cumming. if a guy cums hard his cock will hv a boner and it will twitch and since he is on top u shud feel it.

    • He's 28, so he's not exactly a teenager.

  • Very rare, I dare say. I can get hard making out, but cumming? Come on!

  • I had this happen to me only once and it was when I was a viewing & very young with an extremely beautiful girl. He was embarrassed b/c as a guy you want to last long so you can please your women. A women can usually feel a guys cock throb/ twitch when he cums and he'll lose his erection so it should be easy to tell is his boner goes away all of a sudden. Also a lot of guys lose interest after ejaculating

  • you're obviously attractive and he is horny. he is embarrassed cause he wanted to hold out and last a long time. How quickly was it? 2 minutes?

    • I wasn't paying attention to time, but it was definitely more than 2 minutes!

  • Never for me anyway that sounds like a premature ejaculator

    • If a guy was a premature ejaculator, would he admit it?

    • Probably not it's not a good selling point

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